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  • S2 Ep42: Chapter 39 | Q&A with Kim & Kara

    S2 Ep42: Chapter 39 | Q&A with Kim & Kara
    Sep 25 2024
    You asked, Kim and Kara answered. Or at least, they tried. Welcome to the first Q&A episode of season two.
    Don't forget - there will be no new episode next week. Kara will be in Colorado with Kim, but you can keep up with their real-time shenanigans over on Patreon.
    Links mentioned:
    Paris Hilton surrogate choice: https://www.vanityfair.com/style/paris-hilton-on-why-she-chose-surrogacy-for-her-children
    Helpful information for medical providers working with pregnant and postpartum survivors: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9377212/
    A classic study on how dark humor helps with trauma and stress coping: https://www.degruyter.com/document/doi/10.1515/humr.14.1.83/html:
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    The theme music used in Survivor’s Guide to True Crime is Uplifting Motivational Stomp by MarcusWay
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  • S2 Ep41: Chapter 38 | Emotional Baggage Flies Free with Kim & Kara

    S2 Ep41: Chapter 38 | Emotional Baggage Flies Free with Kim & Kara
    Sep 18 2024
    Pack your suitcase for a trauma trip! Kim and Kara chart new territory reflecting on alcohol consumption, Kim's Irish goodbyes at concerts, Kara's real-time unpacking of the challenges of parenting, and the compounded mental burdens that come with these responsibilities as survivors. They also discuss the concept of code-switching and its impact on identity. Kim asks listeners for a very specific birthday gift this year: urge Congress to pass the Crime Victims Fund Stabilization Act.
    Call to Action: Urge Congress to Pass the Crime Victims Fund Stabilization Act (H.R.8061/S.4514)
    urging the U.S. Senate and House of Representatives to authorize much-needed 2024 bridge funding for the federal Crime Victims Fund (VOCA Fund). The VOCA Fund supports the provision of essential direct services for crime victims and survivors across the country. According to the U.S. Department of Justice’s Office for Victims of Crime, projected fiscal year 2024 funding for victim service grants will be $700 million lower than fiscal year 2023.
    The VOCA Fund was established by the Victims of Crime Act of 1984, and it is the primary financial source for victim services in all 50 states, five U.S. territories, and the District of Columbia. VOCA Fund revenue is generated from offenders convicted of crimes, not from taxes.
    In 2021, Congress passed the VOCA Fix Act, which allows monetary recoveries from federal deferred prosecutions and non-prosecution agreements to replenish the fund. While passage of the VOCA Fix Act was necessary, it was not sufficient to adequately shore up fund balances, and 2024 VOCA funding for crime victim service programs is anticipated to be 41% lower nationwide when compared to 2023 grant awards. Without prompt action by Congress, many victim service programs across the country may be forced to close.
    The VOCA Fund supports medical care, mental health counseling, lost wages, courtroom advocacy, and temporary housing for victims and survivors of crime. It also helps to fund federal, state, and tribal victim service programs, crime victim compensation, discretionary grant awards, victim specialists in U.S. Attorney’s Offices and the Federal Bureau of Investigation, and the federal victim notification system.
    Links mentioned:
    Parents' mental health is in crisis…duh: https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2024/08/28/us-surgeon-general-issues-advisory-mental-health-well-being-parents.html
    Code-Switching: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Code-switching
    VOCA call to action toolkit:
    https://docs.google.com/document/d/17h46esgo2r2n2xAXxkRqFXLLVRuxtUptsXIwA-kQS-0/edit#heading=h.r966jdpkv967
    Journey is messy: https://www.billboard.com/pro/journey-band-lawsuit-court-appoints-neutral-resolve-deadlock/
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    The theme music used in Survivor’s Guide to True Crime is Uplifting Motivational Stomp by MarcusWay
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  • S2 Ep40: Chapter 37 | Restorative Justice with Marlee Liss

