• The Good Fight
    Jul 28 2024

    The good thing about fights is they clarify.

    Knowing and doing what is right is more than a moral issue for us. Morals change. We need energetic efficiency. The more we know what is right and best for us the more we experience our birthright to be happy, healthy and whole.

    Here are my reflections on this past week’s sociopolitical events, how they affect me and how as a mother wound empath I am processing them with loving detachment.



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  • Crazy Talk
    Jul 21 2024

    What is America’s Sacred Contract? According to Caroline Myss, it’s to fulfill its promise of the universal inalienable birthright of individual expression of its “cosmic divine force”.

    There is no creation without chaos and no chaos without creation. This process is internally occurring in all of us and today we talk about it within the context of MDT. Whether you have experienced it your entire life, over a specific period, or are not even sure you have, you may know how overwhelming and inescapable it feels. This is not a bad thing! Chaos signals it is time to transcend material bonds to soul align.

    As we increasingly answer soul’s call, we are more available to experience what we—not mama— imagine our lives to be. On top of that, none of what I’m saying is new.

    Crazy isn’t it?

    Motherland America, is a lot to transcend but my recent practice has recreated in me a renewed way to perceive the chaos.

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  • Courage to Care About Yourself More Than Mama, the Drama or Trauma
    Jul 14 2024
    If taking care of yourself meant going no contact and you not only sacrifice your mother but your daughter too, would—or even could you do it? It takes courage.Ever read a blog post so real, so relatable that you wanted to meet its author? I was lucky enough to do just that in MDTA’s first guest interview with author Heather Valentine, creator of Substack’s Elastic Heart. Get ready to feel like a fly on the wall as you encounter the vicissitudes and internal victories of her life. Here, we get deep but don’t worry Academicians*, Heather knows how to swim…As I read,“1997 Mother’s Day,” I saw a woman who has lived through the trials, tribulations and challenges of transcending Mama Drama Trauma. In it, Heather exposes her vulnerability in dealing with the most excruciating parts of her journey. Well written, sure, but I wasn’t expecting this bright little summer read to enlighten me so much about how MDT can develop empathy, what it takes to build courage for self-care, and the transformative power of reframing maternal burdens into blessings. A journey far from easy, I had to invite this authentically witty and unintentionally wise author (and person as you will hear), who gets it.Another author and speaker I adore is spiritual mystic and medical intuitive, Carolyn Myss who teaches about the difference between fate and destiny. She says fate is tied to “we” and survival which is taught by the family, but destiny is about “I” which is something we must define through individual soul alignment. MDT healing is a lifelong journey to the destiny of “I” which in my experience can take multiple lifetimes. In it, we eventually choose to align by integrating the experience as another form of love. This love is not the kind of we are or are not taught, but the countless internal actions we choose to transform it into the love we need.We hear a lot about brain plasticity and the power of changing our thoughts but that is impossible without stretching the heart from “we” to “I” and back to “we” after integrating or growing from the pain—every heroine’s journey.That’s the heart elasticity Heather Valentine shares.So, If you are on the brink of giving up on yourself, the uphill journey to personal peace or life in general listen to her story. You can also download the Substack app for easy reading, listening and to engage on the chat.MDT Academy Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Podcast theme song: The Pretenders I’m a MotherI'm a motherTreat me like a motherYou wanna suck on my breastIt's no surprise you doI'm the source and the forceYou owe your life to, brotherOhOhOhI'm a motherAnd I take like a motherI understand bloodAnd I understand painThere can be no life without itNever doubt itI'm a motherI gave you all my moneyTo help the familyBut what you do to meDon't humiliate meRememberI'm a life-long memberOhOhOhI'm a motherTreat me like a motherIn the middle of the nightI be deep in a dreamYou fancy little companyYou only have to screamLoud, brotherOhOhOhI'm a motherAnd I fake like a motherI understand timeAnd it isn't on my sideBut to service mankindI have to suffer his prideLike a motherOhOhOhYou say your protectionIs proof of your affectionIf I need securityI'll keep a gun on meOhDon't barter with meDon't barter with meLittle sacrificesGo straight to heavenBut hunting season's overThis is the 20th centuryOhDon't barter with meOhOhOhI'm a motherAnd I ache like a motherIf there's a terrible crashAnd bodies thrown everywhereI'll wrap 'em up and carry 'emIf someone has to bury themBrotherOhOhOhCall upon motherI'm the vessel of lifeI got the trauma here to prove itWhen it's time for me to labour for youEverybody move itLike a motherOhOhOhHave something instructive, entertaining or inquisitive to share with us this summer session? Do let me know. Happy summer reading!*Academician = MDTA subscriberMama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (each deck includes: PDF guidebook, free 8-part how to read the deck video playlist, and free one on one introductory video call with Tammy) is our foundational tool supporting a daily practice of living in loving detachment based on the core teaching of divinity identity).SocialsMDT Sound Therapy (session songs playlist)MDTA InstagramYouTube Get full access to MDT Academy Newsletter at mamadramatrauma.substack.com/subscribe
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  • How to Handle the Opps and Optics of No Contact
    Jul 7 2024

    SUMMER SESSION Continues…

    Life promises ups and downs, but would you rather go through them feeling alienated and alone or at least feeling loved, lubricated, facile and free? Yes, the work is always ours to do, and our divinity ours to prove to ourselves, but we are built for it.

