Episodes

  • Basics Bitch | Episode 30

    Basics Bitch | Episode 30
    Jul 10 2024
    SELFWIFE episode 30 is about the importance of learning and prioritizing ~the basics~ late in life if you were never taught them in your formative years, including some of my current favorite basics that make me feel like I'm a great selfwife. Also sharing two new, easy, daily practices that I've implemented in my year of solitude, the importance of having the right tools and not keeping people in your life that make your stomach drop and your heart race on the regular.- - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    51 mins
  • The Male Gaze Is Hell | Episode 29

    The Male Gaze Is Hell | Episode 29
    Jun 26 2024
    **CW- child abuse, sexual assault, body dysmorphia and disordered eating are discussed** Telling you some stories about how the male gaze was made the center of my life by my m*m since toddlerhood, what that's led to in adulthood, and how I've seen the light now (and want you to, as well) .- - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    57 mins
  • Go Find The Fuel | Episode 28

    Go Find The Fuel | Episode 28
    Jun 12 2024
    this episode is for the folks whose families hinder instead of help them // topics include: how to stay motivated, how to allow yourself to create if you don't come from creative people, the two dudes who made me believe i could make documentaries, continuing to create against odds and my decision not to make anything else until i'm out of student loan debt - - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    43 mins
  • The Internet Is Other People | Episode 27

    The Internet Is Other People | Episode 27
    Jun 5 2024
    Will I ever not get sick to my stomach about marketing my work? Other topics discussed: Anxiety! Alcohol! Contrast! Leaving my phone outside overnight and having deep realizations! Just listen to the episode. - - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    35 mins
  • Coming Out As An Introvert | Episode 26

    Coming Out As An Introvert | Episode 26
    May 15 2024
    topics discussed: getting an agent in LA auditioning the commercial i booked being called a blank canvas BEING a blank canvas unlearning being a blank canvas allowing new (old) inspiration in thoughts on tori amos stop making sense tom waits catching up with the world - - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    36 mins
  • My Sad Happy List | Episode 25

    My Sad Happy List | Episode 25
    Apr 24 2024
    Topics Discussed: Making my first Happy List at age 31 New therapist Creating small avenues to joy Being a reformed pick me The impact of your primary caretakers putting your needs last What we can learn from narcissists Changing my phone number two days before my birthday Eating the earth My changing tastebuds Not dieting, but teaching myself about food Being in the beginning stages of holding the boundaries I’ve developed - - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    51 mins
  • OUT of CONTROL!! | Episode 24

    OUT of CONTROL!! | Episode 24
    Apr 3 2024
    On episode 24 of SELFWIFE, I'm joined by my lifelong friend Coleen who grew up in the same very small, very strange, very fundamentalist Christian church that I did. In this ep we remember the good, the bad and the embarrassing - like performing at the local mall in a kids' Christian choir called "SOOL" but pronounced "soul" ☹️- - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • Better But Still Bad | Episode 23

    Better But Still Bad | Episode 23
    Jan 17 2024
    a term i've coined for a phenomenon i've noticed that tricks vulnerable people into remaining in dangerous situations- - - - SELFWIFE is produced, hosted, edited and mixed by Ani Easton Baker. Show artwork by Jesse Case. Intro song: "ASMR Falling Forever" MM Music
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    48 mins