Trish explains why night two after birth often feels overwhelming, reassures new parents that it's normal, and shares practical tips to survive Second Night Syndrome. Drawing from her expertise, Trish emphasizes that your baby isn't broken - they're just adjusting to life outside the womb while helping establish your milk supply.

• What is Second Night Syndrome? Around 24-48 hours post-birth, babies become fussy, cry incessantly, root constantly, and refuse to be put down. This is a normal adjustment from the womb's constant comfort to the bright, cold world. It's not hunger or failure - it's biological programming to trigger your milk production.
• Survival Tips for Night Two:

1. Skin-to-Skin: Strip baby to diaper and yourself to bare chest to regulate their vitals and provide comfort.
2. Feed on Demand: Allow nonstop nursing - it's establishing your supply. Prep for a relaxed evening (watch your fav tv show).
3. Create a Calm Environment: Dim lights, use white noise, and minimize overstimulation.
4. Share the Load: Involve your partner for diapers, burping, and holding to give you breaks.
5. Lower Expectations: Forget schedules - focus on bonding and survival. This phase passes quickly.

• When to Call Your Provider: Fewer than two wet diapers in 24 hours, lethargy, no interest in feeding, dry lips/mouth, or if your gut says something's wrong.

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Read the Blog: Second Night Syndrome: Tips For Surviving Baby’s Second Night

Helpful Timestamps:

• 01:04 Understanding Second Night Syndrome
• 02:11 Why Your Baby is Crying
• 04:36 Common Mistakes Parents Make
• 06:28 Survival Guide for Second Night Syndrome
• 09:03 When to Call Your Provider
• 10:31 Conclusion and Next Steps

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In this episode of Postpartum Unpacked, Trish gets into the often-overlooked topic of lochia - postpartum bleeding. Trish breaks down what lochia really means, why it happens, and how to navigate it with confidence. Drawing from her experience as a labor nurse, she explains the healing process after birth, shares practical tips for comfort, and emphasizes listening to your body. Whether you're a new mom or preparing for postpartum, this episode reassures you that lochia is a normal part of recovery and a sign of your body's incredible strength.

• Understanding Lochia: Lochia is your body's natural healing process after the placenta detaches, leaving a large wound (about the size of a dinner plate) in the uterus. It involves shedding blood, tissue, and leftover cells as the uterus shrinks back to its pre-pregnancy size. Trish describes lochia as the visible part of this internal cleanup.

The Three Stages of Lochia:

• Lochia Rubra (Days 1-4, up to 7): Bright red, heavy bleeding similar to a period. Small clots are common, especially after standing or nursing (which releases oxytocin and helps the uterus contract).
• Lochia Serosa (Days 5-10, up to 2 weeks): Lighter flow turning pinkish-brown. Clots should be rare and very small, indicating the uterus is contracting effectively.
• Lochia Alba (Week 2 to 6+): Yellowish or whitish discharge with mucus. This signals the final stages of wound closure.

Note: Everyone's body is different, so timelines may vary. If bleeding suddenly returns to bright red after lightening, it's a signal to rest - your body is saying you've overdone it.

Practical Tips for Managing Lochia and Postpartum Comfort:

• Underwear and Pads: Embrace hospital mesh panties or disposable incontinence underwear in the early days. Use giant postpartum pads (ask for extras at the hospital).
• No Internal Products: Skip tampons or menstrual cups until cleared by your provider - your cervix is open, and infection risk is high.
• Peri Bottle: Fill with warm water to gently clean the area instead of wiping. Pat dry for comfort. Add witch hazel or aloe if approved.
• Sitz Bath: Use warm water (with Epsom salts or safe herbal mixes) in a portable basin on the toilet. Great for soothing stitches, swelling, hemorrhoids, or general freshness.
• Witch Hazel Pads (Tucks Pads): Refrigerate and line your pad with them for cooling relief from soreness, swelling, or hemorrhoids.
• Nutrition and Hydration: Stay hydrated and eat iron-rich foods to rebuild blood volume and support healing.

When to Call Your Provider: While lochia varies, watch for red flags and seek help immediately if:

• You're soaking a pad in an hour or less.
• Passing clots larger than a golf ball (notify even if smaller ones occur after lying down).
• Bleeding has a foul smell (beyond normal).
• You feel dizzy, weak, or short of breath.
• Persistent bright red bleeding after resting, especially weeks in.

Trust your instincts - better to report concerns and prevent issues like hemorrhage or infection.

More from this episode:

Postpartum Recovery Essentials Amazon List

Helpful Timestamps:

• 00:00 Introduction to Postpartum Bleeding
• 00:53 Understanding Lochia: The Healing Process
• 01:44 Stages of Lochia: What to Expect
• 04:16 Practical Tips for Managing Postpartum Bleeding
• 09:11 When to Call Your...

