On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Pharrell Shaymar. Pharrell is a professional boxing coach, proud trans man, and LGBTQ+ advocate and community leader. Pharrell uses the prism of boxing through advocacy, breaking down barriers, educational videos, and breaking stereo types of trans people in combat sports. His key message is, "I will never become biologically male, but I am a gentleman."

Key points:

- Pharrell introduces himself

- Pharrell’s journey to advocacy

- Challenges of trans athletes in sports

- Pharrell’s personal experience as a trans man

- Navigating masculinity and identity

- Advice on mental health and self-discovery

Relevant links:

Pharrell’s Instagram: @pharrell_shaymar

Pharrell’s website: https://www.pharrellshaymar.com/

From the solo episode #69 with Cam Fraser. More from that episode:

- The stigmatization of male sex toys

- Celebrating men’s self-pleasuring

- Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Couples Vibrator

- We-Vibe X Lovehoney Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

- Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator

- Blowmotion Warming Pulsating Vibrating Male Masturbator

- Blowmotion Real Feel Vibrating Male Masturbator

- Blowmotion Blow Job Real Feel Vibrating Suction Male Masturbator

- Desire Luxury Male Vibator

- Desire Luxury Vibrating Prostate Massager

- Kinky Confessions Card Game

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dave Booda. Dave is a writer, musician and social entrepreneur. He is the co-founder of IntimacyFest and hosts The Darkness Experiment. He has led over 450 workshops on connection, touch and relationships and has consulted for and facilitated experiences for companies, communities, retreats, festivals, conferences, birthday parties, orgies, weddings, funerals, and gatherings of all kinds — with the intention to inspire authenticity, connection and group cohesion. He has published over 200 essays for boodaism.com and played over 1000 shows as a touring singer/songwriter. He is a former Naval Officer and graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy, currently serving on the board of directors for the Foundation for Intentional Community while living at a community in rural San Diego County.

Key points:

- Dave introduces himself

- Exploring the “Pickup Artist” and “Sacred Sexuality” communities

- Authenticity, connection, and community

- Accountability and abuse of power

- Advice for those in dogmatic communities

Relevant links:

Dave’s website: https://boodaism.com/