    S2 Ep40: Chapter 37 | Restorative Justice with Marlee Liss
    Sep 11 2024
    Did we just become best friends? YEP!
    Fellow survivor advocate Marlee Liss joins Kim & Kara for a conversation that could have kept going infinitely. Marlee introduces listeners to restorative justice and shares her experience with this alternative form of survivor-centered closure.
    Marlee Liss is a somatic educator, social worker, and sparkle-loving lesbian Jewish feminist. She made history in the justice system when her sexual assault case became the 1st in North America to conclude with restorative justice through the courts. Since then, she has supported thousands in learning trauma-informed pleasure and inclusive consent education . Marlee's work has beenfeatured in Forbes, Huff Post, Buzzfeed, the Mel Robbins Show and more. As an award-winning speaker, she's delivered talks for: National Sexual Assault Conference, Vanderbilt University, Action Trauma Summit, Fordham University, Women's Mental Health Conference at Yale and more. Marlee was 1 of 25 survivors on an elite panel for the National Action Plan to End Gender Based Violence informing federal policy and her story is currently being made into a documentary directed by Kelsey Darragh.
    Learn More from Marlee:
    MarleeLiss.com
    Social Media: https://instagram.com/marleeliss
    Speaking Engagements & Advocacy: https://www.marleeliss.com/speaking
    Marlee's Call To Action:
    Download the Restorative Justice Resource Guide: https://www.marleeliss.com/resource
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    The theme music used in Survivor’s Guide to True Crime is Uplifting Motivational Stomp by MarcusWay
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  • S2 Ep39: Chapter 36 | Messing Heavy with Kim & Kara

    S2 Ep39: Chapter 36 | Messing Heavy with Kim & Kara
    Sep 5 2024
    Kara is on a break from social media and the impact it has on her mental health is profound. Delving into heavier topics, Kim sent Kara a Washington Post article on a Columbia, SC school resource officer who sexually abused students. Turns out, Kara worked with him.
    They explore the complexities of knowing and liking someone who is later revealed to be an offender, and the importance of not making excuses for their actions. They also touch on the role of character witness statements and the power dynamics that enable predators to exploit their victims. The conversation highlights the need for accountability and the dangers of compartmentalization.
    Kim and Kara also touch on the tragic school shooting in Georgia as it unfolds. The conversation covers heavy topics but emphasizes the importance of understanding different perspectives and always remaining open to new information and varying opinions.
    Links mentioned:
    Columbia, SC SRO Sexual Assault via Washington Post
    Age of Consent per US State
    One Sec App to help social media addiction
    No Notoriety Campaign
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    The theme music used in Survivor’s Guide to True Crime is Uplifting Motivational Stomp by MarcusWay
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  • S2 Ep38: Chapter 35 | I Will Survive with Brett Brown & Shannon Henry

    S2 Ep38: Chapter 35 | I Will Survive with Brett Brown & Shannon Henry
    Aug 28 2024
    SASSGO
    SASS Go is on a mission to love people and help protect them from violence and abuse. Through prevention, education, courses, self-defense, training, and case consulting, they have served over 24,000 people across 4 continents.
    SASS Go understands that everyone is born with purpose and dignity. Supporting survivors, their families, and the professionals who serve them is how they do their part to protect the tribe.
    Brett Brown
    Brett Brown is the Executive Director of SASS Go and an Adjunct Professor at the University of South Carolina, Aiken. For more than 20 years, Brett has worked alongside survivors of violence and the professionals that serve them in multiple capacities including crisis intervention, prevention education, and best practices training and development. Her wisdom and ingenuity have partnered her with agencies like the CDC, US Department of Justice, US Embassy, and US Army. Attorneys, advocates, law enforcement, emergency medical personnel, and victims of crime welcome her generous spirit and collaborative approach making our communities safer across the globe.
    Shannon Henry
    Shannon Henry is the President and Founder of SASS Go, a 501c3 nonprofit making women and girls safer against assault, abuse, and trafficking globally, and an adjunct professor at The University of South Carolina. Her expertise in violence prevention and response has been utilized by the US State Department, our military, the World Health Organization, the US Embassy, as well as businesses, universities, and first responders in some of their darkest hours. At her core, she is a pattern finder, strategist, and hope dealer who is honored to help protect the most precious thing we have in our communities- lives.
    This year, SASS hosts their "I Will Survive Weekend" October 18-20 in Laurens, South Carolina.
    Links mentioned:
    Survivors and attachment styles
    Molly Jane's Law (ViCAP)
    Soft Interview Rooms
    "Wounded Healers" terminology coined by Carl Jung
    Learn more from Brett and Shannon:
    www.sassgo.org
    @sassgoglobal
    Brett and Shannon's CTA: "Join us!" Become part of the "SASS Tribe" by engaging with them online, attending a training, or offering support in any way you are able.
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  • S2 Ep37: Chapter 34 | Girl's Girls with Kim & Kara

