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Improve With Auntie

By: Andrea Klunder The Creative Impostor Studios
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  • A round table for aunties like us to come together to share our brilliant ideas, sharp wit, and A+ advice. Whether you're called Auntie, Aunt, Tia, Titi, Aunty, Tante or by any other name, and related by blood or by spirit, you are a fountain of wisdom, a trusted guide, a beguiling role model who brings tremendous love to those you call family. Join us for some conversation, a little bit of self-improvement, and whole lotta laughs because aunties need a place of our own too. And now you've found it!
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Episodes
  • Let's Talk About Sex: Be Your Own Valentine

    Let's Talk About Sex: Be Your Own Valentine
    Feb 14 2022
    Well, aunties, we’ve come to that point in our episodic relationship where the conversation turns to love and sex. ‘Tis the season for roses and boxed chocolates after all. Red and pink pile-up aside, Valentine’s Day does present an excellent opportunity for me to ask a trio of esteemed folks about engaging in “those” types of discussions with the younger set.  This auntie chat has tons of advice and resources from wise adults that I wish I’d had access to when I was growing up: Karen Yates is a somatic sex educator and host of the podcast Wild & Sublime; triple-threat Andrea Fellows Fineberg is a librettist, director of community engagement at Santa Fe Opera as well as host of Key Change, one of the organziation’s podcasts; and Helen King is a New Zeland-based podcast editor and host of The C Word Radio.  I’m thrilled that our understanding of consent has expanded and that those lessons are shared earlier now (yay!). On the flip side, body shame and fear of nonbinary expressions of gender persists (boo!). So, how should aunties proceed?  With love, of course, that’s our superpower! Clear-eyed honesty, too, when it comes to any topic––but especially love and sex-–is also one of our superpowers (we’ve so many!). However, a question submitted to the “Ask Aunties” segment of this episode tests the possible limits of auntie honesty. My guests provide the most thoughtful (and honest!) answers, as you'd expect.  Ultimately, we aunties are at our best when we’re present for conversations about sex and love, vulnerable in answering, and as joyfully curious about the topic as those asking the questions.  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE The Simpsons Valentine’s clip - You choo-choo-choose me Julián is a Mermaid - Jessica Love Scarleteen: Sex Education For the Real World S.E.X: The All-You-Need-To-Know Sexuality Guide To Get You Through Your Teens And Twenties - Heather Corinna To Raise a Boy: Classrooms, Locker Rooms, Bedrooms, and the Hidden Struggles of American Boyhood -  Emma Brown Bookshop.org (gift shopping that supports indie bookstores AND Improve With Auntie)   CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS Karen Yates The Wild & Sublime Podcast – Wild & Sublime   Andrea Fellows Fineberg Podcasts | Santa Fe Opera   Helen King Cancer Support | The C Word Radio   Join the Round Table Share the Love in our Auntie Tip Jar   Get on our Cool Auntie email list Ask your question for "Ask Aunties", share a "Proud Auntie" moment, tell a "How NOT to Auntie" tale. Upload audio files here. Or email your story to Andrea: andrea [at] thecreativeimpostor.com @improvewithauntie - Instagram *** Produced by The Creative Impostor Studios Edited by Andrea Klunder Technical Director Edwin R. Ruiz Music Curation & Sound Design by Andrea Klunder Show Notes by Lisa Widder Original Cover Art by Cindy Alcantara Learn more and visit us at ImproveWithAuntie.com
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    50 mins
  • Laughing, Crying: Emotional Intelligence

    Laughing, Crying: Emotional Intelligence
    Feb 5 2022

    Emotional intelligence, like sharing, is one of those competencies that’s best acquired early on. Anyone with access to an auntie has an advantage here. But my roundtable guests Pam Covarrubias, Caren Evers, and Lisa Widder all agree that they’ve received just as much as they’ve given when it comes to emotional intelligence. Possibly even more.

    Aunties play a significant role in reinforcing a child’s ability to assess, express, and work with their emotions.

     From navigating playground disagreements to sleepover cliques, an auntie can bring into focus aspects of a situation that parents might take for granted–– Caren points out that our ability to observe in this way often means we’re more acutely affected since our time with the ones we love is limited.

    It turns out I’m battling some of the same patriarchal messages that my roundtable aunties experienced growing up, such as girls remaining genial at all costs and boys stoic.

    Lisa's pleased to see that needle moving. She points out that kids receive more encouragement to explore and examine their feelings in real time now.

    Pam says that her role as an auntie is to provide more overt emotional support to her nieces and nephews than she experienced growing up. 

    Don’t mind us. We’re just a few aunties vanquishing outdated norms and helping the world cultivate greater emotional intelligence.

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    Join the Round Table

    Share the Love in our Auntie Tip Jar   Get on our Cool Auntie email list

    Ask your question for "Ask Aunties", share a "Proud Auntie" moment, tell a "How NOT to Auntie" tale, or send us some photos of your fave holiday gifts for our IG. Upload photos or audio files here.

    Or email your story or pics to Andrea: andrea [at] thecreativeimpostor.com

    @improvewithauntie - Instagram

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    Produced by The Creative Impostor Studios

    Edited by Maddie Shewchuk & Andrea Klunder

    Technical Director Edwin R. Ruiz

    Music Curation & Sound Design by Andrea Klunder

    Show Notes by Lisa Widder

    Original Cover Art by Cindy Alcantara

    Learn more and visit us at ImproveWithAuntie.com
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    47 mins
  • Money, Money, Money, Honey: Building Legacy

    Money, Money, Money, Honey: Building Legacy
    Jan 16 2022
    Money. We don’t talk about it nearly enough. Given that conversations centered on that word often come with tons of familial baggage, I can understand why.  Who better to unpack those taboos than a collective of fiscally forward aunties? Modern aunties are in a position to enhance the financial awareness and even the physical well-being of their families like never before. Those without children, for example, carry different economic burdens than parents; our experiences provide intel that differs from what kids may receive at home. Aunties with offspring of their own lend an inside-out perspective to ideas about earning, spending and sharing the wealth.  Guests Monica Rivera, Pam Covarrubias, and Diana Solomon-Glover agree that aunties––like parents and grandparents––are motivated to generate abundance for their families. As a result, each of these aunties has taken steps to make that happen! From casual gift-giving to long-range estate planning, they’ve ensured that their legacies have value beyond dollars and cents.      *** Join the Round Table Share the Love in our Auntie Tip Jar   Get on our Cool Auntie email list Ask your question for "Ask Aunties", share a "Proud Auntie" or "Cool Things Aunties Do" moment, tell a "How NOT to Auntie" tale, or tag us on IG @improvewithauntie in your fave auntie posts. Upload audio files here. Or email your story to Andrea: andrea [at] thecreativeimpostor.com @improvewithauntie - Instagram Mentioned in This Episode More Than Money with Jaquette Timmons  UTMA Stash Key Change podcast featuring Diana The Creative Impostor featuring Pam The Creative Impostor featuring Monica *** Produced by The Creative Impostor Studios Edited by Maddie Shewchuk & Andrea Klunder Technical Director Edwin R. Ruiz Music Curation & Sound Design by Andrea Klunder Show Notes by Lisa Widder Original Cover Art by Cindy Alcantara Learn more and visit us at ImproveWithAuntie.com
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    42 mins
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