Today on the Autism Little Learners Podcast, I’m joined by Julia DeNey, founder of Sensational You—a brand dedicated to creating adaptive clothing for children with sensory differences. Julia’s journey is such an inspiring one. She started in the world of fashion, but it was her time working in special education that opened her eyes to just how much sensory needs can impact a child’s ability to learn and thrive.

Sensory friendly clothes can make everyday life easier for autistic kids. In this episode, learn how adaptive clothing supports comfort, confidence, and learning. I can’t wait for you to hear this conversation!

Takeaways

• Julia's background in fashion led her to create Sensational You.

• Sensory needs can significantly impact children's learning.

• Adaptive clothing can help minimize sensory irritations.

• Real-life feedback from families is crucial for product development.

• The importance of understanding dysregulation in children.

• Innovative designs include built-in sensory tools.

• Community support has been vital for Sensational You's growth.

• The future vision includes a wider range of sensory-friendly products.

• Adaptive fashion should be accessible in mainstream stores.

• Sensory-friendly solutions are becoming more recognized in society.

Bio & Links

Julia DeNey studied Fashion Design at Cornell University and later worked as a special-education paraprofessional with autistic students. Combining her design expertise with her classroom experience, she founded Sense-ational You, an adaptive clothing brand that supports individuals with autism, ADHD, and sensory sensitivities.

https://shopsenseationalyou.com/

https://shopsenseationalyou.com/pages/back-to-school-sensory-checklist

https://www.instagram.com/senseational_you/

https://www.tiktok.com/@senseational_you

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Sensational You

02:52 The Journey from Fashion to Sensory Solutions

05:49 Understanding Sensory Needs in Education

08:40 Innovative Adaptive Clothing Designs

11:31 Real-Life Impact of Sensory Clothing

14:15 Feedback and Community Support

17:19 Future Vision for Sensational You

20:15 Conclusion and Resources

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By popular demand, we’re bringing back one of the most impactful episodes! This conversation dives into the powerful link between stress and behavior in autistic children, and why compassionate, neurodiversity-affirming approaches make all the difference.

You’ll discover how to reframe behavior as communication, support self-advocacy, and create environments that reduce stress and meet the unique needs of autistic children. Whether you’re an educator, therapist, or parent, this episode offers practical tools you can use right away.

Key Takeaways:

1. Stress and behavior are closely linked for autistic children.

2. Environments that increase stress can make behaviors harder.

3. Behavior is communication—understanding it is essential.

4. Compassionate approaches focus on unmet needs, not compliance.

5. Compliance-driven methods can harm emotional well-being.

6. Self-advocacy is critical for safety and empowerment.

7. Protests and refusals are valid forms of communication.

8. Predictable routines can ease anxiety.

9. Co-regulation helps children manage emotions.

10. Communication tools empower autistic children to thrive.
    
    

Resources & Links:

Research article #1: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6061115/

Research article #2: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3245359/

Calming Kit for preschoolers: https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Calm-Down-Kit-For-Calming-Corner-In-Special-Education-8140160

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Hi friends, welcome back to the Autism Little Learners Podcast. I’m Tara, a speech-language pathologist who has spent over 25 years working with young autistic children and their families.

Today, we’re going to talk about a topic that brings up a lot of feelings for educators, therapists, and parents: the Picture Exchange Communication System, or PECS. Specifically, why PECS isn’t enough for preschoolers.

Now, before I dive in, I want to be clear—PECS is not evil. It’s not “bad.” For many kids, it has opened the door to communication, and that’s something to celebrate. But PECS, on its own, isn’t enough. Our preschoolers need more than compliance-based exchanges to build rich, lifelong communication.

Takeaways

• PECS was created in the 1990s to teach kids to request items using pictures.

• Traditional PECS training often emphasized compliance over authentic communication.

• Rigid use of PECS protocols sometimes caused frustration and meltdowns in children.

• PECS has major limitations, including prompt dependency and a narrow focus on requests.

• Research shows PECS helps with requesting, but not broader communication or social connection.

• Evidence-based practice must balance research, clinical experience, and client perspectives.

• Autistic adults report that PECS can restrict autonomy, dignity, and language development.

• PECS can be a stepping stone, but should not be the final communication system.

• Robust AAC systems provide greater vocabulary, flexibility, and authentic language use.

• Communication should always prioritize connection, not compliance.

Resources & Links:

Jordyn Zimmerman’s Article: https://communicationfirst.org/slps-as-aac-gatekeepers/

Julie Roberts Article: https://therapistndc.org/the-problem-with-pecs/

Research Article: https://pure.psu.edu/en/publications/a-review-and-analysis-of-the-picture-exchange-communication-syste

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I’ve got a short and sweet episode for you today! I’ll be sharing 3 tips for introducing a morning meeting or circle time to young autistic children in a self-contained preschool classroom. If you are an educator working in that setting, you don’t want to miss this episode!

Topics Discussed:

• Preparing and getting organized before starting a circle time for young autistic children in a special education preschool classroom

• Using visual supports, such as a visual mini-schedule, and all done bucket during group time

• Using songs to signal the end of group time

Links Mentioned In This Episode About Visual Supports:

• Visual Supports Starter Set

• Blog Posts Related To “Routines”

• What My Preschool Autism Classroom Looked Like

Save your seat at my upcoming Circle Time Masterclass here.

