• Izi Chinchay of PUSHtheGOAL Soccer & more!
    Jul 22 2024

    Izi Chinchay (a name you won't soon forget) is our guest today on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! Izi is a coach, leader, role model, podcaster, and a newlywed too (at the time of this recording she was counting down the weeks to her wedding). We're big fans and excited to have her on the show!

    Soccer mom and dad alert!! You are in the right place today. You are gonna soak up the wisdom, and may I say, next level energy, fire, and competitive spirit of this amazing lady!

    Izi has an important story to tell and we are 100% confident that it will inspire you (and your teens) to elevate your parenting game so you can best equip, encourage, and empower your athletes and performers!

    There's a little bit of everything in this episode for all moms and dads whether you're supporting your teens on the pitch, the court, or the stage. Sit back and generate some insight as we draw out wisdom and knowledge from the courageous, the resilient, the determined, the one and only Izi Chinchay!! Click here to find her on Instagram!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or where ever you get your podcasts.

    And, if you like to WATCH rather than LISTEN, we are now on VIDEO with each of our future episodes (starting with Episode 50 ). You can find now watch us on YouTube on the Nate & Steve Channel (@CreateTransformBecome) click HERE: The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! New episodes drop every Monday.

    If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    And as always moms & dads--we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Parents: Should You Drop the Shield?! (The Good Life series 4 of 4)
    Jul 15 2024

    NOTE: We're on video now on YouTube!! Click here to watch!

    Welcome to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! You must be a Most Valuable Parent! Of course you are!

    In this 4 episode series we will be rolling around in and climbing up and down the not so secret, secret to lasting happiness. Thanks for joining us as we dive into the transformative content from the bestselling book: The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness by Marc Schulz and Robert J. Waldinger. These guys know happiness! After all, they have been engaged in a study spanning almost 85 years and examining 700+ individuals and families. Now that's what you call an exhaustive study!!

    So in this episode we tackle the use of Parental Shields! Here's a question to get you thinking...

    How do you protect your teens while also not shielding them from the very experiences that will help them learn, grow, and develop?

    We hope you'll find value and dive deep into your parental thoughts as we discuss the life changing (for the good!) findings from the world’s longest happiness study. And as always, we specifically tailor our content for the amazing, striving, and resilient parents of teen athletes and performers. We want nothing more than to inspire and educate MVPs like yourself to elevate your performance, deepen family bonds, and become a role model for your teen’s success and well-being. Let's goooooooooooooooooooo!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or where ever you get your podcasts.

    And, if you like to WATCH rather than LISTEN, we are now on VIDEO with each of our future episodes (starting with Episode 50 . You can find now watch us on YouTube on the Nate & Steve Channel (@CreateTransformBecome) click HERE: The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! New episodes drop every Monday.

    If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    And as always moms & dads--we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    31 mins
  • Parents--Will Yours Stand the Test of Time? (The Good Life series 3 of 4)
    Jul 8 2024

    NOTE: Our show is now a video podcast and we're on YouTube!! Click here to watch!

    Welcome to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! You must be a Most Valuable Parent! Of course you are!

    In this 4 episode series we will be rolling around in and climbing up and down the not so secret, secret to lasting happiness. Thanks for joining us as we dive into the transformative content from the bestselling book: The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness by Marc Schulz and Robert J. Waldinger. These guys know happiness! After all, they have been engaged in a study spanning almost 85 years and examining 700+ individuals and families. Now that's what you call an exhaustive study!!

    Here's where we're going today...

    How can we build relationships with our teens (& anyone else!) that can truly stand the test of time?

    Will yours stand the test of time? "Will my 'what', you ask?" (Actually you did NOT ask that because having listened to Eps 50 & 51 you already know we're laser focused on RELATIONSHIPS! (standing O 4 U).

    Let's go, the clock is ticking!

    We hope you'll find value and dive deep into your parental thoughts as we discuss the life changing (for the good!) findings from the world’s longest happiness study. And as always, we specifically tailor our content for the amazing, striving, and resilient parents of teen athletes and performers. We want nothing more than to inspire and educate MVPs like yourself to elevate your performance, deepen family bonds, and become a role model for your teen’s success and well-being. Let's goooooooooooooooooooo!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or where ever you get your podcasts.

    And, if you like to WATCH rather than LISTEN, we are now on VIDEO with each of our future episodes (starting with Episode 50 . You can find now watch us on YouTube on the Nate & Steve Channel (@CreateTransformBecome) click HERE: The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! New episodes drop every Monday.

    If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    And as always moms & dads--we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    22 mins
  • Parents--How Do We Reclaim Our Kids?! (The Good Life series 2 of 4)
    Jul 1 2024

    NOTE: We're on video now on YouTube!! Click here to watch!

    Welcome to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! You must be a Most Valuable Parent! Of course you are!

    In this 4 episode series we will be rolling around in and climbing up and down the not so secret, secret to lasting happiness. Thanks for joining us as we dive into the transformative content from the bestselling book: The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness by Marc Schulz and Robert J. Waldinger. These guys know happiness! After all, they have been engaged in a study spanning almost 85 years and examining 700+ individuals and families. Now that's what you call an exhaustive study!!

    Ever feel like the distractions and busyness of life robs you of quality time with your teens?

    What meaningful traditions do you have in your family? How do you create more with your teens?

