Have you ever found yourself endlessly swiping left on dating apps, wondering why nothing clicks? Or maybe you've seen the red flags but kept going anyway—only to end up in a relationship horror story that you can't believe you survived. You're not alone. In today's episode, we're here with Josh Saleh, my brother from another mother! Josh is a fellow entertainment host—who also hosts for Marvel. He's here to help us explore why so many of us get stuck in that loop, the red flags we've ignored, and the wild situations we've lived to tell about. We'll also discuss how to break free from old habits and be open to new possibilities, and just how important sexual compatibility is. Plus, Josh gets really candid about some dating horror stories. And just for fun, we're going to play a few rounds of Josh’s hit new party game "Change My Mind", as it pertains to green flags and the things we’re looking for in a partner- and what often gets overlooked.

Our guest today is Josh Saleh (he/him): a dynamic entertainment host known for his work with Marvel as a hosts for red carpets, comic con, and their YouTube channel. He’s had a winning appearance on hit shows like "Let’s Make a Deal." Josh is also the creator of "Change My Mind," a new and exciting party game that’s taking the market by storm.To learn more about Josh and his work, you can follow him on Instagram at @joshdsaleh and check out "Change My Mind" @changemymindthegame on Amazon.

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As we dive headfirst into Hot Boy Summer, we're excited to tackle a topic that affects us all: rejection. Today, we're thrilled to have Damon Jacobs, our resident therapist and mental health expert, guide us through understanding and overcoming the fear of rejection. Join us as Damon shares his profound insights on vulnerability, inner strength, and the importance of embracing rejection to grow personally and in relationships. Discover practical strategies to push through fear, reclaim your power, and build healthier connections. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, Damon's expertise offers invaluable perspectives for everyone. Tune in for an episode full of revelations, growth, and empowerment. It's Hot Boy Summer, and we're here to make it unforgettable!

Our guest today is Damon L. Jacobs (he/him): a licensed therapist and author dedicated to helping individuals navigate mental health challenges and build fulfilling lives. Based in New York City, he is the author of two books titled, "Absolutely Should-less" and "Rational Relating." He is best known for championing the use of pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) in The New York Times, USA Today, ABC News, MSNBC, NPR, and more. Visit Damon's website at DamonLJacobs.com and check out his series, "Tub Talks with Damon," on YouTube. IG: @damonljacobs.

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As we dive headfirst into Hot Boy Summer, we're thrilled to have the expert guidance of Tammy Shaklee, founder and certified matchmaker at H4M Matchmakers, and a leading LGBTQ relationship expert. Join us as Tammy helps navigate the dating world, sharing her journey into matchmaking, and focusing on supporting the LGBTQ community. Discover common red flags people often overlook, learn why compatibility is key, and understand the benefits of a matchmaker versus using apps.With invaluable advice on first date mistakes and tips to ease dating anxiety, Tammy's expertise offers new perspectives for everyone—whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between. Tune in for an episode full of revelations, love, and passion. It's Hot Boy Summer, and we're here to make it unforgettable!

Our guest today is Tammy Shaklee (she/her): a leading LGBTQ Relationship Expert and President of H4M Matchmaking, where she has successfully paired thousands of LGBTQ clients seeking long-term relationships since 2012. Based in Austin, Texas, Tammy uses her background in broadcast journalism to identify true compatibility and regularly contributes to LGBTQ media. Book a complimentary consultation with your certified matchmaker today, call: 855.443.7463 , IG: @h4mmatchmaking, Website: https://www.h4m.com/ ,

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We sit down with the dynamic Attorney Symone Redwine, a powerful trial attorney, law professor, aspiring comedian, and legal commentator. Known for her blend of sharp legal acumen and bold Southern attitude, Symone shares her insights on the red flags people often ignore in legal disputes. From the necessity of prenups to the importance of background checks, Symone provides invaluable advice for navigating relationships and legal matters. She also opens up about the red flags she overlooked in her own life, offering lessons on self-awareness and understanding personal and partner capacities.

