Episode 133 Show Notes

The Dome at the bottom of my garden has witnessed rather a lot of romance over the years.

Marriage proposals. Newlyweds. Candlelit pathways. Engagement rings hidden inside fruit.

And then... there was the Viagra.

In this episode, I share five very different stories from my years of hosting guests in the Dome — some genuinely touching, some wonderfully unexpected, and one that required a particularly good pair of rubber gloves.

You'll hear about an encounter with a film producer where Bambi, Thumper, Honey and some suspiciously memorable leather costumes eventually made perfect sense.

I'll tell you how my old theatre instincts kicked in when a guest asked for help proposing to his girlfriend — resulting in twenty IKEA lanterns, an engagement ring beneath a six-metre-high Michelangelo's David and me watching the whole thing unfold from a darkened bedroom.

There's another proposal involving an extraordinary fruit sculpture and an engagement ring hidden inside a pineapple, followed by the newlyweds who arrived at the Dome to discover a huge candlelit heart waiting for them on the lawn.

And finally, there's the mysterious blacked-out car, four voices in the hot tub, two unexpected guests... and poor Martin's unforgettable first day working in hospitality.

Because after ten years of welcoming strangers into my home, I've learned that you can prepare for almost anything.

But you can never quite prepare for everything.

This week's Superhost Secret:

“Don't try to control the story. Just be ready to host it.”

When you open your home to other people, you never quite know what stories they're going to bring with them. Some will make you laugh. Some will genuinely touch you. And occasionally, you'll get the opportunity to become part of a moment they'll remember for the rest of their lives.

And occasionally... you'll need the rubber gloves.

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What happens when your Airbnb is full — but one of your regular guests still needs somewhere to stay?

You send them next door!

In this episode, I explore something I rarely hear mentioned when people talk about running an Airbnb: the importance of having great relationships with your neighbours.

It starts with a young Malaysian student arriving in the UK for the first time. I'd promised to collect her from the bus stop after dark — before realising I wasn't actually going to be there.

One phone call to my neighbour solved the problem.

But why was he so willing to drop everything and collect a complete stranger on my behalf?

The answer goes back more than 20 years, to the day I first moved into my home and made a conscious decision: I was going to like my neighbours.

Over the years, cups of tea, glasses of wine, shared garden tools, parties, small acts of kindness and countless little favours became hundreds of deposits into what I call my relationship bank account.

And when I eventually found myself in serious financial difficulty and Airbnb became increasingly important to me, those neighbours became an extraordinary part of my support network.

Today, three of them even act as my “guest reservoir” — accommodating trusted regular guests when all my own rooms are full. They earn the money, my guests still have somewhere to stay, and I don't lose valuable regular customers.

My Airbnb actually makes money for my neighbours.

So perhaps your Airbnb “power team” shouldn't just include your plumber, electrician, cleaner, handyman and gardener.

Perhaps some of its most valuable members are already living next door.

And if you're not an Airbnb host but your neighbour is, perhaps there's an opportunity for you too. Could your spare room, your time or simply your willingness to help become an extension of their business?

My Superhost Secret

“Build relationships before you need favours.”

Don't be nice to your neighbours because you might need something from them one day. Make those tiny deposits without expecting to make a withdrawal.

Because one day, when you really do need somebody, you might discover just how wealthy that relationship bank account has become.

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Episode 131 – The Unexpected Joy of Strangers

“I couldn't have strangers in my home.”

It's probably the number one objection I hear when I talk to people about becoming a live-in Airbnb host.

But here's the thing: every guest starts off as a stranger.

And over the years, some of those strangers have given me experiences, friendships and memories I could never have anticipated when they first walked through the door.

In this episode, I'm sharing five of them.

There's the captain of a winning USA Ultimate Frisbee team who ended up giving us a lesson on my lawn, in the dark, before I retaliated by teaching him croquet.

There's a professional juggler called Twirly who came to improve his clowning skills — and somehow ended up teaching me to juggle.

Then there's the guest who, when she discovered I was in serious financial trouble, spontaneously offered to lend me £10,000 with no security and virtually nothing in return.

I'll also tell you about Malcolm, the Vietnamese film student whose request I very nearly turned down, but who went from stranger to guest, colleague and mentee.

And finally, I share an encounter that forced me to confront one of my own prejudices — and taught me the difference between noticing someone's physical appearance and actually discovering the person behind it.

Hosting isn't only about occupancy, reviews or making money.

Sometimes the greatest rewards come from the people you would never otherwise have met.

This week's Superhost Secret

“Don't judge the stranger. Discover the person.”

Ask questions. Be curious. Give somebody the opportunity to become more than the first impression you've formed of them.

Because every one of the people in this episode walked through my door as a stranger.

They just didn't all leave as one.

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