Surviving and Thriving: A Firefighter Wife's Journey through Life's Challenges

In this episode of 'Just a Girl and Her Firefighter,' Kristi Hilmer interviews her friend Heather, who shares her remarkable journey of integration into the first responder lifestyle. Heather talks about meeting her husband during EMT training, going through nursing school, and the challenges of blending families with eight children, including twins. They discuss their separation, subsequent divorce, and eventual reconciliation after deep self-reflection and coaching. Together, they now run 'Relationship CPR,' offering coaching to couples in high-stress jobs, emphasizing communication, self-understanding, and the importance of community support. The episode highlights the difficulties, triumphs, and transformations in first responder relationships, advocating the need for creating positive environments both at home and in the workplace.

00:00 Welcome to Just a Girl and Her Firefighter

01:01 Meet Heather: A Journey into Healthcare and Family

02:07 Blending Families and Career Challenges

03:52 Navigating Parenthood and Career Transitions

06:38 Struggles and Separation

10:27 Reconciliation and Personal Growth

14:40 Balancing Independence and Partnership

19:31 Creating a Safe Space at Home

22:36 Personal Coaching Journey

24:32 Creating Relationship CPR

25:55 Challenges and Insights

27:09 Community and Support

28:49 Addressing Fire Service Issues

33:50 Resources and Outreach

34:49 Rapid Fire Questions

39:14 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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Balancing Firefighting and Law: Kerri's Family Story

In this episode of 'Just a Girl and Her Firefighter', host Kristi Hilmer chats with Kerri, a Massachusetts-based attorney, about her unique life balancing a full-time law practice, raising kids, and being married to a fourth-generation firefighter. Kerri shares insights into their family dynamics, the challenges of step-family life, dealing with the anxieties of a first responder's dangerous job, and the importance of maintaining a personal identity outside the fire service. The conversation also explores Kerri's personal experiences during significant incidents like the Boston Marathon bombing and the practical routines they've developed over the years to manage stress and ensure family stability.

00:00 Welcome to Just a Girl and Her Firefighter

01:00 Meet Carrie: Balancing Law, Family, and Firefighting

02:02 Family Dynamics and Busy Schedules

03:17 Online Dating and Becoming a Firefighter's Wife

04:38 Surprises and Challenges of Firefighter Life

06:39 The Boston Marathon Bombing Experience

09:45 Handling Anxiety and Communication

19:03 Starting a Law Practice and Managing Worst-Case Scenarios

21:45 Balancing Personal Identity with Firefighter Spouse Life

22:32 Maintaining Individuality in a Firefighter Family

24:31 The Impact of Firefighting on Family Dynamics

25:20 Encouraging Diverse Interests in Children

26:38 Firehouse Pranks and Family Humor

29:05 Understanding the Emotional Toll on Firefighters

32:40 Rapid Fire Questions: Fun and Favorites

35:07 Best Advice for Family Harmony

38:22 Connecting with the Speaker

39:54 Conclusion and Community Invitation

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Navigating Firefighter Life: Conversations with Firewives

Join Kristi Hilmer on 'Just a Girl and Her Firefighter' as she interviews fellow firewife Ashley. They share personal stories, discuss the challenges and surprises of life in the fire service, and emphasize the importance of community and support. Together, they explore how to maintain a strong relationship and a positive outlook while navigating the unique lifestyle of being married to a firefighter. Enjoy insights into practical strategies, mentorship, and the lighter side of firehouse gossip.

