Ma'am, let’s be real for a second — have you ever caught yourself falling for a man you knew wasn’t good for you, but something about him just pulled you in anyway? You’re not crazy, and it’s not because you don’t know better — it’s because your brain chemistry has been tricking you.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason why you keep attracting men who can’t meet you at your level. We’re talking biochemistry, childhood wiring, and how your hormones make dysfunction feel like connection. You’ll learn what actually makes a man bond for life, why broke men drain your feminine energy, and how to reset your attraction to call in elite, emotionally mature love.

This conversation is deep, honest, and eye-opening — and by the end, you’ll understand that it’s not about changing who you are… it’s about remembering the power you already hold.

💋 Let’s talk about healing your chemistry, raising your standards, and finally attracting the kind of love that feels safe, sexy, and real.

Ladies, let’s talk truth. You don’t have to settle. You don’t have to reward a man just for being a “good guy.” That’s baseline. In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between the Build-a-Bear — the man you have to fix, motivate, and carry — and the Elite Man, who’s already in his purpose, ready to pour into your life, and equipped to lead, love, and protect you.

I’m sharing how I went from attracting broken, draining relationships to being married to my best friend — an elite man who believes in me, invests in me, and makes my life softer and more abundant every single day. You’ll learn the exact energetic balance that magnetizes a high-value man, and how to clear the subconscious love blocks that have been keeping you from the love that’s already calling your name.

Because here’s the truth: real love isn’t luck, it’s alignment. When you embody your feminine energy, you naturally attract the man who was designed for you — the one who will love your soul and build an empire with you.

This is your sign to stop settling for potential and start receiving partnership. Your elite man is already waiting — it’s time you align with the frequency of love that matches your worth.

What if finding the love you deserve isn’t about luck, but about science and strategy? In this episode, I reveal how a dating experiment with over 100 dates and 4,000 interviews led me to uncover the step-by-step formula for attracting elite, high-value men. You’ll hear the truth about why so many successful women settle for less, how hidden love blocks keep you stuck in painful patterns, and the exact shifts that allow you to magnetize wealthy, faithful, deeply devoted men who want to support your dreams. Get ready, because this conversation isn’t about surviving in love—it’s about thriving in it.

I’m Shay, Your Love Diva, and I’m here to tell you the truth that no one else will. I went from getting played by men who didn’t show up, cheated, or treated me like I wasn’t enough… to attracting wealthy, successful men who want to pour into me, commit to me, and love my soul. In this episode, I break down exactly how I learned to trigger curiosity, anticipation, and polarity—the secret formula that turns the dating game upside down. If you’re ready to stop sabotaging your love life and start attracting the man of your dreams, this is your blueprint.

Welcome, beautiful Diva. I’m Shay, and in this episode, we’re diving deep into the truth about love, connection, and the science behind attraction. So many women lie to themselves about what they truly want, but I’m here to tell you—it’s okay to admit you desire love, marriage, and your soulmate. You were already created as a wife, and when the right man finds you, he finds a prize.

I’ll guide you through the phases of attraction and courting, explain how oxytocin and vasopressin shape how men and women fall in love, and reveal why timing, discernment, and your feminine energy are everything. This isn’t about playing games—it’s about understanding your power, moving with wisdom, and allowing yourself to receive without guilt.

If you’ve ever wondered why men bond more slowly, why giving too soon sabotages your relationships, or why successful men crave women who let them provide, this episode will transform how you see love forever.

Ladies, let me learn you something—because this right here will save you from years of heartache. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down exactly how you know if a man is who he really says he is. And let me tell you, it’s not about what comes out of his mouth—it’s about time and tests. That’s called vetting, and baby, you can’t rush it.

We’re diving into the science of bonding hormones, why men lose interest after sex too soon, and how your unhealed childhood wounds might be making you a magnet for the wrong type of man. I’m going to teach you why men can spot your insecurities faster than you can, and how to shift your vibration so you no longer attract low-level, Build-a-Bear type relationships.

This episode is about reclaiming your power in love. No more rushing. No more ignoring red flags. No more being easy prey. I’ll show you how to create a game plan, put men through the right kind of tests, and stand in your worth like the high-value woman you are.

So grab your journal, lean in, and let’s talk about how you can truly discern a man’s intentions and protect your heart while still being open to love.

Ladies… have you noticed what’s happening in the dating world right now? More ghosting. More men expecting you to prove yourself. More “build-a-bears” walking around wanting to be earned instead of stepping up as providers. It’s not just you — the dating game has shifted, and not in your favor. But here’s the truth...

I used to get played — lied to, cheated on, even ended up marrying a man who wasn’t even legally single. I went from heartbreak to heartbreak, found myself homeless with a child, and realized I was stuck in the same generational cycles my mother and grandmother went through. So I made a promise to my daughter: I would break the pattern. And I did.

In this episode, I share how I went from being overlooked to deeply valued — from men disappearing on me to men showing up with cars, homes, and real commitment — and I didn’t have to compromise my values or give away anything sacred to receive it.

I’ll walk you through the science of attraction, the six core needs of a man, and the top mistake so many strong women make: choosing from a place of pain rather than power.

If you’re tired of being stuck, confused, or playing small in love — this episode will help you shift. The dating world has changed, but you can change your experience with strategy, healing, and a deep sense of self-worth.

Let me show you how.

I used to believe that once I hit a certain financial milestone—once I made that million dollars in a single month—I’d feel on top of the world. But when I got there, the high never came. Instead, I found myself sitting in a dark, hollow space wondering… what is all of this really for? That moment forced me to reevaluate everything.

Then I received an email from one of my most difficult clients—Deirdre—and her story pulled me straight out of that darkness. She had been living in pain, disconnected from her children, surrounded by clutter, and preparing for death. And through our work together, she didn’t just shift—she transformed. Her body, her home, her relationships, her entire spirit was renewed. That’s when it hit me: this is what I was put here to do.

In this episode, I open up about the moment I reconnected to my real mission. I share what it means to feel your soulmate approaching, how our choices align—or misalign—with our timelines, and what happens when we hesitate instead of choosing ourselves. This isn’t just about love or success—it’s about honoring the divine timing of your life and refusing to let self-sabotage steal your future.

If you’ve ever felt the pull toward more, if you've felt your soulmate before you've seen him, or if you’ve questioned your path even at your highest moment—this is the episode your soul's been waiting for.