On today's episode we discuss various topics related to marriage and sex.

We cover two segments from previous episodes, one about a couple who stopped fighting after improving their sex life, and another about a wife who is not attracted to her husband's penis.

What are the deeper meanings and implications of these issues, emphasizing the importance of understanding oneself and one's spouse.

Takeaways

Open and honest conversations are essential for a healthy marriage and sex life.
Understanding oneself and one's spouse is crucial for a deeper connection.
The meaning and significance of certain body parts can vary between individuals and couples.
Exploring the deeper meanings and implications of sexual issues can lead to personal growth and a stronger relationship.

On the Xtended Version ...

In the XTD content, another listen into the last part of the Q&A session at 2024 SMR Getaway.

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This week was recorded live the 2024 SMR Getaway Q&A.

We answer a voicemail from a listener who has realized that since they began listening to SMR and talking more about their sex lives with each other, they don't fight anymore.

We also have an email from a husband who is aroused by big, beautiful women, yet married a woman who is not. Instead she was safe and mature. What can he do?

On the Xtended Version ...

In the XTD content, a listen into the Q&A session of 2024 SMR Getaway.

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This week is a rapid fire Q&A - recorded live from the 2024 SMR Getaway.

We discuss topics such as how to get turned on by seeing a partner's penis, how to improve desire in a low-drive spouse during a stressful time, how much time couples typically spend on sex, and how to teach kids healthy sexual boundaries without invoking shame.

We emphasize the importance of open communication, setting boundaries, and creating opportunities for connection in relationships. We also discuss the need to let go of societal scripts and expectations around sex and focus on what works for each individual couple.

On the Xtended Version ...

In the XTD content, we cover more question from the Getaway last week.

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Dr. John Delony joins me as we talk through the concept of anxiety as a smoke signal, indicating that something is amiss in our lives.

He encourages individuals to face their discomfort and choose the hard path of growth and change (sound familiar?). He also highlights the significance of belief in something bigger than ourselves and the need to drive our own lives instead of trying to control others.

Lastly, we discuss the importance of self-awareness and taking responsibility for our own actions in relationships.

Learn more about Dr John here https://www.ramseysolutions.com/john-delony

Takeaways

Dr. John Deloney's journey into therapy and coaching was inspired by his father's work as a homicide detective and hostage negotiator.
Anxiety is a smoke signal that something is amiss in our lives, and it is important to face our discomfort and choose the hard path of growth and change.
Belief in something bigger than ourselves is crucial for managing anxiety and finding peace and clarity.
It is important to drive our own lives and take responsibility for our own actions, rather than trying to control others.
Self-awareness and recognizing our own part in relationships is essential for personal growth and healthy connections.
On the Xtended Version ...

In the XTD content, we continue the conversation with Dr John by looking further into how vulnerability and open communication are key to building strong and intimate relationships. Plus, it is important to embrace the mundane aspects of life and find joy in the everyday moments.

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In this conversation, Dr Corey is joined by Tyler and Brannon Patrick, also known as The Therapy Brothers, as they discuss the topic of betrayal, trauma, addiction, and infidelity in marriages.

They emphasize the importance of addressing the underlying issues and not just focusing on the specific behavior, such as pornography usage. There is a need for honesty, accountability, transparency, and living in alignment with personal values. Plus we also discuss the role of individual healing and growth in the context of a relationship.

There is a challenge in navigating sexuality and an importance in creating a safe space for open and honest communication. Overall, our conversation emphasizes the power of personal agency and the potential for growth and healing in our relationships.

Learn more about the Therapy Brothers here - https://therapybros.com

And https://lovestrong.com

Takeaways

Addressing the underlying issues is crucial when dealing with betrayal, addiction, and infidelity in marriages.
Honesty, accountability, and transparency are essential for rebuilding trust and creating a healthy relationship.
Individual healing and growth are necessary for both partners to move forward and create a stronger connection.
Navigating sexuality after betrayal can be challenging, but creating a safe space for open communication is key.
Personal agency and taking responsibility for one's own healing are powerful catalysts for change in relationships.

On the Xtended Version ...

In the XTD content, we get personal as we talk through our own journeys with betrayal and healing.

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In this conversation, Dr Jessica Higgins joins me as we discuss the topic of criticism in relationships.

We explore how criticism can be damaging -- but we also offer strategies for addressing it.

It is so, so important to slow the process down, get curious, and reveal the underlying needs and requests.

Learn more from Dr Higgins - https://drjessicahiggins.com/

Empowered Relationship Podcast link: https://drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/

Get the free guide here - https://drjessicahiggins.com/shifting-criticism-for-connected-communication

Takeaways

Criticism in relationships can be damaging and erode the bond between partners.
Slowing down and getting curious can help address criticism and reveal underlying needs and requests.
Both partners need to take responsibility for their own reactions and work towards open communication and vulnerability.
Addressing criticism requires a balance between being considerate of the other person's feelings and maintaining a sense of self.
On the Xtended Version ...

In the XTD content, we also discuss the role of defensiveness and the need for both partners to take responsibility for their own reactions. The main takeaway from our conversation -- the importance of open communication and vulnerability in creating a healthy and connected relationship.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr Corey and Pam discuss the importance of flexibility in marriage and how it relates to facing and dealing with reality.

We explore the concept of love languages and how they may not always lead to more desire or passion in a relationship. What is the difference between being a good companion and being a good lover?

And what's the role of presence and initiation in igniting sexual attraction?

Takeaways

Flexibility is crucial in marriage as it allows couples to face and adjust to the realities of life.
Love languages are important for connection and relationship maintenance, but they may not always lead to sexual desire.
Being a good companion is different from being a good lover, and both aspects are important in a relationship.
Creating an environment that fosters intimacy and desire requires self-awareness, presence, and initiation.
Vacations can ignite passion and desire due to the change in scenery, routine, and relaxation, but it's important to understand and replicate the factors that contribute to the spark at home.
On the Xtended Version ...

What make vulnerability in marriage so difficult?

Is it the motivations behind the vulnerability? I think yes.

Let's explore more.

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In this conversation, GS Youngblood joins me as we discuss his blueprint for masculinity in relationships, which focuses on three elements: respond versus react, provide structure, and create safety.

He emphasizes the importance of simplicity, relationality, and applicability in his framework.

We highlight the significance of emotional resonance, co-regulation, and curiosity in creating a safe and connected relationship.

Learn more from GS Youngblood here - https://www.gsyoungblood.com/

Takeaways

GS Youngblood's blueprint for masculinity in relationships consists of three elements: respond versus react, provide structure, and create safety.
The blueprint emphasizes simplicity, relationality, and applicability in order to be easily understood and implemented by men.
The first element, respond versus react, involves being grounded, still, and choiceful in one's actions.
The second element, provide structure, entails having inner clarity and attunement to oneself and one's partner.
The third element, create safety, focuses on emotional safety, trust-building, emotional resonance, co-regulation, and curiosity.
Embodying the qualities of the masculine blueprint can help men feel more grounded, confident, and connected in their relationships.

On the Xtended Version ...

In the XTD content, we dive deeper into the 3 aspects of the blueprint. The first element, respond versus react, involves being grounded, still, and choiceful in one's actions. The second element, provide structure, entails having inner clarity and attunement to both oneself and one's partner. The third element, create safety, involves emotional safety and trust-building.

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