When Sally Hornick Anderson’s 13-year-old child came out to her as non-binary, wanting to use the pronouns “they” and “them,” they went to the right person. Sally remembered the story“The therapist that they were working with said ‘Hey, how did your parents respond?’ And they said, ‘Well, my mom works in diversity. So of course, she was OK with it.’”Sally, Google’s Workforce Diversity Director, believes it’s every HR professional’s duty to make employees feel accepted and comfortable. And developing an open relationship with your team requires being genuine about your own experiences. On this episode of Human Resolve, host Mark Minner speaks with Sally about the importance of HR professionals being allies, the power of uncomfortable conversations (especially around race) and why it’s crucial to check in on employees regularly, especially during a time when mental health issues are a growing problem in the U.S. Sally also shares how her work at Google has been affected by recent racial inequity protests and the COVID-19 pandemic. Spoiler alert: it’s made work much more challenging but also that much more important.“I always try to be very conscious and … check in, like ‘How are you?’” Sally says of her one-on-one meetings with employees. “I think sometimes when people ask that question, it can come across as inauthentic because it's like ‘How are you?’ and they’re already thinking about the next topic — but just holding the space to say, ‘How are you?’ and ‘How can I support you?’”Featured LeaderName: Sally Hornick AndersonTitle: Workforce Diversity Director Company: GoogleNoteworthy: Sally is an avid cook who enjoys cooking Indian dishes — not only because of how delicious it is, but because it offers a range of tasty options that comply with her food limitations due to dairy and gluten sensitivities. Where to find Sally: LinkedInHuman Resolve Episode 11 HighlightsHighlights from the transcript.💡 Don’t be afraid to have uncomfortable conversations if they help you grow[06:15] “I know my identity as a white cisgender heterosexual female. And so because I know who I am, I know how I present to others, I know how I identify, it helps me understand the importance of being curious about others’ gender or diversity identities and how they prefer to be acknowledged. … We are now in such a society where diversity equity and inclusion stories are on the news. So there's always something to talk about, and actually sit in that discourse with each other, which can be really uncomfortable. But that's how we actually help educate each other on these topics that are so critical today, especially around racial injustice.”💡 The importance of asking, ‘How are you?’ intentionally[09:35] "I always try to be very conscious in one-on-ones or in group meetings, just checking in, like ‘How are you?’ and just really holding that space. … I think sometimes when people ask that question, it can come across as inauthentic because it's like ‘How are you?’ and they’re already thinking about the next topic — but just holding the space to say, ‘How are you?’ and ‘How can I support you?’”💡 Employees value when companies take a stance against injustice [12:29] "I think it's important to say something. I found where organizations really struggle is because they don't say anything, or they're afraid to say something or get it wrong. And I think there's an element of like, I might not be getting this right, but we're trying, we're trying to do the right thing. And we're trying to support our communities. And I do think employees really value having that humility, especially when leaders — they try, and they're trying to get it right.”💡 Don’t shy away from mental health issues happening internally[15:04] “I don't think we're prepared. I don't think there are enough professionals for what's about to come. Nor do I think people are comfortable asking for help. There's such a societal stigma around mental health in this society. So that's one thing coming out of what I'm living through personally right now that I'd like to bust is: how do we remove that stigma so people can get the help and talk about it?”💡 Encourage employees to take care of both their mental and physical health[18:34] "How do we … create that safety umbrella for everyone to check in and say sometimes it's OK not to be OK. Or if you need to take a well-being day. I don't think we're all doing a great job with self-care, self-love — whatever you want to title it. And so that mindfulness is even more important. And that doesn't mean just meditation. … It's really thinking about the foundation. Are people getting enough sleep? Are they eating right? Are they really hydrating?”💡 Address diversity issues by looking at trends and asking around[20:48] “What data do you have available? Do you do self ID data? Do you understand your ...