Trish sits down with Crystal, a physical therapist and c-section recovery expert with 17 years of experience and a professor for over 11 years, to discuss crucial insights into recovering from a C-section. They emphasize the importance of not solely relying on hospital recovery instructions, as proper early care can significantly impact long-term healing and pain management. Crystal shares her personal experience, having had two c-section births, and professional expertise on common recovery mistakes, the value of early gentle movements, scar care, and strategies to regain core strength and mobility. This conversation is packed with essential tips, support options, and resources for moms navigating their C-section recovery journey.

More from Crystal Garnett:

• Follow her on Instagram @csectionphysio
• Visit  www.csectionphysio.com
• Enroll in Crystal’s program using the code “LABORNURSEMAMA’ and get Labor Nurse Mama’s Belly Birth Masterclass included for FREE!

Helpful Timestamps:

• 01:35 Crystal's Personal C-Section Experience
• 02:33 The Shocking Lack of Post-Op Care Instructions
• 06:30 The Importance of Gentle Movements and Breathing Exercises
• 08:46 Managing Intra-Abdominal Pressure and Pain
• 11:07 Scar Care and Emotional Healing
• 15:12 The Role of Compression and Support in Recovery
• 18:15 Managing Pain and Mobility
• 21:03 Importance of Support and Assistance
• 22:19 Lifting and Handling Post-Surgery
• 26:02 Scar Massage and Healing Techniques
• 28:54 Silicone Tape and Scar Care

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Trish breaks down the often-overlooked issue of postpartum booty pain experienced by new mothers, sharing her personal journey and the critical lessons learned. From her startling experience with her first baby Ian, where a nurse referred to hemorrhoids as 'a patch of cauliflowers,' to understanding various causes, Trish offers insights into tailbone trauma, hemorrhoids, pelvic floor dysfunction, and other sources of pain.

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She provides practical strategies and preventative measures to alleviate this discomfort, emphasizing the importance of proper birth positions, physical therapy, and self-advocacy. With her extensive experience as an online birth educator and 16+ years as a labor and delivery nurse, Trish aims to empower women with the knowledge to reduce postpartum suffering and enjoy a smoother recovery. Tune in to learn how to prevent and manage seven common causes of postpartum booty pain.

More from this episode:

• Grab this Donut Cushion
• Sitz Bath for Hemorrhoids
• Stool Softener

Helpful Timestamps:

• 01:14 Understanding Postpartum Booty Pain
• 05:17 Tailbone Trauma: Causes and Solutions
• 07:59 Hemorrhoids: The Cauliflower Patch
• 13:25 Pelvic Floor Dysfunction: The Hidden Connection
• 16:35 Birth Positions: Preventing Tailbone Pain
• 20:21 Anal Fissures: The Sharp Pain
• 22:36 Muscle Strain from Pushing
• 25:29 Nerve Damage: The Rare Case
• 27:49 Conclusion: Empowering Your Recovery

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Feeling more energized and less nauseous? It's the perfect time to prepare for a smoother birth and postpartum. Trish shares a practical, no-fluff checklist of 11 actionable steps to take in the second trimester - from mobility exercises to crucial conversations with your provider - that can reduce interventions, ease labor, and boost your confidence. Whether you're a first-time mom or a seasoned parent, these tips are designed for real, busy mamas to help you feel prepared and in control.

Your Essential Second Trimester Checklist:

• #1: Anatomy Scan (Around 20 Weeks): Go beyond the gender reveal - understand checks for placenta location, baby's growth, heart, and fluid levels. Bring questions and follow up with your provider for clarity.
• #2: Gentle Pelvic and Mobility Routines: Dedicate 5-15 minutes daily to movements like pelvic tilts, squats, cat-cow stretches, and glute bridges to reduce tension, improve baby's positioning, and open your pelvis by up to 30% during labor.
• #3: Nutrition for Energy and Baby's Development: Focus on high-protein snacks, iron-rich meals, choline from eggs, DHA from supplements, and hydration. Balance cravings while preventing anemia and supporting brain growth.
• #4: Mindset and Breath Practice: Combat fear and tension with 5 minutes of daily breathing (inhale for 4, exhale for 6) and visualization to activate your parasympathetic nervous system for easier labor.
• #5: Build Your Birth Team and Define Roles: Educate your partner, family, and friends on your birth goals.
• #6: Screening Tests and Vaccine Timing: Research and discuss upcoming tests with your provider. Ask about alternatives and risks.
• #7: Fetal Positioning Moves: Adopt habits like forward-leaning positions, birth ball sitting, side-lying releases, and pelvic rocks to encourage optimal LOA (left occiput anterior) positioning and avoid back labor.
• #8: Maternity Leave and Logistics: Plan now - talk to your boss, HR, and insurance about leave, work handoffs, and paperwork to reduce third-trimester stress.
• #9: Baby Gear Essentials vs. Convenience: Prioritize must-haves like a car seat, safe sleep surface, diapers, thermometer, and basic clothes. Borrow or skip gadgets; survey mom friends for realistic advice.
• #10: Advocacy Scripts and Being Informed: Practice simple phrases like "What are the risks of waiting?" or "No, thank you" to navigate decisions calmly and firmly during labor.
• #11: The "What If" Conversation: Schedule a detailed chat with your provider about induction thresholds, failure to progress, pain management, VBAC policies, and newborn care like delayed cord clamping.