    Practices, phones, friends, all the fun and sometimes boring stuff of life claims our teens by diverting our focus and chewing up the clock. Well, let's reclaim them and create space for the magical relationships we all desire. We hit this issue hard in this episode and along the way have some fun.

    We hope you'll find value and dive deep into your parental thoughts as we discuss the life changing (for the good!) findings from the world’s longest happiness study. And as always, we specifically tailor our content for the amazing, striving, and resilient parents of teen athletes and performers. We want nothing more than to inspire and educate MVPs like yourself to elevate your performance, deepen family bonds, and become a role model for your teen’s success and well-being. Let's goooooooooooooooooooo!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or where ever you get your podcasts.

    And, if you like to WATCH rather than LISTEN, we are now on VIDEO with each of our future episodes (starting with Episode 50 . You can find now watch us on YouTube on the Nate & Steve Channel (@CreateTransformBecome) click HERE: The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! New episodes drop every Monday.

    If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    And as always moms & dads--we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    24 mins
  • Parents: Is there a "Happiness SECRET?!" (The Good Life series 1 of 4)
    Jun 24 2024

    Welcome to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! You must be a Most Valuable Parent! Of course you are!

    In our next four episode series we will be revealing the not so secret, secret to lasting happiness as we dive into the transformative content from the bestselling book: The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness by Marc Schulz and Robert J. Waldinger. These guys know happiness. After all, they have been engaged in a study spanning almost 85 years and examining 700+ individuals and families. Now that's what you call an exhaustive study!!

    Who wouldn't want to know the secret to happiness?! Imagine how tapping into this secret can not only transform your connection to your teen athlete or performer but with any and every other human you know (dogs, too! cats? we're not sure!).

    We hope you'll find value and dive deep into your parental thoughts as we discuss the life changing (for the good!) findings from the world’s longest happiness study. And as always, we specifically tailor our content for the amazing, striving, and resilient parents of teen athletes and performers. We want nothing more than to inspire and educate MVPs like yourself to elevate your performance, deepen family bonds, and become a role model for your teen’s success and well-being. Let's goooooooooooooooooooo!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or where ever you get your podcasts.

    And, if you like to WATCH rather than LISTEN, we are now going VIDEO with each of our future episodes. Starting with Episode 50 (this one!) you can find now watch us on YouTube on the Nate & Steve Channel (@CreateTransformBecome) click HERE: The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! New episodes drop every Monday.

    If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    And as always moms & dads--we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    27 mins
  • MINDSET SERIES (6 of 6): Let's Get INTENTIONal!
    Jun 17 2024

    MINDSET SERIES (6 of 6): Let's Ignite INTENTION!

    Moms & Dads! Today we continue our 6 episode series on mindset. We are so excited to share our createtransformbecome mindset map with you! It is key to improve your parenting and become a high performing human! Are you with us on that? Let's goooooooooo!

    In today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we finish strong with INTENTION! We've walked the path from HONESTY to FOCUS to BELIEF to RESPONSE to OPTIMISM in the past 5 episodes. If you haven't listened to them, we encourage you to do so (start on Episode 44--"Let's Get Radically Honest!")

    Here are a couple of teasers for today's episode:

    • What do fresh shelled peas have to do with parenting your teen performers?
    • Are you fueling yourself like a donkey or a Kentucky Derby thoroughbred?!
    • Let's go moms & dads, let's get unabashedly INTENTIONal and be the leaders your teens need you to be!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    Moms/Dads--we're cheering you on this week as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    30 mins
  • MINDSET SERIES (5 of 6): Let OPTIMISM Rule!
    Jun 10 2024

    MINDSET SERIES (5 of 6): Let OPTIMISM Rule!

    Moms & Dads! Today we continue our 6 episode series on mindset. We are so excited to share our createtransformbecome mindset map with you! It is key to improve your parenting and become a high performing human! Are you with us on that? Let's goooooooooo!

    In today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we step up to OPTIMISM. This is next on the pathway after drilling down on HONESTY, FOCUS, & BELIEF, RESPONSE in the past 4 episodes. If you haven't listened to them, we encourage you to do so (start on Episode 44--"Let's Get Radically Honest!")

    Here is just one teaser (ok, 3) for today's episode:

    • what was your favorite lunchbox?
    • what would you do if fertilizer was falling from the sky?
    • what is the Monty Python song that drips of OPTIMISM?!

    Let's go moms & dads, let's unholster OPTIMISM and transform it into one of your superpowers!!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    Moms/Dads--we're cheering you on this week as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    30 mins
  • MINDSET SERIES (4 of 6): Your RESPONSE is Everything!
    Jun 3 2024

    MINDSET SERIES (4 of 6): Your RESPONSE is Everything!

    Moms & Dads! Today we continue our 6 episode series on mindset. We are so excited to share our createtransformbecome mindset map with you! It is key to improve your parenting and become a high performing human! Are you with us on that? Let's goooooooooo!

    In today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we progress to RESPONSE. This is a logical step after hitting HONESTY, FOCUS, & BELIEF in the last 3 episodes. If you haven't listened to them, we encourage you to do so (start on Episode 44)

    Here are some teasers for today's episode:

    • what does a remote control have to do with mindset?
    • the revisitation of E + R = O framework (Event + RESPONSE = Outcome)
    • 3rd grade memories and responses
    • why everyone should read Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
    • what is the difference between values and beliefs?

    Seriously now, let's RESPOND as high performing parents do and model the way for our teens! Enjoy!

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    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!

    Moms/Dads--we're cheering you on this week as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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    34 mins