• The Argument Black Hole

  • Nov 30 2020
  • Length: 21 mins
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  • Have you or your spouse ever said something along the lines of, “We argue over little things.”, or “None of our arguments ever get resolved.”  If you have, then you have fallen headfirst into the Argument Black Hole.  Join them this week, as the guys talk about the biggest mistake couples make when they have a disagreement.

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    PROBLEM:

    1. Arguing over facts
    2. Arguing over who’s reality is correct
    3. Winning is more important than solving the problem
    4. My Side Bias skews facts
    5. Memories are NOT accurate recordings of events.  Research suggests that that we remember what we WANT to believe happened

    SOLUTION:

    1. Realize that the argument is not about the facts
    2. The event is the surface problem to a root cause
    3. Chose the hill you will die on
    4. Must be able to agree to disagree

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