In this episode, I speak candidly about being angry with myself—not from regret, but from awakening. For years, like many seasoned women, I gave, poured, and helped others rise. But now we are in a season of harvest, and too often we hide our blessings because some people don’t know how to celebrate us. This conversation is an invitation to stop shrinking, to honor the work we’ve done, and to finally stand boldly in the blessings we’ve earned. It’s harvest time—no more hiding.

When we choose not to forgive, we’re only hurting ourselves. The other person is often living their life—while we’re the ones walking around with the heavy burden of unforgiveness. Let it go for your own peace.

We also need to stop judging others. Every one of us has made mistakes in life. Instead, choose compassion. As seasoned women, our life experiences should make us softer, not harder—wiser, not harsher. Our strength shines brightest when it’s wrapped in grace.

Living life on your terms—even in marriage. I talk about choosing joy, traveling solo when your spouse stays behind, and giving yourself permission to be 'selfish' in this season of life. What if they don’t support it—do you stay home or still do you?

Give yourself permission to dream. Uplift your spirit by planning where you want to be—one year from now. Whether it’s personal growth, launching a business, traveling, or finding peace, it's okay to dream big. Because with vision, intention, and action… it can and will happen.

As we come to the end of the year, my wish is that we fulfill our dreams and live out our purpose. Let us remember, as women, it’s okay to be selfish sometimes and prioritize self-care. Don’t forget—you have the strength to finish everything you started. Let’s tie up all loose ends, embrace the new year with intention, and live our lives on purpose.

On today’s podcast, we’re talking about embracing your beauty and allowing yourself to feel good about who you are. I shared a personal moment about my gray hair and how I love to feel my best. As we chatted, I took out my hair color stick and began covering my gray hair—because that’s my choice to feel confident!

Some women fully embrace their gray hair, which is amazing, but I choose to cover mine. The key message? It's about what makes you feel good and empowered.

I also encouraged women to finish this year strong. It’s not too late to start or complete your goals—just get it done! Whatever it is, take action and end the year feeling proud of yourself.

We must stop holding onto doors that have closed in our lives. Often, we’re afraid to move forward, fearing the unknown, yet staying in our comfort zone. We need to recognize when a chapter has ended and have the courage to move on. Embracing the closed doors allows us to step into bigger and better opportunities, opening a new chapter that God has prepared for us.

"Often, we shrink ourselves to fit into relationships we've outgrown. It's time to move on. There's no need to judge; just kindly move forward. Some people prefer to stay the same, resisting growth, but I choose to evolve. When the conversations no longer change, it's time to grow—unapologetically."