Ever wondered what it would be like to engage in swinging? In this episode, we get a firsthand account of the lifestyle from Accidental Swingers Podcasts hosts Myrina and Tristan. While the whole concept may be taboo from some points of view, this couple of 27 years will be removing the stigma and shedding some light on their life and marriage. Even if the lifestyle is for you, Myrina and Tristan will drop some golden nuggets on overcoming performance anxiety, achieving better orgasms, and so many other interesting tips that will spice up your sex life.

So jump right in, and let’s explore this world of swingers, sex, and orgasms like you’ve never seen before!

[00:00 - 07:41] What Swinging Is Like: A Swinger’s Perspective

• Let’s meet the creators of the accidental swinger podcast, Myrina and Tristan.

• Myrina and Tristan discuss their story of getting into swinging.

• The early challenges and doubts that arose initially, along with the excitement and fascination.

• Tristan’s views on jealousy and seeing his wife with other people.

• Myrina talks about how she gets gratification for knowing that Tristan pleases someone.

[07:42 - 22:05] Making it Fun, Safe, and Satisfying for Everyone Involved

• The social aspect that can come from swinging.

• Swinging vs. open relationship vs. polyamory - what are the differences?

• A look into Myrina and Tristan’s polyamorous and ‘hot wife’ experience.

• Brining the lifestyle into the public space.

• The rules for engaging at swinger parties and building connections with others.

• Tips on what to expect at different parties.

[22:06 - 30:19] Multiple Women Don't Mean Multiple Orgasms

• Tristan talks about how he engages with multiple women in one night.

• How social anxiety can boil over into performance anxiety and how to deal with it.

• Refocus on the woman (or man) you’re with currently.

[30:20 - 43:13] Swingers Reveal How They Keep Their Marriage Strong

• The importance of having vulnerability with your partner.

• Swingers have "easy" communication when they can trust their partner.

• Communication is key to maintaining a healthy swinging relationship.

• Tristan and Myrina’s instances of needing to overcome challenges with communication.

• Navigating the different phases of life together.

• A quick word from our sponsor. Modern Man Club

[43:14 - 52:27] To Swing or Not to Swing: How to Know What’s Right for You

• Your marriage needs to be strong first.

• You don’t need to go through non-monogamy alone - there is professional help to guide you.

• Specific challenges that arise in swinging and how to overcome them - start with The Accidental Swingers Podcast

• How reading The Ethical Slut can help you navigate the challenges in polyamory.

[52:28 - 1:02:53] Over 50, Over Weight, Still the Best Sex Ever

• Tristan talks about how he has the best sex of his life even without health-optimizing rules.

• How a love for sex and your partner/s can bypass age and health and let you have good sex.

• How the five senses connect to your erection.

• A look at how ED medication can have adverse long-term effects.

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