    Great Mother’s message about today’s topic The Ops, Optics of No Contact:

    MDTHOD guidebook revisions discussed here as well.

    This summer I’m feeling the pulse of millennials on how they handle being a mother wound empath going no contact. Here’s the compilation video excerpt from the beautiful Destiny Uteh’s channel.

    Not withstanding parents are people, I have recently got in touch with my ancestral mother rage going all the way back to the Sibyls. Recently, it has been immensely transformational to be called by Mami Wata to liberate myself through deeper self empowerment and healing work. More on that later but for now, here’s a pebble from my path.

    In short, it is what it is.

    Pamela Gregory astrological visionary imploring us to stay on our eagle’s perch.

    The book The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz organized the Toltec teachings in an exploration of their four agreements: "Be impeccable with your word", "Do not take anything personally", "Do not make assumptions", and "Always do your best."

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  • Your Wheelhouse and How to Use It to Heal
    Jun 30 2024

    Letting go of the mother we want, birthmother fantasies and expectations, for the mother we have, a drama mama and Great Mother, our intuition, is a lifelong journey.

    As mother wound empaths we came here with a powerful toolbox of gifts, talents and abilities apparent in our birth charts we can use to make our luck as mother wound empaths. Developed over lifetimes, they are available for us to employ in healing ourselves and others.

    In our first Summer Story Time Session, I share how to find yours and ways you can use the gifts, tools and abilities indicated by it as well as how I have done it.

    Find out the main placement and the three things to consider in your wheelhouse.

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  • Mother Wound Psychic Empath
    Jun 24 2024

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    Our first empowered choice as a self aware, observant and conscientious psychic empath is: Am I employing my sensitivity to be a Mediator (intervening means, agency of use) or to be a Medium (go between), what are my skills, what skills do I aspire to have, why?

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  • Mother Wound Intuitive Empaths
    Jun 16 2024

    Ever wonder why we have so much compassion for narcissists? How we know what others are feeling and why? The best way to use these abilities to self heal?

    Today, in the second session of ‘This Is for the Real Ones’ series about the three empath types, we introduce the mother wound intuitive empath. While the instinctive empath can feel what others feel, the intuitive (emotional) empath knows why others feel the way they do.

    As mother wound empaths, the degree we can let go of the mother we want to accept the one we have is the degree we are healed. Though we have different capacities to do this, by recognizing intuition is the mother we have, and responding to it that way we heal and open floodgates to heal others.

    The center of the emotional wheel is where our base emotions reside. These correspond to the six chakras and six suits of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck:

    MDTHOD SUITS

    Root (red) - Mad when we acknowledge MDT (“A” Acknowledge Suit)

    Sacral (orange) - Scared to self inquire about MDT (“S” Self Inquiry Suit)

    Gut (yellow) - Powerful when we are in our integrity about MDT (“I” Integrity Suit)

    Throat (blue) - Peaceful when we release MDT (“R” Resurrection/Rebirth Suit)

    Inner Eye (purple) - Sad when we have to live in loving detachment from MDT (“E” Emancipation Suit).

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  • Empath Initiation: Overcoming Emotional Apathy Accessing Accuracy
    Jun 9 2024

    Empaths are kind, wise, old souls. Like all gifts, talents and abilities, empathy is developed over lifetimes. As we mature, we learn our need to accurately determine if, when, where, why and how others may harm or help preserve life is imperative to survival.

    Self awareness to acknowledge the burdens and blessings of feeling what others feel distinguishes empath types by level of internal clarity, balance and confirmation.

    We begin our 3 Mother Wound Empath Type Series with the emotional empath. Last session This Is For the Real Ones introduced the emotional, intuitive and psychic empaths this series covers.

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    Great Mother’s message this session from the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is a single card pull reading of the card, Sophia.

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    Empaths give the consideration, care and compassion desired from others to others.

    Because MDT overwhelms and overstresses the senses in ways we are only just beginning to explore, further study of Dr. Elaine Aron’s seminal research on with Highly Sensitive People (HSNs) and Dr. Judith Orloff’s work on empaths provide much needed insight about the relationship between sensitivity and the “mother wound”.

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