Episodios

  • 87. Strengthening Relationships Through Conflict with Donna Jones
    Oct 29 2025

    In this conversation, Donna Jones and Monika Kirkland explore the complexities of conflict resolution in relationships, emphasizing the importance of addressing conflicts with grace and truth. They discuss the dynamics of conflict in friendships and family, the spectrum of conflict responses, and the significance of understanding different perspectives. The conversation culminates in practical advice for handling conflict, especially in family settings, and the importance of modeling healthy conflict resolution for future generations.


    Takeaways:

    - Conflict can lead to deeper intimacy in relationships.
    - Truth, grace, and forgiveness are essential in conflict resolution.
    - The enemy encourages bitterness and resentment in unresolved conflicts.
    - Avoiders and attackers are both unhealthy responses to conflict.
    - The ideal approach is to be an 'addressers' in conflict situations.
    - Asking questions first can lead to better understanding.
    - Listening to others fosters a willingness to be heard in return.
    - Conflict is a natural part of relationships, not a sign of failure.
    - Modeling healthy conflict resolution sets a positive example for children

    CONNECT WITH DONNA
    Her Instagram: @DonnaAJones
    Her Website: DonnaJones.org
    Her Book: Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE

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    38 m
  • 86. Knowing God's Voice: How to Recognize, Trust and Obey God with Rachael Groll
    Oct 16 2025

    In this conversation, Monika Kirkland and Rachael Groll explore the themes of faith, obedience, and the importance of seeking God's voice in our lives. They share personal stories of how God prepares us for unexpected challenges and the significance of carrying words from God, even when their meaning isn't clear. The discussion emphasizes the need for confirmation, the grace in making mistakes, and the importance of worship during waiting periods. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to trust God's timing and to always seek more from Him.


    Takeaways:

    - Obedience to God's prompting can lead to unexpected blessings.
    - Confirmation from God can come in various forms.
    - Mistakes in hearing God's voice can lead to growth and understanding.
    - Trusting God's timing is crucial in our faith journey.
    - Worshiping during waiting periods is essential for spiritual growth.
    - We should seek wise counsel when making big decisions.
    - God's plans may unfold in ways we don't expect.
    - There is always more to seek from God in our spiritual journey.
    - Our experiences can encourage others in their faith.

    CONNECT WITH AMANDA
    Her Instagram: @rachael.d.groll
    Her Website: Rachelgroll.com
    Her Book: Knowing God's Voice

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE

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    44 m
  • 85. Reviving the Bible Stories You Thought You Knew with Amanda Hope Haley
    Oct 2 2025

    In this engaging conversation, Amanda Hope Haley and Monika Kirkland discusses the importance of understanding biblical texts through the lens of archaeology, addressing common misconceptions, particularly regarding figures like Mary Magdalene. The conversation also explores how artistic interpretations of biblical stories can shape our understanding and the need to approach scripture with curiosity and a desire to learn.


    Takeaways:

    • Cultural context plays a significant role in interpreting scripture.
    • Amanda's journey into biblical archaeology began with a love for scripture.
    • Archaeology helps clarify perceived contradictions in scripture.
    • Artistic representations of biblical stories often reflect cultural biases.
    • Mary Magdalene is misrepresented in popular culture as a sinner.
    • The discovery of Magdala provides new insights into Mary Magdalene's background.
    • The Bible presents characters with both strengths and flaws.
    • God's commitment to humanity is reflected in the stories of the Bible.

    CONNECT WITH AMANDA
    Her Instagram: @AmandaHopeHaley
    Her Website: RedHairedAchaeologist.com
    Her Book: Stones Still Speak

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE

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    28 m
  • 84. Finding Hope in Jesus When the World Feels Heavy
    Sep 18 2025

    In this episode, Monika Kirkland addresses the heavy hearts of listeners in light of recent tragic events. She emphasizes the importance of prayer, praise, and processing emotions within a community. Monika shares practical ways to respond to the turmoil in the world, encouraging listeners to seek God, worship, and engage in meaningful conversations with trusted individuals. The episode concludes with a reminder of God's sovereign plan and the hope found in Jesus.


    Takeaways:

    • Prayer is an active practice that teaches us how to act.
    • Worship is a prophetic declaration of God's goodness.
    • Processing emotions with trusted individuals is crucial for healing.
    • We must not isolate ourselves during difficult times.
    • Community helps preserve unity and peace.
    • God's plans will prevail despite the chaos.
    • In dark times, we should keep our eyes on Jesus.
    • Revival starts in our hearts and homes.

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE

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    14 m
  • 83. From Lies to Truth: Finding Freedom in God's Word with Brendt Blanks
    Sep 4 2025

    In this episode of the Inner Revival Podcast, host Monika Kirkland speaks with Brendt Blanks, founder of She Gave It A Go, about her journey from being a marriage and family therapist to becoming an author and content creator. They discuss the importance of reframing negative thoughts, recognizing cultural lies, and anchoring oneself in God's truth. Brendt shares practical tools for discernment and growth, emphasizing the significance of community and mentorship. The conversation concludes with encouragement for women facing lies and the reminder that God's mercies are new every morning.