Other Links You May Be Interested In:

• Autism Little Learners on Instagram

• Autism Little Learners on Facebook

You can also join my free Visual Supports Facebook Group to “hang out” with like-minded educators and parents who want to take action and implement visuals at home or at school.

Welcome back to the Autism Little Learners Podcast. I’m Tara, and I’m so glad you’re here today. If you’ve been following along, this is Part 2 of our series on potty training autistic children with compassion.

In our last episode, we talked about why potty training can be harder for autistic kids, how to prepare the environment, and how to build comfort and readiness before we ever expect a child to actually use the toilet. We also talked about some of the common pitfalls to avoid—like forcing kids to sit on the toilet every 10 minutes, or relying on outdated “3-day potty training” advice that just doesn’t work for many of our kids.

If you missed that episode, I highly recommend going back to listen first, because it really sets the foundation for everything we’ll talk about today.

In this episode, we’re moving into the “how.” We’ll go over practical strategies for implementation, how to track progress and make adjustments, and we’ll spend some time troubleshooting common challenges—things like fear of flushing, withholding, resistance, and nighttime dryness.

This episode is going to be full of tips you can use right away, so let’s dive in.

Takeaways

• Potty training is not linear—setbacks are normal, and small steps forward are worth celebrating.

• Visual supports like cue cards, schedules, and step-by-step sequences give structure and predictability.

• Pairing bathroom trips with natural routines (after meals, before leaving the house, before bed) helps build consistency.

• Incorporating a child’s special interests into social stories, visuals, or play makes potty training more engaging.

• Tracking data helps you see patterns and know whether strategies are working or need to be adjusted.

• Fear of flushing can be reduced by covering sensors on automatic toilets or using noise-reducing headphones.

• Resistance behaviors like excessive flushing or playing in toilet water can be redirected to alternative sensory activities.

• Withholding urine or bowel movements is often about anxiety or routine preference—focus on relaxation, stability, and medical checks if needed.

• Nighttime dryness is a separate developmental milestone and often comes much later—don’t let it overshadow daytime progress.

Resources & Links:

Free Potty Training Guide: www.autismlittlelearners.com/toilet

Potty Training Course: www.autismlittlelearners.com/pottycourse

Potty Training List In Tara’s Amazon Shop: https://amzn.to/45TD6lX

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In this special two-part series we’re tackling one of the biggest challenges many parents and educators face—potty training autistic children. I’ll be sharing compassionate, practical strategies that take into account sensory differences, communication needs, and interoception, so you can feel more confident guiding your autistic child or students. Whether you’re just getting started or stuck somewhere in the process, this series will give you the tools and encouragement you need.

Takeaways

• Potty training autistic children is not a sprint—it’s a marathon (or at least a half-marathon). Progress looks different for every child.

• Sensory sensitivities, interoception challenges, and communication differences are three of the biggest reasons potty training can be harder for autistic kids.

• Collecting baseline data (when accidents happen, how often they go) helps you build a roadmap for success.

• Making the bathroom inviting and sensory-friendly is a first step—soft lighting, calming colors, and incorporating favorite characters can reduce anxiety.

• Visual supports (bathroom symbols, step-by-step sequences, cue cards) build predictability and reduce uncertainty.

• Exposure without pressure is key—start with goals like entering the bathroom or sitting on the toilet fully clothed.

• Modeling helps—siblings, parents, dolls, or stuffed animals can demonstrate potty routines in a playful way.

• Social stories provide a predictable narrative that prepares children for what happens during potty time.

• Imitation skills (like copying silly faces or clapping) build the foundation for imitating potty routines later.

• Avoid common pitfalls: don’t put kids on the toilet every 10 minutes, don’t force long, stressful sits, and don’t expect “3-day training” timelines to work for every child.

Resources & Links:

Free Potty Training Guide: www.autismlittlelearners.com/toilet

Potty Training Course: www.autismlittlelearners.com/pottycourse

Potty Training List In Tara’s Amazon Shop: https://amzn.to/45TD6lX

Fostering positive relationships with autistic preschoolers is incredibly important. In this episode, I talk about emotional safety, understanding sensory needs, and the role of co-regulation in supporting self-regulation. The discussion highlights the need to step out of traditional teacher roles, validate autistic play, and harness deep interests to create meaningful connections. Core values such as compassion over compliance and honoring neurodiversity are explored, along with strategies for creating joyful, neuroaffirming classrooms. The conversation concludes with a focus on the long-term impact of connection and the importance of empowering educators and caregivers.

Takeaways:

• Positive relationships create emotional safety for children.
• Understanding sensory needs is crucial for connection.
• Co-regulation supports self-regulation in children.
• Stepping out of teacher mode fosters authentic connections.
• Autistic play is valid and meaningful, reflecting unique interactions.
• Deep interests can be a doorway to connection.
• Compassion over compliance is essential in education.
• Creating joyful, neuroaffirming classrooms enhances learning.
• Presuming competence in communication builds trust.
• Connection lays the foundation for long-term success.

Links:

Episode 90: Autism & Play Culture with Dr. Pamela Wolfberg https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-autism-little-learners-podcast/id1665404820?i=1000671411034

Blog: Strength-Based Approach For Teaching Autistic Children: https://autismlittlelearners.com/strength-based-approach/

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