Why are we always in process? Because we choose to be. Living and being is a process, not an outcome and it involves doing the work and overcoming obstacles but we get better at it over time.

In this episode we cover:

• What occurs when you choose to be in process and choose this as the foundation for life.
• Why “Im not good enough” is the source code that needs to be changed.
• What drives our need to be “done”?
• The goal of the new paradigm.
• How to enjoy the process of creating who we’re being

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  

1. When the “not good enough” shows up, just remember - it’s a feeling. Breathe and respond from love.
2. Accept that you’re always in process and that’s okay.
3. Be here now because there’s only one moment. That’s a gift. You can choose to be or not to be in process, and love and enjoy it.

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Host: Suzy Jacobs

Regular Special Guest: Lorna Patten

Producer: Nicole Hatherly

Sound and Publishing: Lyndal Harris, Podcast VA

Studio: RadioHub

We all experience drama in our lives. In fact, we are very good at creating drama and being highly dramatic over the smallest things. It can be very frustrating especially when we don’t know we’re there. So, how do you know you’re stuck in the drama?

In this episode we cover:

• Suzy’s personal experience with this distinction and the steps she took to get out of it.
• How drama affects your life and takes you away from the things you need to focus on.
• Recognising the drama by being aware of the 3 key elements of the old paradigm.
• How this distinction relates to previous ones we’ve discussed, especially the distinction of “I’m not good enough”.  
• Identifying the source of the drama and getting through it.

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  

1. Practice asking yourself often, “Where am I coming from - fear or love?” Then choose.
2. Fear is insidious. It runs the world. So chances are, you are in fear whenever you ask if you are in fear.  So, let go and choose.
3. You are the one that’s causing everything that’s occurring. You are causing it all with loving intention.

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Host: Suzy Jacobs

Regular Special Guest: Lorna Patten

Producer: Nicole Hatherly

Sound and Publishing: Lyndal Harris, Podcast VA

Studio: RadioHub

It can be very frustrating when things don’t go your way despite all the changes you make. But nothing will change no matter how many times you seem to change it if you don’t tell the whole truth.

In this episode we cover:

• Why this distinction is the ultimate responsibility that requires massive honesty.
• How this relates to the distinction of “I get to choose and create the whole of my reality”.
• Lorna’s experience of this distinction, how she overcame it and how she is dealing with it now.
• Being in charge of the distinction rather than getting rid of it.
• How the distinction applies to running your business.

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  

1. If you want something to change, tell the truth and keep telling the truth until it does.
2. You will recognize you’ve told the whole truth when the energy shifts, and it will when you tell the whole truth.
3. Be patient and gentle with yourself. It’s not a race. Be here now and just tell the truth.

Subscribe to The Change Room Podcast here.

Continue the conversation in Facebook - The Change Room Podcast Group.

Links mentioned in the show:

Connect with Suzy Jacobs here.

Get the latest on The Change Room delivered to your inbox here.

The Change Room is powered by Finesque and designed by Bench Creative.

Host: Suzy Jacobs

Regular Special Guest: Lorna Patten

Producer: Nicole Hatherly

Sound and Publishing: Lyndal Harris, Podcast VA

Studio: RadioHub