• 94: Unlocking Teen Potential: Nurturing the Subconscious Mind
    Jul 29 2024

    Tim Moore is a Master Hypnotherapist and Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner who has helped people throughout the world break free from issues and limitations that prevent them from living their best, most fulfilling lives. In addition to his work in private practice as a hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner, Tim is also an author, speaker, and trainer of hypnotherapy through his Hypno-Mastery practitioner accreditation program.

    In this podcast for parents of teens, we delve into understanding and nurturing the subconscious mind to help address common challenges faced during adolescence. We'll explore how to identify and overcome limiting beliefs, combat negative self-image, and develop resilience against bullying, as well as how the subconscious mind can help them reach their academic goals and future potential. The goal is to equip you with the tools to support your teen's mental and emotional well-being, empowering them to build a positive self-image and lead a more fulfilling life. Join us as we uncover the power of the subconscious mind in transforming the teenage experience.

    • How the mind changes the way it receives and stores information as we grow
    • Through our actions and best intentions, we often limit our teen's personal growth
    • The impact of what you say and how it can create limiting beliefs in your child/teen
    • How the root cause of a limiting belief can be transformed into a positive experience
    • The subconscious mind, the conscious mind, and willpower
    • The effects of social media and technology in shaping beliefs
    • Misconceptions of hypnosis and how it can transform your reality in profound ways
    • How hypnotherapy is one of the most powerful tools to making change, but also one of the most misunderstood.

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Website: https://www.mindoverthebody.com
    • Email: hello@mindoverthebody.com
    • Free access to my mini course “Remove Self Doubt” (which would be good for both parents and teens): https://empowerment.mindoverthebody.com
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    32 mins
  • 93: Tackling Some of the Biggest Issues Parents Face in Raising Teens
    Jul 15 2024

    Jon Mattleman received his B.A. from Clark University in 1978, and his MS in Counseling from the University of Hartford in 1981. Jon’s workshops and presentations are geared to give participants tools they can implement immediately, strategies that work with children and youth, and approaches which have proven to be critical to building healthy relationships. Jon frequently consults with schools, parent groups, mental health organizations, and in workplace settings regarding the issues of anxiety, stress, depression, suicide, parenting, and the emotional consequences of technology.

    Jon is a certified trainer in QPR Suicide Prevention and has worked with professionals in schools, with state organizations such as the Massachusetts Probation Department, as well as with hundreds of parents regarding self-harm and suicide prevention. Jon is best known for his talk “The Secret Life of Teens and Tweens” and has presented this to thousands of parents all over New England. Jon has appeared on numerous radio and television shows lending his expertise on anxiety, depression, suicide, teens, and parenting.

    • When teenagers are giving their parents an attitude, how should they deal with that?
    • Parents shouldn’t take an attitude from their teens personally.
    • Be Patient. Never change your expectations of your teen, however you may need to change your timeline.
    • Parents can practice giving themselves a time-out so they don’t say something they wish they could take back.
    • What do you do if a kid gets in trouble, for example- smoking in the bathroom at school?
    • What do you do when you learn that your son/daughter is having sex, do you confront them?
    • “In the dark conversations” can be very effective when having challenging conversations as facial expressions can alter the outcome.
    • Jon talks about a teen’s brain and what motivates them at different stages, and how to prepare and recognize these shifts.

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Website: https://www.jonmattleman.com
    • Twitter: https://x.com/Jonmattleman
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    20 mins
  • 92: Part 2 - The Transformative Power of Conflict Resolution with Your Teen
    Jul 1 2024

    Karleen Savage, Conflict resolution expert and certified hostage and crisis negotiator shares the tools that work during an argument with our teens.

    As a trailblazer in the realm of parent-teen relationships, Karleen Savage’s insights are not confined to theory, but are forged in the crucible of real-world challenges and triumphs as a parent herself, and from her experience navigating complex conflicts as a crisis negotiator.

    As the creator of the Savage Theory of Resolution®, a five-skill model that can be used to resolve any conflict, Karleen knows that peaceful and amicable resolution is possible. Karleen has been featured on MSNBC for her knowledge in hostage negotiation. She holds a Masters in Conflict Resolution & Negotiations, and she is a certified hostage and crisis negotiator. She has been married for more than 30 years and resides in Utah with her family.

    • Universal skills that experts use to resolve conflict
    • Curiosity when you and your teen don’t see eye to eye
    • Attitude-how do you show up in conflict?
    • Master listening-this is essential and Karleen shares how to master this
    • Connection
    • Reframing & phrasing: what are the words we’re using? Are you “holding” in the conversation?
    • Over-arching philosophies: what do you want for your teen? How do you create that as a possibility in them?
    • How to create parenting mantras and why it’s important?

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Website: KarleenSavage.com
    • Free Download: Get a digital download of The Confident Teen Blueprint

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    34 mins
  • 91: What Teens Need to Know About Digital Preservation
    Jun 17 2024

    Rhonda Chadwick is a trained archivist who has written a book called “Secrets from the Stacks: an archivist reveals how to store, digitize, and preserve documents to create a family archive and leave a personal legacy. She has a dual MLIS/Archives Management and MA History degree. She is the owner of a personal history business called LenaSalina Legacy Preservation.

    The teenage years contain some of our best times that teens will want to preserve, but also, sometimes tragedy strikes and teens may be in a position to want to save items from a loved one who has left this life too soon.

    • Save pictures in non-proprietary format such as jpegs and word documents in pdf.
    • Relying on the cloud for storage can be risky as the data lives on their service.
    • It’s best to back up everything using 3-2-1: two local options (computer & flash drive) and one off-site service (cloud).
    • What do to with all the photos on your phone: Keep photos and documents that have enduring stories.
    • It’s a great practice to go through your saved photos on a regular basis and delete what is not necessary to save.
    • The digital world is unstable, so printing photos is still a great idea.
    • Social media, email, and text messages can also be saved

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Email: rhonda@lenasalina.com
    • Website: LenaSalina.com
    • Information provided by the Library of Congress:
      https://guides.loc.gov/family-history-for-kids/preservation
      https://digitalpreservation.gov/personalarchiving/
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    19 mins
  • 90: Debt-Free College Without Scholarships!
    Jun 3 2024

    Jeannie Burlowski is a full-time academic strategist, podcast host, and speaker for students ages 12–26, their parents, and the professionals who serve them—and she is the author of the book LAUNCH: How to Get Your Kids Through College Debt-Free and Into Jobs They Love Afterward. Jeannie helps parents set their kids up to graduate college debt-free, ready to jump directly into careers they excel at and love. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Huffington Post, USA Today, Parents Magazine, and US News and World Report, and on CBS News.

    • Most commonly known ways to pay for college: government loans, scholarships, and saving $ in advance. There are other options…
    • Students can get a tuition reimbursement job while they’re in college. Jeannie shares lots of resources.
    • It’s important for teens to figure out their strengths and interests while they’re in high school so they can begin to think about companies that offer tuition reimbursement.
    • College is expensive-help your teen be as prepared as possible for what they want to study.
    • Jeannie’s research indicates that 48% of kids who take an AP class in high school do not end up getting college credit for it.
    • Real college classes in high school for real college credit: these are called - Dual enrollment and concurrent enrollment. Typically, the state pays for these classes and all of the material and books.
    • Jeannie shares tips and ideas to help teens create a savings plan that works long-term.

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Website: JeannieBurlowski.com.
    • Article: Got a College-Bound Teen? AP Classes in High School May Not Be His or Her Best Option
    • Article: Got a Teen Headed to College? Here's Why a State University May Not Be Your Bargain Option
    • Article: Does Elite Education Lead to a Happier Life? What Does the Research Say?
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    28 mins
  • 89: How To Prepare Your Teens to Manage Their Own Health Care
    May 20 2024

    Jill Grimes, MD, is a board-certified family physician who specializes in college health. She is a nationally recognized medical media expert & author of award-winning book, “The ULTIMATE College Student Health Handbook: Your Guide for Everything from Hangovers to Homesickness”.

    Teen & college age partying is NOT what parents remember! Beer (with perhaps, worst case, beer bongs) have given way to successive vodka shots and intentional “blackout” drinking, and the mellow “Cheech N Chong” joint sharing version of “pot” is a far cry from today’s high THC concentration “weed”. Dr. Grimes shares the inside scoop about the medical challenges and risks of today’s party culture.

    • Late middle school and early high school is when you want to begin talking with your teen about managing their health care.
    • If they take medication, schedule a weekly time to work with them on filling a pill organizer so they are prepared.
    • Dr. Jill covers what your teen will need when filling out their own medical forms. Talk with your teen about the process and help them gather information they’ll need so they are prepared when they’re on their own.
    • Hear from Dr. Jill on the most common illness and medical concerns that your teen may encounter, and how they can be prepared to get the help they need.
    • About inking, Teens can get a temporary tattoo and live with that for a week to see how they feel about it before getting the real deal.
    • Learn how to empower your teen to have a successful conversation with their doctor to be sure their needs are being addressed in the time given, and how to handle medication that’s prescribed: cost, side-effects, if they don’t feel better, etc.

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Website: https://jillgrimesmd.com
    • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@TikTok.CollegeDoc
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillgrimesmd
    • Purchase the Book on Amazon: The ULTIMATE College Student Health Handbook: Your Guide for Everything from Hangovers to Homesickness
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    20 mins
  • 88: The Transformative Power of Conflict Resolution with Your Teen
    May 6 2024

    Karleen Savage, Conflict resolution expert and certified hostage and crisis negotiator shares the tools that work during an argument with our teens.

    As a trailblazer in the realm of parent-teen relationships, Karleen Savage’s insights are not confined to theory, but are forged in the crucible of real-world challenges and triumphs as a parent herself, and from her experience navigating complex conflicts as a crisis negotiator.

    As the creator of the Savage Theory of Resolution®, a five-skill model that can be used to resolve any conflict, Karleen knows that peaceful and amicable resolution is possible. Karleen has been featured on MSNBC for her knowledge in hostage negotiation. She holds a Masters in Conflict Resolution & Negotiations, and she is a certified hostage and crisis negotiator. She has been married for more than 30 years and resides in Utah with her family.

    • Embracing Genuine Curiosity When You and Your Teen Don’t See Eye to Eye
    • Are we listening in a way to learn from our teens?
    • As our kids grow older, we shift as having control to being along side them as a partnership.
    • Attitude-be careful not to solve your teen’s problems and challenges.
    • Become a master listener – Karleen shares a blueprint of how to do this effectively.
    • Parents need to have only a few rules, and they need to stick to them.

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Website: https://www.karleensavage.com/
    • Free Digital Book: https://www.karleensavage.com/parents
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    35 mins
  • 87: Becoming Tech-Intentional: Helping Families Navigate the Screen Years
    Apr 22 2024

    A former middle school English teacher and parent of two, Emily Cherkin, MEd., The Screentime Consultant, witnessed the simultaneous rise of technology use for school, and smartphone and social media use for kids. Today, Emily consults with parents, offers school presentations and professional development training, and writes about parenting and screentime to bring her tech-intentional approach to as many people as possible. Emily’s work has been featured in The New York Times, NPR, The Today Show (twice), the BBC, Good Morning America, and more. Chuck Norris has quoted her. Emily is also a co-founder of The Student Data Privacy Project, an activism group dedicated to pushing back on excessive EdTech and screens in schools. Emily's book "The Screentime Solution: A Judgment-Free Guide to Becoming a Tech-Intentional Family" is an Amazon bestseller and available everywhere books are sold.

    • What does it mean to be “tech-intentional”?
    • Why don’t you recommend parental controls, and what do you recommend instead?
    • Would you give your 11 yr. old keys to the car? To get a drivers license, it’s a process of learning, it doesn’t happen right away. It should be the same way in teaching your kids about safe and respectful social media engagement.
    • Be careful about your teen’s use of apps and games. They are focused on hooking the watcher and keeping their attention, and on selling.
    • Teens can feel judged about what they’re engaging in; be curious instead of judgmental when asking teen’s about what they’re plugged into.
    • Be aware as parents of how predators seek out victims on social media and have these conversations with your teens.
    • Parents often buy a phone for their teen to keep them safe, and yet it’s opens the teen up to other dangers like bullying, mental health concerns, predators, etc.
    • At the end of the day, we want our kids to be safe and we want to protect them.
    • Ask yourself: Do I know what my child is doing online? Do I have a good relationship with my child so we can keep the line of communication open?

    Sponsored by EdGerety.com

    Resources

    • Website: https://www.thescreentimeconsultant.com
    • Book Order: https://www.amazon.com/Screentime-Solution-Judgment-Free-Becoming-Tech-Intentional/dp/B0CB9JS5KB/
    • Instagram: @thescreentimeconsultant
    • LinkedIn: @emily-cherkin
    • Facebook: @thescreentimeconsultant
    • Youtube: @thescreentimeconsultantllc6072
    • Twitter/X: @ScreentimeLllc
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    26 mins