• Reclaiming Adventures..because we can get through anything together...
    Jun 17 2021

    It’s the season finale and we are celebrating with our longest episode yet! Nia & Ness say farewell with a light-hearted conversation about their most impactful trip. Don’t worry, the Black lesbian couple will be back in the fall!

     

    p.s. A special shoutout to Cadacia Townsend for helping inspire Ness to make an important decision (more on that decision in the episode!). Cadacia, Ness forgot to mention you in the episode and is apologizing for that.

    AND, we have a Patreon! Want to hear more podcast-like conversations during our off-season? Become one of our patrons and have exclusive access to that and so much more Nia & Ness content. Visit www.patreon.com/niaandness to subscribe!

    Lastly, can you count how many times Nia flicks her lighter to spark up? lol

     

    Music by Garrett Miller

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Reclaiming Difficult Conversations...by leading with love and vulnerability... Part 2
    Jun 10 2021

    Nia & Ness continue their difficult conversation from last week, addressing some of the challenging dynamics of their relationship. The Black lesbian couple appreciates you holding space for part 2 of this heavy conversation.

     


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    33 mins
  • Reclaiming Difficult Conversations...by leading with love and vulnerability... Part 1
    Jun 3 2021

    Nia & Ness’s couple’s therapist is on vacation this week, so they decided to bring their session to the mic. The Black lesbian couple invites you to hold space for part 1 of a difficult conversation about where they are now and where they see their relationship headed.

    p.s. Remember to subscribe to our newly-launched Patreon page (www.patreon.com/niaandness)! You can now have exclusive, virtual access to our creative and healing processes, including weekly grounding videos, vulnerable writing posts, never-before-seen dance clips, a monthly workshop and more!

     

    Music by Garrett Miller

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    31 mins
  • Reclaiming Special Moments...as we relive them together...
    May 27 2021

    “When did you know that I was the one?” Nia asks Ness, as they sit comfortably on their couch in Rosendale, NY. The Black lesbian couple answers the question, revealing the exact moments each of them fell for the other and sharing some of the memories these moments held.

     

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    30 mins
  • Reclaiming Sex... by being vulnerable with ourselves and each other.
    May 20 2021

    The weather is getting hotter and so is the dialogue between Nia & Ness! Listen in as the Black lesbian couple talks about masterbation, sex and orgasms, and how they're reclaiming these topics with their relationship. 

     

    Content Warning:

    Nia here! Sexual assault is talked about at around 18 minutes into the podcast ( I said in the intro that it was about 10 minutes in...my bad!). I don't go into graphic details but I do talk about online encounters with older men when I was a preteen. 

     

    Music by Garrett Miller

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    40 mins
  • Reclaiming Ourselves....by no longer allowing ourselves to hide...
    May 13 2021

    "What are you hiding from the world? From yourself? Why?" Black lesbian couple Nia & Ness answer the questions to this prompt and reveal the steps they're taking to come out of hiding.

     

    P.S. Nia here and I just wanted to say to you, Ness, I love you. Thank you for being so vulnerable, so brave and so strong. Thank you for being on this healing journey with me <3

     

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    31 mins
  • Reclaiming Our Fears...by uprooting them, together.
    May 6 2021

    Nia & Ness are halfway thru their second season and are not slowing down for a second! Journey with the Black lesbian couple as they point out some recent fears that have surfaced and offer insight into how they're transforming them.

     

    p.s. our cat, Calvin, joined us for the recording of this episode so you might hear some purrs throughout! 

     

    Music by Garrett Miller

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    29 mins
  • Reclaiming Our Sexy...in ways that feel good to us...
    Apr 29 2021

    ”Are you feeling sexy today?” Ness asks Nia, as they cuddle up in their bed on a Fool’s Spring day. Join the Black lesbian couple as they reveal when they feel the sexiest and describe exactly how that feels.

    p.s. This episode is dedicated to one of Nia's best friends. Thank you for being open with us and reminded us how important it is to do this work. We love you!

     

    Also, our cat Jazzy joined us for this episode so you might hear some soft cat purrs in this episode!

     

    Music by Garrett Miller

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    34 mins