• To Gossip or not to gossip?
    Jun 21 2024

    In this episode, Kiran and Shunali dive into the pervasive world of gossip. They explore why people gossip, the different types of gossip, and its social functions. From personal anecdotes to historical perspectives, this conversation uncovers the reasons behind gossip's enduring presence in human society.


    Chapters:

    (00:00) Introduction

    (03:55) Gossip as a social function?

    (07:44) Gossip in modern society

    (08:42) Power play of gossip

    (13:46) Gossip in medieval times

    (15:13) Empowerment and Cultural Impact

    (18:04) What is the difference between gossip and rumor?

    (21:09) Gossip through social media

    (22:05) The indian metoo movement

    (23:06) It plays an important role in offices

    (25:00)Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    28 mins
  • Self-Promotion: Friend or foe?
    Jun 14 2024

    In this episode, Kiran and Shunali discuss the often-blurred line between self-promotion and over-promotion. From personal anecdotes they share the pressures of promoting one's work in a world saturated with social media. The conversation explores the impact of self-promotion on authenticity, gender differences in self-promotion, and the social and psychological aspects tied to this practice. Tune in to hear their thoughts on finding a balance and the importance of genuine engagement versus the pitfalls of relentless self-promotion.


    00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

    00:48 Personal Experiences with Self-Promotion

    01:32 The Fine Line of Self-Promotion

    03:24 Generational and Gender Perspectives

    06:00 The Impact of Over-Promotion

    09:49 Networking and Double Standards

    14:54 The Corporate World and Self-Promotion

    21:08 Gratitude and Acknowledgments

    21:29 The Irony of Paid Leadership Offers

    21:53 The Coffee Table Book Phenomenon

    23:46 The Psychology Behind Self-Promotion

    25:18 Social Media and the Need for Validation

    28:16 The Exhaustion of Moderating Events

    30:42 The Vulgarity of Relentless Self-Promotion

    35:38 The Etiquette of Promoting Others

    36:27 The Formula for Balanced Self-Promotion

    38:40 The Vicious Cycle of Self-Promotion

    38:58 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    39 mins
  • Art, Anonymity, and Authenticity ft. Udit Bhamri
    Jun 7 2024

    Join Kiran Manral and Shunali Shroff in this episode as they welcome Udit Bhambri, an art aficionado with a profound understanding of popular culture and global trends.

    With a background in advertising and digital media, Udit dives into his journey as an art curator since the age of eight. He shares personal anecdotes about meeting legendary artists, debunks the pretentiousness around art collection, and discusses the intersection of fashion and art.

    From discussions on iconic figures like MF Hussain to modern pop culture phenomena such as Urfi Javed, Udit provides a unique perspective on how marketing, societal trends, and personal passion shape the world of art and culture today.

    Tune in for an enlightening conversation blending art, fashion, and cultural commentary.

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction

    01:41 Udit's Passion for Art and Early Influences 03:05 The Quirky World of MF Hussain

    06:14 Art as an Investment and the Birkin Bag Debate

    12:28 The Pretentiousness in Art Circles

    15:43 The Legacy of Indian Artists

    19:29 Popular Culture and Social Media Influence

    23:17 Urfi's Unique Fashion Journey

    23:34 Celebrity Influence and Authenticity

    24:06 The Role of Designers in Shaping Public Image

    26:00 Art and Commercialization

    29:07 The Glamour and Reality of Art Parties

    31:44 The Struggles and Realities of Artists

    39:09 India's GlobalFashion Influence

    46:41 The Impact of Social Media on Fame

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    49 mins
  • Why are there influencers at Cannes?
    May 31 2024

    Indian talent is getting serious recognition on global platforms like Cannes. Our music, movies and other art forms have seen serious appreciation.

    But this year, there was also the curious case of a India influencers that landed up on the red carpet. Why were they there? To draw attention?

    The ladies investigate...