    S2 Ep37: Chapter 34 | Girl's Girls with Kim & Kara
    Aug 28 2024
    The journey to becoming a girl's girl is not all pink and sparkles. So what exactly is a girl's girl, you may ask? Kim and Kara dive into this, together.
    After the dumpster fire of a recording that was the original recording of Kim & Kara's conversation, they decided to scrap it and try again. Behold. Chapter 34, take 2.
    Thanks to SGTC listeners, the ladies were made aware of Snoop Dogg's self-proclaimed history with human trafficking. For more context, read HERE.
    Speaking of dumpster fires, 'It Ends With Us' is slammed for romanticizing domestic violence, amongst other issues Colleen Hoover's work presents. The PR and marketing teams are clearly working overtime. Many other literary options that surpass IEWU are offered.
    TLDR: ACOTAR > IEWU
    Kara shares a recent, real-life example of why speaking out and sharing our stories matters so much.
    Links mentioned:
    Justin Baldoni's Instagram and podcast: @WeAreManEnough
    Linguistics breakdown video from @etymologynerd
    Video on teaching girls to set boundaries in friendships from @resilientdaughterproject
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  • S2 Ep36: Chapter 33 | A Place Of Yes with Heather Straughter

    S2 Ep36: Chapter 33 | A Place Of Yes with Heather Straughter
    Aug 14 2024
    Kim and Kara talk about ambiguous grief with Heather Straughter and the ways grief and trauma are so intimately cooccurring.
    Heather Straughter (said like “daughter”), was a Special Education Inclusion teacher in Roxbury, Massachusetts for nearly 10 years before moving to Saratoga Springs, NY with her husband Brian and growing family. Her first child Ethan was born in 2005 and her second Jake was born in 2006. Both boys were healthy and vibrant; then, when Jake was eight months old, he had a seizure that changed the families lives forever.

    They spent 117 days in the hospital before going home. At that point Jake had lost all his milestones. They continued to advocate for their son and made sure that he got the care he needed to thrive – despite the fact that doctors were never able to diagnose him. When Jake was 4-years-old he suddenly passed away. In the chaos of that grief the non-profit “Jake’s Help from Heaven” was born.

    In the 13 years since his death the small non-profit has awarded $1.7 Million dollars to 1,000 medically fragile individuals – mostly children – who live within a 100 mile radius of Saratoga Springs, NY. Many of them come back year after year, with new needs as they age.
    Heather’s story is one of resilience and determination in the face of unimaginable loss.
    Heather's CTA: Listen to "A Place of Yes"
    Learn more from Heather: @Jakeshelp
    Jake's Help From Heaven
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  • S2 Ep35: Chapter 32 | The Olympics. That's It. That's The Title. with Kim & Kara

    S2 Ep35: Chapter 32 | The Olympics. That's It. That's The Title. with Kim & Kara
    Aug 7 2024
    If covering as many topics in one episode as possible were an Olympic sport, Kim and Kara would be taking home the gold. This week, the ladies offer a broad range (not surprising) including the Olympics, updated title IX regulations, Eminem's new album, hyper fixation hobbies, and the concept of "trad wives".

    Kim and Kara discuss their experiences watching the 2024 Summer Olympics in Paris, seeing a diverse array of athletes' bodies, and the importance of self-acceptance. Fangirling over US Rugby star, Ilona Maher takes place which is very warranted.

    Kim fully goes off while filling Kara in on the controversy surrounding a Dutch child rapist...who just happens to be participating in Olympic volleyball. They emphasize the need for accountability and support for survivors, as well as the importance of holding offenders responsible. (Since recording, this particular societal skid mark has been eliminated from the competition. Our international thanks to the Brazilian volleyball team for their service.)

    "The Dutch Olympic committee said Van de Velde met the conditions to return to competition after a conviction and resumed his career in 2017. “Van de Velde now meets all the qualification requirements for the Olympic Games and is therefore part of the team,” the committee said."

    Links mentioned in the show:
    Ilona Maher's IG
    New York Times, Ballerina Farm Article
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