00:00 Welcome to Just a Girl and Her Firefighter

01:02 Meet Ashley: A Firewife's Journey

01:48 High School Sweethearts

02:41 The Car Accident That Changed Everything

04:41 From Banking to Firefighting

07:28 Fire Academy and Family Life

11:22 Surprises and Challenges in Fire Service Life

18:16 Balancing Family and Firefighter Life

19:02 The 'Who's More Tired' Game

19:34 Advice for New Firefighter Families

21:18 Understanding Love Languages

23:32 Firefighter Pranks and Surprises

26:16 The Cost of Firefighter Friendships

27:39 Navigating Firefighter Family Dynamics

30:58 Rapid Fire Questions

33:37 Conclusion and Community Invitation

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Navigating First Responder Life and Postpartum Challenges with Yasmina

In this episode of 'Just a Girl and Her Firefighter,' host Kristi Hilmer chats with Yasmina, a fellow firewife married to the creator of the Williams Key. The conversation covers their personal stories, from meeting in high school to balancing family life with their husbands' demanding firefighter schedules. Yasmina shares her experience with postpartum challenges, the importance of community amongst firewives, and offers practical advice for managing the unique aspects of living with a first responder. The episode also touches on the significance of mental health, the power of faith, and maintaining personal identity while supporting their spouses.

00:00 Welcome to Just a Girl and Her Firefighter

01:00 Meet Yasmina: The Firewife with a Celebrity Husband

01:58 A Decade of Love and Two Little Ones

03:38 Navigating the Fire Service Together

05:20 Supporting Each Other Through Bootcamp

07:20 The Importance of Communication and Debriefing

10:39 The Wild World of Hollywood Firefighting

14:15 The Power of Community Among Firewives

17:50 The Power of Social Media Connections

18:04 Struggles with Postpartum and Fire Life

21:40 Finding Support and Overcoming Challenges

24:12 Balancing Family and Firefighter Life

26:47 Funniest Pranks and Firehouse Stories

30:39 Rapid Fire Questions and Best Advice

33:56 Conclusion and Where to Connect

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Navigating First Responder Life: An Interview with Firewife Joelle

In this episode of 'Just a Girl and Her Firefighter,' host Kristi Hilmer chats with Joelle, a fellow Firewife from Marblehead, Massachusetts. Joelle shares her experience of raising children while married to a firefighter, the struggles and joys of their unique family dynamics, and the importance of communication and support. They discuss topics such as the challenges of coordinating schedules, finding time for personal growth, and the emotional aspects of first responder life. Joelle also shares practical advice on finding community support, balancing independence with teamwork, and the significance of being true to oneself.

00:00 Welcome to Just a Girl and Her Firefighter

00:59 Meet Joelle: A Firewife's Journey

02:10 Balancing Daycare and Firefighter Life

03:13 The Challenges of Firefighter Schedules

05:09 How Joelle Met Her Firefighter Husband

07:14 Choosing the Fire Service Path

08:40 Reflecting on 9/11 and Its Impact

13:15 The Emotional Toll of Being a Firewife

16:10 The Importance of Communication in Marriage

19:04 Learning to Communicate in Relationships

20:16 Challenges of Parenting and Communication

20:48 Emotional Support for First Responders

22:42 The Importance of Community and Social Media

24:12 Advice for New Firefighter Spouses

24:52 Finding Personal Fulfillment

26:27 The Role of Babysitters and Support Systems

31:40 The Dynamic Life of a Fire Family

34:55 Rapid Fire Questions

37:14 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Building a Community for First Responder Partners

In the inaugural episode of 'Just a Girl and Her Firefighter,' host Kristi Hilmer introduces herself and shares her journey as the partner of a first responder. Kristi recounts their early years, the challenges they faced, including a devastating fire in their town, and the life lessons they learned. She emphasizes the importance of teamwork within a marriage, especially in first responder families, and her passion for creating a supportive community. Kristi invites listeners to join her in sharing stories, tackling challenges, and building a tight-knit, supportive network for partners of first responders.

00:00 Welcome to Just a Girl and Her Firefighter
00:59 Meet Your Host: Kristi Hilmer
01:35 A Love Story: From High School to Marriage
03:16 Navigating Early Marriage and Careers
05:51 Facing Unexpected Challenges
06:49 The Devastating Wildfire Experience
07:39 Lessons Learned and New Beginnings
13:46 Building a Community for First Responder Families
15:15 Creating a Supportive Network
17:33 Conclusion and Community Invitation

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