Hey my loves, it's Shay, your Love Diva, and today we're getting into something real — the Pull Away Phase.
You know that moment when everything feels good, the connection is growing, and then boom… they start acting different. Less calls, slower texts, more distance, and you're sitting there trying not to overthink yourself into a stress nap.

In this episode, I'm teaching you what the pull away phase really is, why it happens, and how to respond like a woman (or man) who knows their worth. We're talking about the biggest mistake people make — chasing — and what to do instead so you stay grounded, confident, and emotionally in control.

Because baby… if they wobble, you don't collapse.
Press play and let your Love Diva walk you through it.

In this episode, I'm going to share some science that might surprise you. I break down why your body may not fully "move on" from every man you sleep with, and what research suggests about how past partners could leave biological effects that last longer than we think.

I explain:

• the fly study that brought back the idea of telegony

• what microchimerism is (male cells staying in a woman's body for years)

• the possible ways sp*rm could influence the body even without pregnancy

• what's proven, what's still a theory, and what that means for you

This isn't about shame. It's about being informed and choosing your partners wisely.

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Ladies, listen… in today's episode, I'm going to break down something that most women feel, but can't quite put into words. The dating atmosphere has changed — dramatically. Men aren't showing up in their masculine anymore. A lot of them are operating way too far in their feminine energy, and it is stressing women out.

I'm going to tell you exactly why this is happening, how we accidentally helped create the problem, and most importantly, what you must do if you want to attract an elite man — a man with character, values, valor, and real masculine leadership. Not just a man with money… a man who is wealthy in every way that matters.

I'm talking about:

• Why equality pulled an okey doke on us

• How women ended up doing everything while being paid less

• Why depression, anxiety, and burnout skyrocketed among women

• How dating men beneath your level destroys your feminine energy

• Why financially misaligned relationships are literally harming your health

• And the #1 rule my high-level clients must follow: stop dating broke men

I'm also sharing why I've opened my programs to women in their 20s — because these younger women are paying attention, moving smarter, and setting standards that many older women never learned to set.

Ladies, this episode is your wake-up call.
Your elevation call.
Your "stop settling and step into your feminine power" call.

If you are ready to attract a man who provides, protects, and pours into your soul… the kind of man who is your peace, your safety, and your partner… then this is the episode you need.

Hey beautiful Diva, it's your girl Shay, your Love Diva — and in this episode, I'm breaking down why you keep attracting the same kind of man, the same heartbreak, the same story… even after all the therapy, all the journaling, all the healing work.

I'm gonna show you how your brain has been trained—just like a ski path that's been carved in the snow—causing you to repeat the same patterns over and over again without even realizing it. And more importantly, I'm gonna show you how to rewire that pattern so you can finally attract healthy, high-value love that lasts.

I'll also share the real story of how I went from broken patterns and painful relationships to helping women around the world create elite love, legacy, and emotional freedom.

So if you're tired of skiing into the same tree in love, baby, this episode is your reset. Let's rewire that mind and attract the kind of love your soul's been craving.

Hit play, and let's dive in.

Let's be honest, babe — how many times have you said, "I just didn't feel the connection," and walked away from someone who could've actually been good for you? Today, we're going to break that pattern — because that "chemistry" you keep chasing? It's not connection. It's your trauma calling.

In this episode, we're diving deep into the science and psychology of attraction — what really happens in your body when you feel butterflies, and why those butterflies are often a warning, not a green light. You'll learn how your subconscious is wired to recognize what's familiar, not necessarily what's healthy… and how to start reprogramming that pattern so you can attract love that feels calm, safe, and secure — not chaotic.

We're talking biochemistry, emotional rewiring, and feminine awareness — because once you understand how your body and mind respond to love, you stop falling for potential and start choosing alignment.

So get comfortable, take a deep breath, and let's talk about why that spark you keep waiting for might actually be the very thing holding you back from real love.

In this episode, we dive deep into the masculine journey — from the playful Knight who's still exploring life, to the Prince who's building his empire, and finally, the King who's ready to love and lead with purpose.

You'll learn how to recognize which phase a man is in, why so many women get stuck trying to build with men who aren't yet ready, and how to align your energy with a partner who's prepared to meet you at your level.

This conversation isn't about judgment — it's about awareness. When you understand how men evolve, you stop taking their confusion personally and start making wiser choices in love.

If you've ever wondered why he pulled away, why he can't commit, or why he suddenly transformed after the breakup… this episode will give you the clarity you've been searching for.

✨ Tune in to learn:

• The 4 main phases of a man's evolution — and what each one means for your relationship

• How to know if he's a Knight, a Prince, or a King

• What to do if you've been loving a man still "in the tunnel"

• The mindset of women who attract men ready for lifelong partnership

Because once you understand the masculine journey, you'll never chase potential again — you'll attract readiness.

Ma'am, let's be real for a second — have you ever caught yourself falling for a man you knew wasn't good for you, but something about him just pulled you in anyway? You're not crazy, and it's not because you don't know better — it's because your brain chemistry has been tricking you.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the real reason why you keep attracting men who can't meet you at your level. We're talking biochemistry, childhood wiring, and how your hormones make dysfunction feel like connection. You'll learn what actually makes a man bond for life, why broke men drain your feminine energy, and how to reset your attraction to call in elite, emotionally mature love.

This conversation is deep, honest, and eye-opening — and by the end, you'll understand that it's not about changing who you are… it's about remembering the power you already hold.

💋 Let's talk about healing your chemistry, raising your standards, and finally attracting the kind of love that feels safe, sexy, and real.

Ladies, let's talk truth. You don't have to settle. You don't have to reward a man just for being a "good guy." That's baseline. In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between the Build-a-Bear — the man you have to fix, motivate, and carry — and the Elite Man, who's already in his purpose, ready to pour into your life, and equipped to lead, love, and protect you.

I'm sharing how I went from attracting broken, draining relationships to being married to my best friend — an elite man who believes in me, invests in me, and makes my life softer and more abundant every single day. You'll learn the exact energetic balance that magnetizes a high-value man, and how to clear the subconscious love blocks that have been keeping you from the love that's already calling your name.

Because here's the truth: real love isn't luck, it's alignment. When you embody your feminine energy, you naturally attract the man who was designed for you — the one who will love your soul and build an empire with you.

This is your sign to stop settling for potential and start receiving partnership. Your elite man is already waiting — it's time you align with the frequency of love that matches your worth.