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    24 mins
  • Are you a #narcissist? |
    May 27 2024

    A book they read and a quiz they took led our hosts #ShunaliShroff and #KiranManral down a rabbit hole... and now, they want to know if you are a narcissist too. They know about themselves, but are you? Find out now! Youtube link- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WMRFB_UqSg

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    35 mins
  • The #MetGala & #LaapataLadies Intersection - Fashion, Confidence, and Creativity
    May 19 2024

    In the latest episode of #NotYourAunty, we go into the unique attire and fashion choices associated with the Laapata Ladies. The discussion also touches upon the Met Gala, celebrating design creativity, and challenges societal norms for women in Urban and Rural India. It highlights women empowerment in rural India, emphasizing their financial independence and capabilities. Furthermore, the video explores controlling behavior in relationships, societal expectations, and the need for diverse body representation in media. The discussion extends to challenging beauty standards and typecasting in the film industry, citing concerns about actresses' future careers. Additionally, there's an appreciation for Amrapali's performance and a thoughtful analysis of Mamta's current performances. Lastly, it shares a personal journey of embracing body positivity and the importance of fitness without conforming to certain ideals. #movies #popculture 00:08 Discussions on women's fashion and attire 02:41 Met Gala celebrates design creativity 08:14 Challenging societal norms for women in Urban India 10:4 Empowerment of women in rural India 15:54 Grandmother-in-law's special gesture of cooking Sabudana Khichdi for speaker 17:57 Controlling others for survival in a limiting ecosystem is not ideal. 23:08 Challenging beauty standards and typecasting in the film industry. 25:14 Discussion on actresses' performances and impact of being in the limelight 29:46 Embracing body positivity and the journey of losing weight

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    31 mins
  • Resilience and Representation ft. Priyanka Chaturvedi
    May 10 2024

    When three old friends - who have seen each other at their least glamourous - catch up, it's a lot of fun, banter and uncensored chat!

    Kiran Manral and Shunali Shroff sit down with Priyanka Chaturvedi, member of the Rajya Sabha, detailing her journey from a concerned citizen in Mumbai to a notable figure in Indian politics. They explore her catalyst for entering politics following the 26/11 terror attacks, her navigation through the challenges of balancing family life with a political career, and her experiences and struggles as a woman in the political sphere.

    They also dive into her adjustment to life in Delhi, the misconceptions about politicians, and the critical need for women's representation and mentorship in politics. Chaturvedi candidly discusses the scrutiny and trolling on social media, maintaining privacy, adherence to protocols as a public figure, and reflects on the impact of constant political news on society.

    Additionally, she reveals a lighter side by contemplating political comedy, underscoring her resilience, awareness, and optimistic outlook towards enhancing women's participation in politics.

    This is not an episode you want to miss!

    00:00 Welcome!

    01:17 The Unexpected Journey into Politics

    01:47 Early Activism and the Shift Towards Political Engagement

    03:31 From Recruitment to Politics: A Personal and Professional Transition

    06:29 The Role of Social Media in Political Ascent

    07:16 Challenges and Triumphs as a Woman in Politics

    15:43 Balancing Motherhood and Political Ambitions

    27:55 The Impact of Feminism and Women's Rights on Personal and Professional Life

    34:48 Navigating Personal Choices and Legal Rights

    35:09 Progressive Laws and Gender Equality in India

    35:48 Debating Divorce Laws and Women's Rights

    38:26 Empowerment and Politics: A Woman's Perspective

    39:27 The Challenges and Triumphs of Women in Politics

    50:43 Personal Stories and the Impact of Pets

    54:19 Transitioning from Mumbai to Delhi: A Politician's Tale

    01:02:44 The Perks and Pressures of Political Life

    01:08:30 Finding Sanity in the Insanity of Politics

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Oh, Ozempic... !
    May 3 2024

    How important is weight loss? Important enough to risk life? It would seem so! After the initial hype, reports now say #Ozempic isn't the real wonder drug. And there's more to lose than gain. #ShunaliShroff and #KIranManral discuss. Do share your thoughts and ideas. #weightloss #drugs #health #injection #diabetes

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    26 mins