Speak Honest: Attachment, Trauma, & Heartbreak, Your Guide to Secure Communication

Are you tired of those moments when your partner says or does something that sends you into a spiral, but you don’t know why?

In this episode, we dive deep into understanding relationship triggers—those emotional reactions that feel so out of proportion to the situation at hand. I guide you through recognizing your triggers, understanding their roots, and how you can manage them more effectively, so they don’t control you or your relationships. Let’s get curious, not furious, and take the first step toward healthier connections.

You might want to listen if:

• You find yourself reacting to the same situations over and over again, and it’s impacting your relationships.
• You’ve ever felt like your emotions are out of control, and you’re not sure why.
• You struggle with unspoken needs and boundaries that lead to big emotional blow-ups.
• You feel overwhelmed when covert expectations aren’t met in your relationships.
• You want actionable tools to manage your triggers and improve communication with loved ones.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Faceboook Group 🧡
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Interested in 1:1 or group coaching? Schedule Now
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Are you struggling with grief that feels like it won’t let go, whether it’s from losing someone or ending a relationship?

In this episode, we talk with Chelsea Ohlemiller about the many faces of grief. From losing her mother and the journey to healing, to understanding how grief can affect every aspect of your life—Chelsea brings both vulnerability and practical wisdom. Together, we dive into how grief isn't just about loss through death but can also show up when relationships end, and how to navigate those emotions while still honoring yourself.

You might want to listen if:

• You feel stuck in grief after losing a loved one or relationship.
• You struggle with guilt over moving forward while still holding on to your pain.
• You're looking for a way to process difficult emotions without getting overwhelmed.
• You want to understand why grief can feel like a never-ending process.
• You’re in need of practical, compassionate advice for healing from loss, whether it's recent or from years ago.

About Our Guest:
A wife, mother and educator who has Indiana roots and a passionate spirit. Chelsea is a sappy romantic, coffee junkie, book collector, and person who wears her heart on her sleeve. She’s sarcastic, full of jokes, full of tears, and enjoys writing most when life gets messy or complicated. In 2017, Chelsea's mother passed away. Through her grief journey, she decided to take her mother’s advice and share her writing with the world. One day she gained the courage to honor her mother's wishes and write. It turned out to be one of the best decisions she's ever made.

• Website: https://hopeandharshrealities.com/
• Book: Now That She's Gone

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Faceboook Group 🧡
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Interested in 1:1 or group coaching? Schedule Now
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Why do we tell ourselves stories that only bring us pain? In this episode of Speak Honest, I dive deep into some gut-wrenching listener questions about love, breakups, and why it feels like your ex is thriving while you're stuck in heartache. We break down the stories we tell ourselves, challenge those limiting beliefs, and shift the focus back on you—because healing starts with understanding your own truth.

You might want to listen if:

• You're stuck wondering why your ex seems happier than you.
• You feel unworthy after a breakup and question your value.
• You're battling with deep-rooted attachment wounds and need guidance to move forward.
• You keep getting dumped "out of the blue" and wonder why it's a pattern.
• You’re ready to start rewriting your story and reclaim your happiness.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Faceboook Group 🧡
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Interested in 1:1 or group coaching? Schedule Now
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.