Widowhood presents profound challenges, with loneliness permeating every aspect of life, including the realm of sexuality. The loss goes beyond losing a life partner; it extends to losing a sexual companion as well.

In this week’s Java with Juli, Dr. Carol Tanksley, who became widowed after just seven years of marriage in 2016, delves into the complexities faced by widows, and sheds light on the emotional and psychological hurdles they face. She also shares her personal experience of surrendering her sexuality to God in widowhood.

Guest: Dr. Carol Tanklsey

Carol’s website: drcarolministries.com

Carol’s Instagram: @drcarolt

Book: Sexpectations by Dr. Carol Tanksley

Book: The Other Half of Church by Michel Hendricks and Jim Wilder

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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Why are we all so lonely? Why is it that at a time when we are more connected than ever, many of us find ourselves feeling lonely and isolated?

Jeff Kemp and Juli explore what’s making us feel lonely, how to bring more vulnerability and honesty into our relationships, and why understanding our identities is pivotal when it comes to cultivating deep, long-lasting friendships.

Guest: Jeff Kemp

Jeff’s Website: jeffkempteam.com

Book: Receive: The Way of Jesus for Men by Jeff Kemp

Book: Level 5 Friendship Playbook (download through the pop up on his website)

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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Married sexuality has its challenges, internal and external, and it can be tempting to quit having sex or step outside the marriage, but there are ways to address some of the issues and overcome them as a couple.

Christian sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma joins Juli to talk about:

• How to manage mismatched libidos

• Why foreplay matters

• What to do if you experience symptoms of Erectile Dysfunction

• Why sex is important in marriage

• How to re-enter holy sexuality and eroticism after abstaining without it becoming sin

Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma

Website: Building Intimate Marriages

Instagram: @buildingintimatemarriages

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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.