• Break Down Bonus: He joined the show to get back at his ex?! w/ Coworker Jackson
    Aug 15 2024

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    21 mins
  • When both exes showed up at his job and confronted him.... - S6E7
    Aug 13 2024

    You know what they say...those that break up together...show up at their mutual exes' job and confront him together. Right? This Bonnie & Clyde duo plotted to make a scene after finding out they were being played and of course nothing goes to plan. Let's get the details when we break down this week's break up.

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    Timestamps:

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    (00:00): Episode Intro

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    (07:07): How they met

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    (08:18): The red flags

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    (13:03): Confronting the ex-gf

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    (16:05): Plotting to confront him

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    (23:15): Reflecting/advice

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    (26:43): Teaser

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    23 mins
  • Break Down Bonus: Identifying grooming behaviors by our elders, romantic partners, and friends w/ Sally Baker
    Aug 8 2024

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    23 mins
  • When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5Replay
    Aug 6 2024


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    This episode originally aired in Season 5

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    We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!

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    Timestamps:

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    (00:00): Episode Intro

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    (06:41): How they met

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    (15:51): The first major problem in their relationship

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    (22:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship

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    (30:56): Possible Grooming Behavior

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    (37:01): Discovering the affair

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    (49:11): Confronting her mother and husband

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    (59:30): The aftermath of the conflict

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    (01:07:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings

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    (01:11:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources

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    (01:15:39): Reflecting/advice

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    (01:21:32): Teaser

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    [CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming]


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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • Break Down Bonus: She used an oatmeal bath to try and cure her STD?!?!
    Aug 1 2024

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    15 mins
  • When his google search history blew his cover.... - S6E6
    Jul 30 2024

    If you've decided to open up your bf's phone, you already know something is up....but what exactly? When a mutual friend sends you sus screenshots from an app you never thought you'd see your man on, you decide to do some digging and end up finding information that could change your life entirely. We got all the deets when we broke down this week's break up!

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    Timestamps:

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    (00:00): Episode Intro

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    (05:17 ): How they met

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    (10:22): The first signs something was wrong

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    (14:57): Why she stayed

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    (17:22): Confronting him/the aftermath

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    (21:38): Advice

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    (22:24): Teaser


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    19 mins
  • Break Down Bonus: Can I trust my gut if I have an anxiety disorder? w/ CBT Joanna Harris
    Jul 25 2024

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    22 mins
  • When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5
    Jul 23 2024

    No one ever wants to fall victim to the DM with receipts/timelines/screenshots about the man they just planned an entire wedding with... When you've got a whole decade (and whole lotta cash) invested in a relationship, do you stick it out? Or take the DM and run for the hills? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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    Timestamps:

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    (00:00): Episode Intro

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    (05:57): How they met

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    (09:26): The first signs of something going wrong

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    (10:40): Getting the life-changing DM

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    (20:21): Confronting her fiancee

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    (25:31): The aftermath of the confrontation

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    (28:44): Finding love again

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    (32:08): Advice

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    (39:32): Teaser


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    36 mins