    Takeaways:

    • Women often feel pressured to hustle, but God values stillness and connection.
    • Practicing gratitude can help ease anxiety and fear.
    • It's never too late to start replacing negative narratives.
    • Community and mentorship are vital for personal growth.
    • God's mercies are new every morning, offering hope.
    • Reframing thoughts can lead to better emotional responses.
    • Listening to God's truth can transform our lives.

    CONNECT WITH BRENDT
    Her Instagram: @shegaveitago
    Her Website: www.SheGaveItAGo.com
    Her Book: Listen Closer

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE

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    36 m
  • 82. Handling Rejection & Friendship Breakups with Kristen Strong
    Aug 21 2025

    In this episode of the Inner Revival podcast, Monika Kirkland interviews Kristen Strong, author of 'Desperate Woman Seeks Friends.' They discuss the challenges of making and maintaining friendships, especially in the context of moving and military life. Kristen shares her personal experiences of feeling lonely and desperate for connection, the importance of managing expectations in friendships, and the pain of friendship breakups. They emphasize the need for intentionality in building relationships, the significance of prayer, and the comfort found in Jesus during lonely seasons. The conversation offers encouragement for those feeling isolated and practical tips for fostering community.


    Takeaways:

    • Friendship can be challenging, especially in transient lifestyles.
    • Expectations in friendships can lead to disappointment.
    • It's important to manage your own expectations and not overwhelm others.
    • Loneliness can be a season of growth and intimacy with God.
    • Friendship breakups can be as painful as romantic ones.
    • Creating simple opportunities for connection can foster friendships.
    • Prayer is essential in seeking community and support.
    • Opening your home can create a welcoming space for friendships.
    • It's okay to be the initiator in friendships; it can be a blessing.
    • Jesus is our ultimate friend who never fails us.

    CONNECT WITH KRISTEN
    Her Instagram: @kristenstrong
    Her Website: KristenStrong.com
    Her Book: Desperate Woman Seeks Friends

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE

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    41 m
  • 81. Finding Peace in the Midst of Anxiety, Grief, and Waiting on God with Kara Stout
    Aug 11 2025
    In this episode of the Inner Revival Podcast, host Monika Kirkland sits down with Kara Stout, author of 'An Untroubled Heart.' They discuss the journey of finding peace amidst anxiety, grief, and waiting on God. Kara shares her personal experiences with infertility, loss, and the importance of anchoring oneself in God's presence. The conversation emphasizes the power of prayer, gratitude, and the transformative nature of relying on God during difficult seasons. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's peace and comfort, even in the midst of life's challenges. Takeaways:
    • Anxiety can signal a need to turn to God.
    • Grief can deepen our relationship with God.
    • Waiting on God is an active process, not passive.
    • Prayer and scripture reading are vital in tough times.
    • Thankfulness can shift our perspective during anxiety.
    • God's peace is available despite our circumstances.
    • We can be honest with God about our pain.

    CONNECT WITH NATALIA
    Her Instagram: @sincerelybykara
    Her Website: KaraStout.com
    Her Book: An Untroubled Heart

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    Sign up for my monthly email list and receive a FREE PDF copy of my four-week devotional "Draw Near." https://mailchi.mp/488305f9845f/oh-hello

    Follow Monika on Instagram for more faith, lifestyle, & encouragement
    https://www.instagram.com/monikakirkland/

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    26 m
  • 80. Hell, Eternity, and the Character of God with Natalia Drumm | Let's Talk About It
    Jun 30 2025

    In this conversation, Monika Kirkland and Natalia Drumm explore the complex and often avoided topic of the doctrine of hell. They discuss the challenges pastors face in addressing this subject, the importance of biblical literacy, and the various theological perspectives on hell, including eternal conscious torment, annihilationism, and universalism. The conversation emphasizes the need for a deep understanding of God's character, justice, and mercy, and encourages listeners to engage with scripture to find comfort and clarity in their faith.

    Takeaways:

    • The doctrine of hell is often misunderstood or avoided in modern Christianity.
    • God's justice and mercy are intertwined in the conversation about hell.
    • Different theological perspectives exist regarding the nature of hell.
    • Fear can be a motivator for faith, but it should not be the end point.
    • We must accurately teach the character of God to understand hell.
    • The gospel offers a way out of hell through Jesus Christ.
    • Engaging with scripture is essential for spiritual growth and understanding.

    CONNECT WITH NATALIA
    Her Instagram: @nataliadrumm
    Her Website: www.nataliadrumm.com
    Her Podcast: Girlfriends In The Word

    CONNECT WITH MONIKA
    Sign up for my monthly email list and receive a FREE PDF copy of my four-week devotional "Draw Near." https://mailchi.mp/488305f9845f/oh-hello

    Follow Monika on Instagram for more faith, lifestyle, & encouragement
    https://www.instagram.com/monikakirkland/

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    50 m