Episodios

  • Just Because I Carry It Well Doesn't Mean It's Not Heavy (A Conversation About Trauma) (Video Episode)
    Sep 30 2024

    In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood, I dive deep into the reality of trauma and how, just because I carry it well, doesn’t mean it’s not heavy. I opened up about a pivotal moment in my life—the summer after my sophomore year—when my health took a serious hit and everything changed. I talk about how this led to bullying during my junior year, and how those experiences have left me with lasting emotional scars, even though people constantly tell me I look fine on the outside. I’ll also break down what trauma really is, sharing facts about how it affects us mentally, emotionally, and physically. I reflect on the weight of the last three years and how it still weighs on me, even though I’m constantly told I look “healthy.” To wrap it up, I’ll offer advice on how to cope with trauma and share some of the ways I’ve been working through mine—like journaling, therapy, and prayer. This is a vulnerable, real conversation about carrying the invisible weight of trauma and reminding ourselves that healing is a journey.

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    33 m
  • Finding Your People (How to Make Meaningful Friendships, Make Them Last, and How to Avoid Fake Friends)
    Sep 23 2024

    In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood, I'm diving deep into my journey of finding genuine friendships. After navigating my junior year alone, I'll be sharing how that experience shaped my approach to building meaningful connections. I'll talk about the standards and boundaries I set in my friendships, how I recognized when someone wasn’t right for me, and what I’ve learned about maintaining long-lasting relationships. From spotting red flags to finding my tribe, I’m opening up about everything I've learned about making friendships that truly matter. Join me for some honest reflections, personal stories, and tips on how to build the kind of friendships that make life so much sweeter.

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    57 m
  • Finding Myself: How a Breakup Changed My Life for the Better (Video Episode)
    Sep 16 2024

    In this episode, I’m getting really personal and sharing the story of how my breakup after freshman year completely changed who I am as a person and as a girlfriend. This was my first love, and at the time, I thought everything was perfect. But things quickly went wrong, and it taught me so much about red flags, boundaries, and the importance of never lowering my standards. I’ll talk about how getting sick at the end of my heartbreak actually gave me the time to reflect and rebuild myself.

    I also found comfort in unexpected places, like listening to RED by Taylor Swift on repeat, journaling through my feelings, changing schools, and even taking a chance on dating again, even though that didn’t work out as planned. This breakup shaped me in ways I didn’t expect, and I want to share how I came out of it stronger and more self-aware. If you’ve ever felt lost after a relationship or wondered how to find yourself again, this episode is for you.

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    1 h y 12 m
  • Back to In-Person School & Running for Senior Class Treasurer (Video Episode)
    Sep 9 2024

    In this episode, we dive into the exciting and challenging experience of returning to in-person school after a long period of virtual learning. I share my personal journey of adjusting back to physical classrooms, reconnecting with friends, and navigating the new social dynamics of senior year. Plus, I give you an inside look at my campaign for senior class treasurer—why I’m running, what I hope to accomplish, and how the in-person environment is helping me connect with classmates face-to-face.

    Tune in for tips on balancing academics with extracurriculars, insights into my campaign strategy, and answers to listener questions about handling the transition back to school life. Whether you're also navigating a return to in-person learning or just curious about my campaign, this episode is full of relatable moments and inspiration!

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    22 m
  • Nothing Changes Unless YOU Change (Video Episode)
    Sep 5 2024

    In this empowering solo episode, we dive deep into the idea that real, lasting change starts from within. Titled "Nothing is Going to Change Unless You Change," this episode is all about taking control of your life by embracing personal growth, healing, and self-love. I explore how self-awareness and accountability are key to creating the life you want, and why it's essential to break free from fear and self-doubt.

    We’ll tackle common barriers to change, like comfort zones and negative self-talk, and I'll share practical steps to start shifting your mindset and daily habits. We’ll also discuss the ripple effect of personal transformation, how changing yourself can positively impact those around you, and how self-love can be the foundation for all of it.

    Tune in for personal stories, inspiration, and actionable advice, plus answers to listener questions about overcoming challenges and embracing change. Whether you’re struggling with personal growth or looking to make a fresh start, this episode will give you the motivation and tools to begin your journey to healing and self-love.

    Don't miss this deep dive into how you can spark change in your life!

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    30 m
  • Catching Up with Jade: Softball, Senior Year, and Life in a Small Town
    Aug 19 2024

    In this episode, I sit down with my friend Jade for an in-depth conversation about her journey as a dedicated softball player, her thoughts on starting her senior year, and the unique challenges of growing up as a biracial girl in a small, predominantly white suburb. Jade shares her experiences from years on the field, including her recent college commitment, favorite memories, and the challenges she’s faced along the way. We also dive into her plans for senior year, how she’s balancing academics, sports, and her social life, and what she’s most looking forward to as she approaches graduation.

    Jade opens up about her dating life and how she navigates relationships amidst the demands of high school and athletics. We discuss her identity as a biracial girl in a small town and how this has shaped her perspective and relationships. As we wrap up, Jade shares her aspirations for the future, including her plans for college and beyond. We also take some time to answer fan questions and reflect on the insightful conversation we had.

    Tune in to hear Jade's inspiring story and learn more about the exciting journey she’s on as she prepares for the next chapter in her life.

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    59 m
  • Summertime Blues: My Struggle with Seasonal Depression (Video Episode)
    Aug 12 2024

    In this heartfelt episode, I open up about a side of summer that many don’t talk about: the struggle with seasonal depression. While summer is often seen as a time of joy and sunshine, I dive into the irony of feeling lonely and sad during the brightest season. I share how the pressure to enjoy summer, compounded by the loneliness of watching friends in relationships and dealing with ongoing disappointments with guys, has impacted my mental health.

    I also talk about my difficult decision to distance myself from my immediate family, reflecting on the lifelong effects of verbal and emotional abuse. I explore the deep emotional pain and heartache that has contributed to my seasonal depression, and discuss the coping strategies I’ve tried, including the importance of self-care, therapy, and reaching out for support.

    This episode is a candid conversation about the weight of unresolved issues, the challenges of mental health during the summer, and the journey toward healing. I offer words of encouragement to those who may be experiencing similar feelings and emphasize the importance of seeking help. Join me as I navigate through these complex emotions and strive to find peace during the season of sunshine.

    Tune in, share your experiences, and remember that you’re not alone in this journey.

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    25 m
  • Lollapalooza Chaos, Cancellations, and Personal Reflections (video episode)
    Aug 6 2024

    In this episode of "Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood," we dive into some hot topics that have been on my mind lately. I share my chaotic experience at Lollapalooza, where the heat and crowds were overwhelming, and recount how I got fired as a volunteer for trying to sneak someone in—something I deeply regret. We also tackle the controversy surrounding Brooke from the Canceled! podcast and her unforgivable racist comments about Trayvon Martin. Join me as I reflect on my disappointment in myself, the importance of accountability, and my journey towards positive change. Tune in for an honest and heartfelt conversation about growth, mistakes, and the path to becoming a better person.


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    32 m