Our guest today is Symone Redwine (she/her): a powerful trial attorney and law professor with beauty, brains, and a bold Southern attitude. A Cornell Law graduate, she's also a legal and social commentator, frequently appearing on TMZ, ABC News, FOX, and her YouTube channel "Girl, Is That Legal?" where she provides insightful and often humorous commentary on a range of issues from celebrity legal drama to relationship matters. Website: https://symoneredwine.com/ , IG: @attorneysymoneredwine

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Today we welcome the multi-talented Matt McConkey, actor, writer, and co-host of the "Homophilia" podcast and host of "Just Like Matt." We dive into a candid discussion about mental health, including James' recent breakthrough and recovery. Matt gives us his tips for breaking relationship patterns through his acrynom HABITT. Plus, Matt shares his journey to finding lasting love and offers tips for trapping the perfect husband!

Our guest today is Matt McConkey (he/him): a TV writer and actor whose credits include KENAN and AMERICAN AUTO. He's also the host of the podcasts "And Just Like Matt" and "Homophilia" for World of Wonder. IG: @themattgrassi

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We're tackling a topic that's all too familiar: the delicate dance between our friends and our significant others. Join us as we dive deep into the murky waters of friend-partner compatibility. Why is it that sometimes the people we love most just can't seem to get along? Are there underlying tensions we're unaware of, or is it simply a clash of personalities? Is it possible to maintain harmony between our significant other and our friends, or are we doomed to forever play referee in our own lives? And who better to help us unravel these complexities than James' best friend/sista friend, Nnekay Fitz-Clarke, a returning guest, librarian, and all-around crafty woman, Nnekay shares her insights and experiences. Plus, we'll find out if there were any exes of James' where she saw the red flags and knew it wouldn't work out.

Our guest today is Nnekay FitzClarke: former co-host and creator of Minority Korner Podcast, she is an all-star librarian, she calls herself an all-around sassy broad who likes to think she knows a thing or two. IG: @nnekay

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Join us on a celestial odyssey as we delve into the fascinating world of astrology with the brilliant astrostoryteller, Renee Nichols of Astrology by Renee. In this episode, we'll explore the profound impact of astrology on our romantic connections, uncovering red flags, and recurring patterns in past relationships. Ever wondered how astrology influences compatibility or conflict in relationships? Or how it can guide us through challenging times? Renee shares her journey into astrology and provides valuable insights for skeptics curious to explore its role in relationships. Get ready for a journey of love, self-discovery, and celestial wisdom as we uncover the mysteries of the cosmos together.

Renee Nichols (she/her): is a silly, queer, poly, vegan, neurospicy, anticapitalist astro-storyteller in her final year of Astrology University's Professional Astrologer program. She uses astrology to help people better understand and accept themselves and step onto a path of greater authenticity and joy. You can find Renee online at astrologybyrenee.com and @astrologybyrenee on socials including instagram, tiktok, Facebook, and youtube. She offers 1:1 and couples counseling which you can schedule on her website, astrologybyrenee.com.

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Ever felt like your workplace is more of a battleground than a professional environment? Us too! Inspired by Nickelodeon's 'Quiet on Set' documentary, we're diving into workplace dynamics. From toxic environments to red flags, we're sharing experiences, discussing why we’ve stayed, and like any bad relationship, this signs it’s time to leave when that workplace is no longer serving you. With insights from experts and our guest, Mackenzie Green, we uncover signs of toxicity and the importance of a supportive workplace culture that fosters belonging, we explore what makes a workplace thrive. Tune in to learn how to recognize when it's time to walk away and find your green light in the workplace!

Guest: Mackenzie Green (she/her):: Mackenzie is the Vice President of Social at Future Media, bringing over 12 years of social media and digital marketing experience with brands like Betches, Telemundo, and BET+. She holds degrees from the University of Miami and Columbia Business School. Mackenzie is actively involved in philanthropy, serving on the US board for the Shoebox Project and the board of the Girls Scouts of Greater Los Angeles. She's also a co-host on The Taylor Strecker Show and hosts The LA Comic Con Podcast. Mackenzie is a proud blerd, marathon runner, dog mom, and memory athlete

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