Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the regrets and letdowns to navigating the complexities of consent under the influence of drugs and alcohol, we cover it all with honesty and humor.

Discover why it's crucial to understand the darker aspects of ethical non-monogamy, and learn from our personal experiences to make better choices in your own journey. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights that you won't want to miss.

Key Topics:

- The reality of swinging beyond the glamour
- The impact of drugs and alcohol on consent and experiences
- The challenges of social dynamics in swinging parties
- Strategies for safer and more enjoyable encounters
- Personal stories and lessons learned

Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:15 - The unspoken challenges of swinging
5:45 - Drugs, alcohol, and consent issues
12:30 - Social pressures and personal regrets
18:45 - The importance of moderation and awareness
25:10 - Navigating social dynamics and dating in the lifestyle
32:00 - The impact of environment and party settings
39:20 - Personal stories and lessons learned

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Do you love your community and want more events? Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are. We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging business and how some think it's a zero-sum game.

We discuss how some swinging businesses hurt swingers and our community because the drive for money takes priority over doing what's best for the community.

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Phoebe and I have a love-hate relationship with chat rooms. Sometimes chat groups suck! Listen in as we break down all the things we hate about swinger community chats and forums, and some of the reasons why we think you might like them. If you're in swinger chat groups, or want to be, you may want to check this episode out.

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If you've never been on a swinger cruise, adults-only cruise, or only been to resorts... you owe it to yourselves to go on a lifestyle cruise! What makes Bliss Cruises one of the best adult vacations you can experience? Tune in and find out!

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It's been a while since you've heard from us... We've been producing our Patreon episodes this whole time, but not our regular episodes. https://patreon.com/swingeruniversity

Wonder what happened? Where we've been? What the future holds? Then you definitely want to listen to this episode.

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Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shapes. As vulvas gain more visibility, the Ed & Phoebe discuss the influence of media, including porn and social media, on shaping unrealistic standards. Join the conversation as they explore the reasons behind the pink vulva stereotype and the impact it has on individuals' confidence and self-perception.

Discover the variety of colors that vulvas come in and the factors, from genetics to hormones, influencing their appearance. Ed, a seasoned swinger, shares insights on the diversity he has encountered in the lifestyle. The hosts address common concerns and insecurities, providing information on why labia may appear darker and the potential risks associated with attempting to alter their natural color.

Uncover the truth about beauty standards and learn to love your body as it is. Ed and Phoebe discuss the importance of embracing uniqueness, challenging societal expectations, and appreciating the beauty of all vulvas, regardless of color or shape.
Highlights:

1. The Pink Standard: Explore the origins of the pink vulva standard and its prevalence in media, from porn to magazines.
2. Diversity in the Lifestyle: Ed shares his experiences as a swinger, highlighting the range of vulva colors and shapes he has encountered.
3. Factors Influencing Color: Learn about the various factors, including genetics, hormones, and age, that contribute to the coloration of the vulva.
4. Insecurities and Social Media: Discuss the impact of social media on body image and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards.
5. Risks of Altering Appearance: Delve into the potential risks and dangers associated with using creams, chemicals, and surgeries to change vulva appearance.
6. Natural Solutions: Explore safer alternatives, such as lifestyle changes and laser treatments, for those who wish to address concerns about vulva color.
7. Self-Love and Acceptance: Emphasize the importance of loving and accepting your body as it is, challenging societal norms, and celebrating the uniqueness of every vulva.

#LoveYourVulva #BodyPositivity #SwingerUniversity #EmbraceDiversity #SelfLove #swingerpodcast #Podcast #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy

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🌙✨ Welcome to Swinger University, the Slumber Party edition! Join Ed and Phoebe as they unravel the secrets of female sleep orgasms, taking you on a dreamy adventure that'll leave you wondering, "Did that just happen in my sleep?" 🌙✨

🛌 In this episode, the hosts of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe, dive into the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, sexual health, and sex education with an intellectual and sexy twist. Grab your pillows and join the conversation as they explore the intriguing topic of female sleep orgasms.

💭 Discover the unique experiences of nocturnal pleasures, the causes behind them, and how they vary from person to person. From hormone fluctuations to relaxation during REM sleep, Ed and Phoebe leave no aspect untouched.

📈 Key Topics Discussed:

1. Definition of Female Sleep Orgasms
2. Causes and Triggers
3. Frequency and Normalcy
4. Signs and Indicators
5. Influence of Sexual Activity
6. Tips for Enhancing Nocturnal Orgasms

🕐 Timestamps for Important Moments:

• 05:42: Exploring the uniqueness of female sleep orgasms
• 12:18: Factors influencing the frequency and experiences
• 22:36: Understanding signs and indicators of nocturnal pleasures
• 31:09: The role of sexual activity in enhancing sleep orgasms
• 40:15: Tips for those wanting to experience or enhance their nocturnal delights

🌟 Call-to-Action:
Ready to explore the world of slumber sensations? Hit the like button, subscribe for more intriguing discussions, and share this episode with your friends. Don't forget to leave your thoughts in the comments below. Sweet dreams, pleasure seekers! 🌙💤✨

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Leave a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit swingernuniversity.com to stay connected with our community. Keep learning, growing, and keeping it sexy.

#MidnightDelights #SleepOrgasms #SwingerUniversity #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy #DreamyAdventure #NocturnalPleasures #SexEducation #LikeSubscribeShare

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Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of "Taking one for the team". How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In this eye-opening episode, we share personal experiences and survey insights from a wide spectrum of lifestylers, unraveling the intricacies of consent, boundaries, and the art of saying 'no' or 'yes' in the swinging community.

Key Topics:

• Team 'No': Unyielding standards, the evolution of preferences, and the power of saying 'no' confidently.
• Team 'Yes': Embracing enthusiastic and lukewarm yeses, the beauty of diverse experiences, and the flexibility of boundaries.
• Keeping Score: The controversial practice of tallying encounters, the potential pitfalls, and ways to navigate this delicate territory.
• IOUs and Obligations: Exploring the thin line between consent and obligation, the impact on relationships, and the importance of open communication.
• Respect and Guilt: Unpacking feelings of resentment, guilt, and the role of respect in the self, relationships, and with play partners.

Call-to-Action:

Explore the nuances of the swinging lifestyle with us! Like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below. What are your experiences with Team 'No' and Team 'Yes'? Let's continue this conversation and build a community where open communication and respect thrive.

#SwingingLifestyle #ConsentInSwinging #OpenCommunication #RelationshipAgreements #PodcastDiscussion

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