Summary

In this conversation, Dr. Eran Magen and Alan Watts explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on parenting, divorce, and the emotional challenges faced by fathers.

They discuss the lack of relationship education, the importance of communication, and the impact of divorce on children. The conversation emphasises the need for support systems, the role of counseling, coaching, and the significance of maintaining connections during difficult times.

Dr. Magen shares insights on navigating the family court system and the importance of mediation, while also highlighting the journey of healing and personal growth following a divorce.

Takeaways

Relationships are not taught in schools, which is a significant issue.

The biggest determinant of health and happiness is the quality of relationships.

Dads often face high rates of suicide, highlighting the need for support.

Parenting should focus on reducing stress and increasing enjoyment.

Men often struggle to express their emotions, leading to isolation.

Communication is key in co-parenting and maintaining relationships.

Counseling should be seen as a proactive measure, not just a last resort.

Divorce can lead to significant emotional challenges for both parents and children.

It's crucial to maintain connections and seek support during tough times.

Healing and personal growth are possible after divorce, often leading to better outcomes.

Contact Info:-

Relationship Revolutions is hosted & presented by Alan Watts "The Love Engineer"
Alan is a relationship coach who uses a unique blend of NLP, coaching and Kinesiology to help & guide his clients to find, build & keep the relationship that is right for them.
Alan's socials and website can be found on www.linktr.ee/LoveEngineer

Guest Info

Eran Magen Ph.D. is a Population Health Psychologist, Founder and CEO of Early Alert (EarlyAlert.me) and Parenting For Humans (ParentingForHumans.com)

www.earlyalert.me

www.parentingforhumans.com

Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/eranmagen/

Early Alert helps universities and K-12 schools prevent student suicide, by checking in with every student every week using confidential text messaging, offering instant referrals to students who need them, and providing a real-time wellness dashboard to support continuous improvement.

Parenting For Humans is a relationship-first, judgment-free approach to parenting that emphasizes collaboration and joy in parenting. For recorded workshops and to sign up for classes, visit http://ParentingForHumans.com

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and the Lack of Relationship Education

03:21 Prevention in Relationships: Open Communication and Check-Ins

06:28 Supporting Divorced Dads and Maintaining Connection with Children

16:18 Understanding the Emotional Experiences of Men and Women in Divorce

28:07 Spreading the Message: Things Get Better After Divorce

30:22 Becoming the Father Your Kids Need: Finding Motivation and Support

36:51 Navigating the Family Court System: Fair Custody Arrangements

38:53 Effective Communication and Mediation: Resolving Conflicts

49:20 Avoiding Court Battles: Non-Adversarial Approaches

53:18 Reaching Out for Support: Friends, Family, and Professionals

55:57 Enjoying Life During and After Divorce: Finding Happiness

Summary

In this conversation, wedding planner Katy shares her journey into the wedding planning industry, discussing the various roles and responsibilities of a wedding planner compared to a wedding coordinator.

She highlights the importance of budgeting, the cultural differences in weddings, and the keys to a successful wedding day. Katy also delves into the distinction between marriage and wedding, emphasising the significance of communication and pre-marital counseling in maintaining a healthy relationship.

The discussion touches on modern wedding practices, traditions, and lessons learned from past experiences.

Contact info Relationship Revolutions is hosted & presented by Alan Watts "The Love Engineer" Alan is a relationship coach who uses a unique blend of NLP, coaching and Kinesiology to help & guide his clients to find, build & keep the relationship that is right for them. Alan's socials and website can be found on www.linktr.ee/LoveEngineer

Guest info

Katy Osborne

Katy takes the stress away from wedding planning.

Website - http://www.kovasupport.com

Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/katy-osborne/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:10 The Role of a Wedding Planner

05:02 The Average Cost of a Wedding

09:22 The Unique Traditions of Indian Weddings

15:12 Keys to a Successful Marriage

20:46 Balancing Work and Family Life

24:45 The Importance of Open Communication

28:17 Advice for Couples on Their Wedding Day

31:12 Dealing with Unexpected Challenges

Takeaways

Katy fell into wedding planning after university.

A wedding planner provides peace of mind for couples.

Budgeting is crucial for a successful wedding.

Cultural differences significantly impact wedding planning.

Communication is essential in both weddings and marriages.

Pre-marital counseling can prevent future issues.

Traditions in weddings vary widely across cultures.

Enjoying the wedding day is more important than perfection.

Every wedding has its unique challenges and surprises.

Marriage requires ongoing effort and communication.

Summary

Mark Deeks, a musician and speaker, shares his journey from being a musician to using music as a tool for mental health and wellbeing. He discusses the challenges of making a living from music and the misconceptions around it. Mark also opens up about the loss of his child and the emotional and mental health journey that followed.

He highlights the importance of finding positivity and healing through music and shares how he incorporated his daughter's existence into his music.

In this conversation, Alan and Mark discuss their personal experiences with music and how it has impacted their lives. They share stories about their favourite bands and albums, as well as the role music played during challenging times.

They also touch on the evolution of relationships and the challenges of dating. Mark emphasises the importance of establishing boundaries and context in relationships, while Alan reflects on the difficulties of dating after a divorce.

Contact info

Relationship Revolutions is hosted & presented by Alan Watts "The Love Engineer"

Alan is a relationship coach who uses a unique blend of NLP, coaching and Kinesiology to help & guide his clients to find, build & keep the relationship that is right for them.

Alan's socials and website can be found on www.linktr.ee/LoveEngineer

Guest info

Mark Deeks is a speaker on music & mental health. Keynotes & workshops to improve the wellbeing of you & your people with piano, group singing & heavy metal. Often at the same time 🎹🤘🏻 And yes, his PhD is in heavy metal. Honest.

Website - www.markdeeksmusic.com

Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-deeks/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/MarkDeeksMusicNewcastle

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:21 The Challenges of Making a Living as a Musician

09:22 Using Music as Therapy for Grief and Loss

22:18 The Need for Support and Understanding for Individuals Who Have Experienced Child Loss

27:53 The Healing Power of Music

31:55 The Influence of Music on Relationships

37:15 The Evolution of Music and Changing Sound of Bands

41:09 The Love for Classic Metal and Rock

43:47 The Stress of Dating and Establishing Boundaries

Takeaways

Music is a powerful tool for mental health and wellbeing, and it can be used as a form of therapy and healing.

Making a living from music is challenging, and there are misconceptions about the financial aspects of being a musician.

The loss of a child is a traumatic experience, and it can be difficult to find the right support and language to talk about it.

Finding positivity and creating something meaningful can help in the healing process after a loss. Music can have a profound impact on our lives, providing comfort and inspiration during challenging times.

The evolution of relationships and the challenges of dating can be stressful and require the establishment of boundaries and context.

It's important not to judge a book by its cover or make assumptions about someone based on their appearance.

The early albums of bands often hold a special place in the hearts of fans, but it's important to appreciate the growth and evolution of artists over time.

Establishing a deep connection and understanding with a partner can make the dating process less daunting and more fulfilling.