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More episodes:

• Second Trimester Pregnancy: What To Expect | 31
• 11 Things to Do During the Second Trimester of Pregnancy | 82
• Second Trimester Pregnancy Testing | 165

Hey mama! Today Trish is diving into the lifesaving 5, 5, 5 rule, the single most overlooked recovery secret that can save you from months of exhaustion and complications during postpartum recovery. Trish breaks down this essential rule: five days in the bed, five days on the bed, and five days near your bed. Learn how to heal faster, protect your pelvic floor, and set realistic expectations for the first few weeks at home. Tune in for actionable tips on planning ahead, communicating with your support system, creating a recovery station, and mentally reframing rest.

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Plus, get your permission slip to accept imperfect help and embrace rest as essential to your recovery. Join us for a dose of calm, confidence, and clarity as you embark on your motherhood journey. Don't forget to hit follow or subscribe, and leave a review to tell us what you want unpacked next. Take care of your body, protect your peace, and know that you are doing an incredible job. See you next week, mama!

More from this episode:

How to Rock Your Postpartum with the 5 5 5 Booty Guide

Helpful Timestamps:

• 00:14 The Life-Changing 5, 5, 5 Rule
• 01:24 Understanding Your Body's Postpartum Healing
• 03:20 Practical Tips for Implementing the 5, 5, 5 Rule
• 06:07 Mental and Emotional Aspects of Postpartum Rest
• 07:45 Conclusion: Embrace Rest and Recovery

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Trish welcomes Sydney Dozier, a local to Nashville, mama of two, and founder of Renaissance Marketing Group to share her birth experiences and the challenges of being a working mom. Sydney gets real about her two wildly different birth stories and the rollercoaster of balancing entrepreneurship with motherhood. From a traumatic first birth to an empowered second one, her journey is packed with lessons for every mama. They dive into the perks and pitfalls of being a business owner while balancing motherhood, and the significance of advocating for oneself in the delivery room. This conversation is rich with insights, personal stories, and practical advice for new and expecting moms looking to strike the right balance.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Sydney’s first birth: A tough induction, unexpected complications, and lessons learned the hard way.
• Her redemptive second birth: How preparation and advocacy made all the difference.
• Navigating the chaos of working-mom life with a 4-month-old and a 3-year-old.
• Tips for setting boundaries when your business and babies demand all of you.
• Why trusting your gut and owning your birth choices is everything.

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Connect with her on Instagram: @socially_sydney & @renaissancemarketing

Listen to the Renaissance Podcast

Visit renaissancemarketinggroup.com

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Hey, mama! Welcome to the Postpartum Unpacked series on The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama. Trish is here to guide you through the wild, beautiful chaos of postpartum. This week, we’re diving into weeks 3 to 6 after birth - a critical window that shapes your recovery, from bleeding to milk supply to your pelvic floor and emotions. Trish is spilling all the tea on what your postpartum nurses wish you knew, including a safety checklist, her go-to breastfeeding routine, a gentle pelvic floor reset, and the one mistake that can derail your healing. Grab a pen, mama, because you’re getting practical steps to feel empowered and supported!

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What’s Inside This Episode:

• Safety First, Always: Red flags you cannot ignore - like soaking a pad every hour, fever over 100.4°F, or severe pain - and when to call your provider.
• Normal Bleeding: What lochia looks like, why it changes color, and a simple trick to reduce bleeding and cramping.
• Breastfeeding Hacks: My nurse-approved, mama-proven routine to regulate milk supply, tackle engorgement, and know when to call a lactation consultant (links below!).
• Pelvic Floor Love: A gentle reset you can start now, plus why seeing a pelvic floor specialist is a game-changer for preventing leaks, pain, or prolapse.
• The Emotional Rollercoaster: How to spot baby blues vs. postpartum depression, and why asking for help is your superpower (plus a nightly ritual to rewire your brain for wins).
• The Big Mistake: Rushing to “bounce back” too fast - why it leads to setbacks and how to advocate for a slow, safe recovery.
• Scripts for Advocacy: Exact phrases to use with your provider to get the care you deserve.

More resources from this episode:

• Grab the Postpartum Recovery Roadmap for just $22 (normally $197!) at learn.laborersemama.com/postpartum for week-by-week guidance, safety checklists, and troubleshooting tips.
• Connect with a lactation consultant (virtual visits available!): TheLatchLink.com
• Grab these Silverettes we love.

Episodes on Pelvic Floor Health:

• Why Pelvic Floor Health Is Important to Your Pregnancy | 32
• A Holistic Approach to Pelvic Floor Wellness – with Jenn Lormand | 88
• Relieving Pregnancy & Postpartum Pain with Pelvic Floor Momma | 106
• Pelvic Power: Strengthening Your Core Through Pregnancy and Postpartum with Dr. Emily Brownlee | 145

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