Episodes

  • New Life Live: July 17, 2024

    New Life Live: July 17, 2024
    Jul 17 2024
    Topics: Anxiety, Getting Unstuck, Triggers, Betrayal, Alcohol, Mother Issues, Addictions, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the many causes of anxiety. 2. What would you suggest to get unstuck after 17yrs of marriage? We’re both believers and don’t want to get divorced, but I don’t want to be miserable anymore. 3. I had a great experience at Restore this past weekend! It truly restored my faith and gave me strength to move forward. 4. How do we show my alcoholic mom she’s living in sin, and how do I help my dad deal with her without enabling? 5. I’m working through betrayal trauma and you guys helped me begin the journey to recovery at the Restore intensive. How can I help my adult children with their addictions? 6. I learn best by re-listening to my conversations, but my adult children don’t feel comfortable with me recording them. What else can I do? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Life Recovery Workbook Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • New Life Live: July 16, 2024

    New Life Live: July 16, 2024
    Jul 16 2024
    Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, Enabling, Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Bipolar, Church Life, Adult Children, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how our job as a parent is to disciple our kids. 2. Our 40yo son has had a drug addiction and pulled knives on me; what should we do if he wants to move back after he gets out of jail? 3. I just learned that my husband was unfaithful with a man; am I unreasonable to not want him to take a new job which may be tempting for him? 4. Should I meet with the church elders about problems with my pastor’s wife who has bipolar disorder and my pastor who enables her? 5. My 50yo son stopped talking to me for a year with no explanation; how do I go about finding out why? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Intimate Deception Boundaries Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • New Life Live: July 15, 2024

    New Life Live: July 15, 2024
    Jul 15 2024
    Topics: Relationships, Borderline, Boundaries, Adult Children, Difficult Conversations, Narcissists, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares the difference between the price of something vs. the cost. 2. How can my husband and I set clear boundaries with my 25yo daughter who lives with us and has BPD? 3. A Christian friend blindsided me when he said he was crossing me off the list of people to invite to his home. His wife said he was just kidding; what do you think? 4. What do I do with my narcissistic 51yo daughter who is on kidney dialysis and is a drug addict? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder How We Love Understanding and Loving a Person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • New Life Live: July 12, 2024

    New Life Live: July 12, 2024
    Jul 12 2024
    Topics: Perfectionism, Aging Parents, Adult Children, Trauma, Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Dating, Affairs, Sexual Abuse, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about perfectionism, attitude, and judging others. 2. What should I say to my elderly dad who is verbally abusive and falsely accusing me, my mom, and my sister? 3. My 49yo son has a demanding wife who has convinced him that he has dementia and tries to keep us out of his life; how do we approach her? 4. I lost my dad and sister, and my youngest daughter was kidnapped; why do I keep going back to my physically and emotionally abusive husband? 5. I just ended a month-long relationship, and it seems like every time he hugged or talked to a woman, I felt a crippling pain in my heart; what is causing it, and how do I get rid of it? 6. My 19yo granddaughter is afraid of her father and suicidal, and I my older granddaughter told me she was sexually and physically abused by him. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • New Life Live: July 11, 2024

    New Life Live: July 11, 2024
    Jul 11 2024
    Topics: Screens, In-laws, Boundaries, Suicide, End of Life, Siblings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares how to increase self-control with screen use. 2. How do I get my wife to understand that she and I are the primary relationship and not her and her mom? How can I set appropriate boundaries with my in-laws? 3. When I talk to my dear Christian friend about my mom who has dementia, my friend talks about physician’s assisted suicide; how do I address this? 4. Should I disengage from my brother who’s a strong believer and very opinionated? I put him on speaker while I do the dishes, and I don’t even get a chance to talk. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Living Strong, Finishing Well Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • New Life Live: July 10, 2024

    New Life Live: July 10, 2024
    Jul 10 2024
    Topics: Shame, Guilt, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Medication, Spiritual Warfare, Autism, Brain Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares some shame and guilt ideas. 2. My 42yo daughter is living on the property she’s renting from us, and a man is staying with her most of the time. Do we have a right to say he can’t live with her? 3. I was on painkillers for sciatica and stopped taking them but have gone through an overwhelmingly dark withdrawal; what can I do, or who do I need to see? 4. What can I do to help my 29yo autistic son who works hard and owns his own home, but he gives money to his girlfriend with two kids? 5. Why am I going through so much physically? I had a brain injury in the fall last year, and it seems like God keeps letting me go through things. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • New Life Live: July 9, 2024

    New Life Live: July 9, 2024
    Jul 9 2024
    Topics: Adult Children, Finances, Estrangement, Childhood Trauma, Physical Abuse, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares why one of the key traits of a healthy family is play. 2. How do you emotionally disconnect from an adult son who makes egregious financial decisions and asks us for help? He just had his 7th child. 3. I’m a single mom and asked my 22yo daughter for financial help; she stopped talking to me. 4. I was beat as a child; how do I let go of the past now that I am a parent? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • New Life Live: July 8, 2024

    New Life Live: July 8, 2024
    Jul 8 2024
    Topics: Boundaries, Finances, Fraud, Affairs, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares how boundaries are not about standing up to others, rather standing up for ourselves. 2. I was sex trafficked 18yrs ago and was coerced into receiving fraudulent unemployment checks. I am unemployed now; should I file for unemployment? 3. I’ve been married 16yrs and there’s been infidelity on both sides. I’ve been faithful for 12yrs now but recently looked at my wife’s phone and discovered she was unfaithful. 4. My son has his PhD and no longer calls me because he wants to set boundaries; how do I continue my relationship with him? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Intimate Deception Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins