In this episode of Queer Story Time, host Stevie interviews Ben Greene (he/him), an international public speaker, transgender man, and author of the book "My Child is Trans, Now What?". As a passionate advocate for transgender youth, Ben strives to meet everyone with compassion, regardless of their starting point. Join us as Ben shares insights on the importance of unconditional parental support, the impact of societal expectations, and his ongoing advocacy work.

Key Points:

1. Parental Support: Ben emphasizes that children exploring their gender identity need unconditional love and support from their parents. Delaying support can lead to feelings of isolation and a desire to leave home as soon as possible.
2. Exploration: Allowing children to explore their gender identity without judgment is crucial. Exploration is a natural part of childhood and should not be restricted by rigid gender norms.
3. Gender Expectations: Parents often impose their own gender expectations on their children. Letting go of these expectations benefits all children, helping them develop into emotionally intelligent and confident adults.
4. Misconceptions: Ben discusses his own fears and misconceptions about hormone therapy, noting that societal narratives often distort the realities of transitioning.
5. Identity: It's important to recognize that trans individuals have multifaceted identities beyond their gender. Trans people lead diverse and fulfilling lives.
6. Advocacy: Ben addresses lawmakers, highlighting that anti-trans laws are unpopular and fail to address pressing societal issues. He urges them to consider the broader impact of their actions.
7. Support Networks: Queer and trans youth should find supportive networks and allies to help them navigate challenges and advocate on their behalf.
8. Storytelling: Sharing personal stories is a profound way to foster connection and understanding. Holding space for each other’s truths is essential.
9. Future Projects: Ben is working on a fantasy novel that explores the magic inherent in the trans experience, aiming to put more positive and diverse narratives into the world.

Connect with Ben:

Instagram: @pseudo.bro

TikTok: @pseudobro

Visit his website: www.bgtranstalks.com

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)

In this episode of "Queer Story Time," Stevie interviews Alyy Patel, a queer South Asian gender-fluid individual, about their experiences and perspectives on identity, culture, and spirituality.

Key Points Discussed:

Navigating Dual Identities:

Alyy shares their journey of discovering and embracing both their queerness and South Asian identity, rejecting the idea that they must compromise one for the other.

Impact of Colonialism:

They discuss how colonialism influenced their family's perspectives on queerness, emphasizing that resistance to queerness in their community often stems from colonial history.

Spirituality and Queerness:

Alyy finds peace through spirituality, noting that their religion inherently includes queer elements.

Queer Community Visibility:

Alyy stresses the importance of queer South Asian visibility and encourages others to protect themselves while living authentically, even if it means living a double life.

Policy and Lawmakers:

Alyy criticizes lawmakers who create anti-queer legislation, urging them to use research and engage with queer communities to make informed decisions.

Coming Out Advice for Queer Youth:

Alyy advises queer and trans South Asian youth to prioritize safety and financial security, challenging the Western narrative that coming out is necessary for queer validity.

Future Aspirations:

Alyy hopes to continue advocating for queer South Asian visibility and to speak on larger platforms to share their message.

Connect with Alyy:

Instagram @alyypatel

Visit their website - www.alyypatel.com

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)

Episode Description:

Join us for the final Pride Month episode of 2024, commemorating the 55th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising. In this episode, we’ll explore Stonewall and significant moments in global queer and trans history.

Episode Highlights:

Historical Context:

Queer and trans identities have always existed, even if modern terminology did not.

Institute of Sexual Research (Early 1900s):

Founded by Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld in Berlin, a haven for queer and trans research and clinical care.

Nazi Suppression:

The destruction of the Institute of Sexual Research by the Nazis in 1933, burning 20,000 books important to queer/trans research & identity.

World War II:

Queer military personnel found solidarity despite discrimination.

Conversion Therapy:

Establishment medicine wrongly pathologized homosexuality, leading to harmful conversion practices.

Mattachine Society:

Early LGBTQ+ rights organization advocating for civil rights and dignity.

Stonewall Uprising:

Police raids at the Stonewall Inn led to the historic uprising on June 28, 1969.

Birth of Pride:

The first Pride parade was organized on June 28, 1970, marking the Stonewall anniversary.

Global Decriminalization:

Many countries decriminalized homosexuality in the 1960s and beyond, with ongoing struggles in Asia.

Conclusion: Honoring the contributions of those who fought for LGBTQ+ rights, we celebrate Pride as an ongoing fight for queer & trans equity, equality, and liberation.

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)

Introduction:

Join host Stevie as they kick off Pride Month 2024 with a heartfelt conversation about queer and trans history. Stevie is joined by a diverse panel of guests, including Tricia D. Carlisle (She/They), Jackson Pace (He/Him), Michael Peterson (He/Him), and Dr. Jampa Wurst (They/Them). These esteemed elders in the queer and trans community share their insights and reflections on the rich tapestry of LGBTQ+ history. Delving into the evolution of the queer and trans community, highlighting pivotal moments in history and the resilience that has defined the movement. From personal anecdotes to discussions about education, stigma, and medical advancements, this episode offers a nuanced look at the challenges and triumphs experienced by LGBTQ+ individuals. Through candid conversations and shared experiences, the panelists celebrate pride, resilience, and the importance of continuing the fight for equality.

Connect with our guests:

Tricia D: tiktok.com/@triciadcarlisle and Instagram @chorkiemama

Jackson Pace: Instagram @jmackenziepace

Michael Peterson: Instagram @michaeljonpeterson

Dr. Jampa Wurst: Instagram @queerandbuddhist

Stevie expresses gratitude to the guests for their insightful contributions and encourages listeners to continue engaging in conversations about queer and trans history throughout Pride Month and beyond.

Stay tuned for episode 11 as we continue the celebration of Pride Month 2024 and the vibrant history and resilience of the LGBTQ+ community!

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)

Janna (she/her), a devoted parent of a trans son, shares her journey of acceptance and advocacy, urging lawmakers to embrace diversity and avoid imposing beliefs on others. She addresses misconceptions about trans people, offers support to parents, and emphasizes the importance of love and understanding. Jana’s story is a testament to the power of love and the importance of embracing diversity within our communities.

Key Points:

Drawing from her personal experiences, Janna sheds light on the importance of inclusivity and compassion within religious communities, especially the Christian community by challenging traditional beliefs in order to foster understanding and acceptance for all individuals.

Addressesing lawmakers worldwide, Janna urges them to see the bigger picture. She uses the analogy of a forest to illustrate the importance of diversity. Just as a forest thrives with different types of trees, society flourishes with diverse beliefs and ways of living.

Further, she dispels myths about trans folks and highlights the real threats they face against their existence by tackling the unfounded fears surrounding trans people; especially in the context of bathroom usage by emphasizing there is no evidence of trans individuals causing harm to others.

Throughout the episode, Janna offers guidance and reassurance to parents struggling with their child’s identity, emphasizing love and understanding. She also shares a tender moment with her son, and reflects on the joy and acceptance she witnessed at an LGBTQ convention.

Overall, Janna’s insights highlight the beauty of diversity and the power of acceptance.

Connect with Janna:

• Instagram/TikTok: @Jannatransmama
• Email: jannatransmomma@gmail.com

Upcoming Episode:

• Stay tuned for episode TEN of QST as we celebrate this milestone episode, Pride Month, and our honoring our Queer & Trans Elders.
• Be sure to follow Stevie on social media for QST updates and more inspiring content @queertransthriving on Instagram.

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)

In this deeply engaging episode of Queer Story Time, Stevie sits down with the inspiring Garland Guidry for a candid and heartfelt conversation. Garland is a hairstylist, author, motivator and consultant. She shares her journey of self-discovery, embracing authenticity, and finding connection within the queer and trans community. From discussing the importance of supportive friendships to navigating the challenges of politics and legislation, Garland offers wisdom and insights that resonate deeply with listeners. She also shares exciting news about her new book "My Romance His Friendship" and her vision for the future.

Key Points:

· Garland emphasizes the importance of being on purpose and in purpose, rather than searching for a single defining purpose.

· As she reflects on her own experiences, Garland advises her younger self to worry less and have more fun, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance.

· She also highlights the need for understanding and acceptance within the queer and trans community, stressing that love and support don't require full understanding.

· Discussing lawmakers and legislation, Garland shares her disillusionment with politics and calls for a collective shift towards authenticity and kindness.

· Shares top tips for queer and trans youth.

Connect with Garland Guidry:

Instagram: @iamladygarland

Stay tuned for the release of Garland's new book, "My Romance; His Friendship," available on Kindle and Audible.

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)

Introduction: In this episode, we welcome Jackson Pace (he/him), a resilient advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and a passionate believer in the power of authenticity. Jackson shares his remarkable journey, navigating the complexities of step-parenting, embracing their identity as a trans masc later in life, and becoming a vocal advocate for equality and acceptance. Through personal anecdotes and insightful reflections, Jackson invites listeners to explore the transformative power of resilience, community, and connection with nature.

*Trigger Warning: This episode contains brief conversation of a suicide attempt and sexual abuse*

Key Points:

Navigating Step-parenting: Reflecting on seven years as a step-parent, Jackson discusses the complexities of parenting dynamics and the struggle of instilling values amid resistance.

Embracing Authenticity: Transitioning at 59, he discuss the process of coming out as trans and finding fulfillment in living authentically by emphasizing self-acceptance.

Discovering Connection: Finding support and community online, Jackson shares the positive impact of social media in fostering connections within the LGBTQ+ community.

Advocacy and Resilience: Addressing discriminatory laws, he urges for acceptance and protection of LGBTQ+ individuals, emphasizing resilience and collective advocacy.

Nature and Connection: Finding solace in nature, Jackson discusses the healing power of being outdoors and connecting with the Earth.

Through his personal narratives, Jackson inspires listeners to embrace authenticity, advocate for change, finding connection in nature and community, and highlighting the transformative power of passion and resilience.

Connect with Jackson Pace:

Instagram: @jmackenziepace

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)