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Modern Gays

By: Daniel and Garet Camilleri
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  • Summary

  • We're helping you build the vibrant life you want by giving you the tools to own your authentic self. Hosted by Daniel and Garet, the Aussie meets Angeleno married couple share everyday relatable topics from an authentic gay point-of-view. We celebrate community wins, interview thought-provoking guests, and ask difficult but necessary questions about the life and times of Modern Gays. Each week, we'll introduce new topics on how to lead with vibrancy, own yourself with intention and create the community that builds you up!
    2024 – Modern Gays
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Episodes
  • Power in Gay Pride: Demanding the Love & Respect You Deserve

    Power in Gay Pride: Demanding the Love & Respect You Deserve
    Jun 4 2024

    In this Pride edition of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the deeper meaning of pride beyond the celebrations. They discuss how truly owning and expressing your gay pride every day can lead to incredible personal and societal transformations. From the importance of visibility and acceptance to the ongoing fight for equality and the resilience needed to face challenges, this episode is a heartfelt and empowering exploration of what it means to live with pride. The hosts share personal stories, practical tips, and inspirational insights to help listeners embrace their identities and take action for a more inclusive world.

    Key Highlights:

    • The Importance of Visibility: Exploring how being openly gay impacts personal life and society.
    • Acceptance: Personal journeys of acceptance and the importance of being accepted by others.
    • Equality: The ongoing fight for LGBTQ+ rights and the importance of solidarity.
    • Resilience: Overcoming challenges and thriving despite adversity.
    • Taking Action: Practical steps to support LGBTQ+ rights and foster inclusivity.

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    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON

    Join our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!

    What’s included:

    • Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenes
    • Early access to Modern Gays podcast episodes
    • Community chats with Daniel and Garet
    • Exclusive voting power on episode topics/guests
    • Daniel and Garet's personal journal updates
    • Vibe Tribe community chat and much more!

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    SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:

    Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening!

    Daniel and Garet
    Co-Hosts of Modern Gays
    https://www.moderngays.co
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    22 mins
  • Looking for Friends or FWB? (with Mindset Coach Kevin Kasir)

    Looking for Friends or FWB? (with Mindset Coach Kevin Kasir)
    May 28 2024

    Kevin Kasir, a gay mindset coach, shares his journey into self-development, emphasizing the importance of a positive mindset and self-love. The conversation covers recognizing negative thought patterns, the significance of taking small actionable steps towards self-improvement, and the impact of deep, supportive friendships. Kevin offers practical advice on overcoming laziness, the role of friendships in mental health, and how to make and maintain meaningful connections.

    The trio delves into the unique dynamics of LGBTQIA+ friendships, highlighting how deep, supportive connections can significantly enhance mental health. Kevin provides insightful tips on making new friends, maintaining meaningful relationships, and the importance of clear intentions. He also shares creative ideas for nurturing these bonds through consistent, heartfelt communication.

    Addressing the common issues of jealousy and judgment in friendships, Kevin explains the impact of insecurity and the need for fostering healthy relationships. He emphasizes living authentically as a means to attract quality connections, sharing his personal strategies for cultivating confidence and self-trust.

    Connect with Kevin Kasir:

    • Website
    • Instagram

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    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON

    Join our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!

    What’s included:

    • Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenes
    • Early access to Modern Gays podcast episodes
    • Community chats with Daniel and Garet
    • Exclusive voting power on episode topics/guests
    • Daniel and Garet's personal journal updates
    • Vibe Tribe community chat and much more!

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    SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:

    Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening!

    Daniel and Garet
    Co-Hosts of Modern Gays
    https://www.moderngays.co
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    35 mins
  • Identity, Intimacy and Influence (with Brian Spitulnik, LMSW)

    Identity, Intimacy and Influence (with Brian Spitulnik, LMSW)
    May 21 2024
    Daniel and Garet are joined by psychotherapist Brian Spitulnik to explore the complex interplay between identity, sex, and the influence of porn in the LGBTQ community. Brian, known for his authentic and relatable advice on Instagram and TikTok, shares his expertise on how being gay can shape personal choices and relationships. Together, they dive into the core issues of shame, the importance of chosen families, and the challenges of forming authentic connections in a digital age. Key Topics Discussed:Common Challenges Faced by Gay Men: The pervasive sense of shame and its specific manifestations. How shame influences behaviors like addiction, body dysmorphia, and relationship dynamics.The Role of Chosen Families: Importance of finding true and honest relationships within the LGBTQ community. Brian's perspective on the adolescent phase gay men go through upon coming out.Navigating Romantic and Platonic Relationships: The complexities of building intimate and platonic relationships in the gay community. Balancing personal identity with societal and community expectations.Impact of Porn on Real-Life Intimacy: Discussion on how porn consumption affects emotional engagement in real-life relationships. Strategies to find a healthy balance between porn and personal connections.Listener Questions (Only Whispers Segment): Addressing Rex from Sydney's concern about balancing porn with real-life intimacy. Advice for Thomas from Boston on finding dates outside of dating apps.Practical Tips for Building Authentic Connections: Checking the facts to avoid miscommunication. Reflective listening to ensure understanding and clarity. Evaluating personal feelings towards others to foster genuine connections. Notable Quotes:"True love is holding another's spiritual evolution as equal to your own." – bell hooks"Everything changes. Nothing remains the same. To think that you're always going to want the same thing is not being in reality." – Brian Spitulnik About Brian:Brian Spitulnik, LMSW, is a psychotherapist in private practice and co-founder of Artists Reimagining Therapy & Systems (A.R.T.S.), a fully-funded program offering free group and individual therapy to artists and arts workers. Brian is committed to working with his clients to come fully into relationship with their environment and themselves while providing practical tools for behavioral change and emotional growth. Ongoing professional development and advanced training experiences are a critical component of Brian’s practice, ensuring a transformative impact on the individuals and communities he serves. Brian has earned degrees from The University of Michigan, Columbia University, and The Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College. Before becoming a mental health practitioner, Brian performed on Broadway for over 15 years, wrote for Global Citizen, The Daily Beast, McSweeney’s, and Dance Magazine, and co-founded 85th Street Productions. Brian's Links:https://www.instagram.com/spitulnik/https://www.tiktok.com/@spitulnikhttps://www.brianspitulnik.com ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What’s included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co
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    34 mins
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