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This episode features Coach Orby Orta from the California All Stars, discussing his approach to coaching, and what it means to be coachable; not just for athletes, but for parents and COACHES as well.

Coach Orby shares insights on effective coaching styles, the value of establishing strong relationships with athletes, and how to adapt coaching methods to meet the evolving needs of today's athletes. He also touches on parental involvement, addressing common issues such as setting realistic expectations and the importance of parent-coach communication.

The discussion underscores the significance of trust, innovation, and love for the sport in building successful and cohesive cheer teams. It's no wonder Orby has coached so many successful teams and athletes!

Wanna jump around? Here are some highlights:
04:54 Guest Introduction: Coach Orbie Orta
08:06 Coach Orbie's Journey in Cheerleading
09:11 The Importance of Passion in Coaching
10:47 Training and Creativity in Cheerleading
17:28 Balancing Coaching Styles and Personal Relationships
20:15 Building Relationships with Athletes
26:55 Addressing Toxic Coaching Cultures
29:52 The Importance of Being Coachable
32:38 Parental Influence on Athlete Development
40:24 Transitioning Athletes to New Coaching Styles
46:41 The Value of Building Relationships with Parents

CONTENT AND TRIGGER WARNING This episode contains subject matter that may trigger some. Please take care while listening.

The battle between Monica Aldama and USA Cheer continues as Monica calls the organization out for keeping her on the suspended list, costing her business deals and her reputation. Monica also names Madi Lane in the lawsuit and gives her account of what happened after an event that occurred in September of 2021, which is described in Madi Lane's original lawsuit against former athlete Salvo Amico, Coach Monica, and other Navarro College officials.

This episode carefully navigates the lawsuit, detailing the accusations, responses, and impacts on Monica's personal life and career.

I've covered this saga in multiple previous episodes, which are linked below.

Wanna jump around? Here are some key details:

04:11 Recap of the Lawsuit Against Coach Monica Aldama
05:15 Understanding Lawsuits and Allegations
09:41 Coach Monica's Response
11:28 Details of the Lawsuit
32:59 Monica's Emotional Struggle
33:22 USA Cheer Suspension
36:52 Accusations against Safe Sport and USA Cheer
41:18 Describing Varsity Brands as a Monopoly
48:01 Monica's Allegations and Damages
56:08 Conclusion and Reflections

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1tXeUGCCgUlKgKcKpufVY-wpVEwiPE4Yj/view

https://bleav.com/shows/the-cheer-mom-podcast/episodes/coach-monicas-beef-with-usa-cheer/

https://bleav.com/shows/the-cheer-mom-podcast/episodes/updates-on-varsity-law-suits-coach-monica-and-is-nca-getting-a-new-home/

https://bleav.com/shows/the-cheer-mom-podcast/episodes/navarro-cheer-bombshell/

Link to law suit brought against Monica Aldama

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"WHY do I need to sign her up for private lessons? Cheer is already expensive enough!" That was my mindset as a new cheer mom. I wasn't wrong, and if you are thinking the same thing you're not wrong either. Then I started to look into private lessons and learned a few things. I'm sharing my thoughts as a 12-year veteran cheer mom now!

Wanna jump around? Here are some highlights:
14:19 The Value of Personalized Coaching
18:16 The Importance of Private Lessons
19:19 Types of Private Lessons
20:49 Building Athlete-Coach Relationships
22:22 Dealing with Different Coaching Styles
25:31 Choosing the Right Coach
27:48 Parental Involvement in Private Lessons
30:14 Cost-Effective Alternatives to Private Lessons
34:14 Strength and Conditioning Tips
36:23 Improving Stunting Skills

Toxic cultures in cheer exist. The stories I've heard from so many of you are heartbreaking, and the language and styles that some coaches and owners are using are unacceptable. I am outraged on your behalf.

So, I called Jeff Benson, who is an expert on communication and developing a healthy mindset and culture specifically in cheer.

Jeff explains what it means to be psychologically safe and provides insights and practical tools for parents and coaches to foster healthier environments. The discussion covers the importance of a growth mindset, effective communication strategies, and the role of parents in recognizing and addressing toxic behaviors. Jeff emphasizes the need for a collaborative approach to creating champion-minded cultures in cheer gyms.

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15:44 Tackling Toxic Traits in Coaching
38:19 Understanding Emotions: The Stoplight Metaphor
38:49 Handling Red Light Emotions
39:39 Gathering Information and Addressing Concerns
41:51 Psychological Safety and Emotional Regulation
45:48 Toxic Culture and Fixed Mindset
49:50 Effective Communication
01:00:03 Balancing Values: Winning vs. Well-being
01:13:50 Champion Minded Culture: Tools and Resources
01:18:58 Changing the Culture of Cheer

I had an engaging conversation with fellow Cheer Mom, Heather, who asked me some insightful questions. We talk about the importance of family focus, effective communication, and maintaining boundaries to keep young athletes grounded. Listen to my personal stories and a little bit of "tea" on the time I lied to my kid right before a competition!

Wanna jump around? Here are some highlights:

05:43 Challenges and Surprises of Cheer Parenting
15:17 Balancing Cheer and Family Values
24:48 What's next for me?

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I had an insightful conversation with my friend Candice from No Limit, Live from the All Star World Championship in Orlando. We talk for a few minutes about the evolution of cheer shoes, but then we dive into balancing being a cheer mom and a cheer business woman. The episode also highlights the what a big crush we both have on TGLC, upcoming events, and mentorship opportunities within the cheer industry.

Wanna jump around? Here are some highlights from this episode:

08:52 The Importance of Cheer Shoes
14:54 Balancing Business and Cheer Mom Life
18:54 Building Trust in the Cheer Community
22:50 Flight Crew and Mentorship Program
25:56 Final Thoughts and Wrap-Up

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Special guests Maggie and Stephen from Flyer Athletics, Tyler, Texas, join in to share their experiences of running a D2 gym. They talk about the intense competition they crave, their gym's culture, and the balance between pushing athletes and nurturing their skills. With stories about community-building and the emotional rollercoaster of team placements (even for the coaches!), this episode offers an insightful look into the world of competitive cheerleading from a D2 perspective.

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Wanna jump around? Here are some notable moments in this episode:

07:15 The Journey of Flyer Athletics: From Cheer to Entrepreneurship

11:53 Choosing the All Star World Championship: A D2 Gym's Perspective

16:55 Setting High Standards in a Small Gym

20:48 Competing with Pride

22:36 Fostering a Competitive Edge and Community Support

23:14 Embracing the D2 Identity: More Than Just a Number

24:31 Navigating Athlete Loyalty and Gym Culture

27:56 Setting High Standards and Encouraging Growth

34:47 The Complex Puzzle of Team Selection

38:52 Balancing Encouragement and Realism in Coaching