• Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your Journey
    Jul 1 2024

    #038: Can someone with a disability still live the BDSM lifestyle to the full? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of disability, chronic illness, and kink. With growing awareness around health issues, we're sharing personal stories, practical tips, and the importance of inclusivity. Discover how communication, consent, and specialized tools can empower Dominants and submissives with disabilities. Let’s break the stigma and celebrate all abilities in our Dom/sub community!

    – Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/038

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    24 mins
  • BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips
    Jun 24 2024

    #037: Want to dive into degradation and humiliation with your partner but afraid you'll cross the line? Let's navigate these intense and thrilling aspects safely and confidently. In this episode, we're diving into the world of degradation and humiliation within BDSM. Learn the differences between degradation and humiliation, explore beginner to advanced ideas, and uncover essential tips for maintaining safety and consent. Plus, download a free master list of 50 creative degradation and humiliation ideas to spice up your play!

    – List of 50 degradation & humiliation ideas: https://domsubliving.com/degradation

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/037

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    16 mins
  • Kink and Kids: DOs and DON'Ts for D/s Parents
    Jun 17 2024

    #036: How do you balance being a parent and participating in a BDSM dynamic? In this episode, we're uncovering the delicate balance between parental duties and maintaining a Dom/sub relationship. Learn how to segregate roles, keep privacy intact, and educate your kids about consent and respect. Discover practical tips for managing impact scene noise, scheduling intimate moments, and fostering a positive family dynamic while ensuring healthy adult relationships.

    – Free Kink Personality Type quiz: https://domsubliving.com/quiz

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/036

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    38 mins
  • BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs
    Jun 10 2024

    Ever wondered how to keep your kink life fresh and exciting? Let's uncover some secrets together! In this AMA episode, we're tackling your burning questions about scene improvement, avoiding burnout, and maintaining excitement in long-term BDSM relationships. Alesandra shares personal insights from her D/s partnership with Jay, tips on creating rituals, managing D/s dynamics while parenting, and strategies for integrating kink into everyday life. Exclusive tips include revamping your toy collection, exploring new environments, and harnessing the power of intentional rituals. Curious for more? Join the Dom Sub Living community so you can get your questions answered on our next AMA!

    – Join our community: https://community.domsubliving.com/

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/035

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    37 mins
  • Bisexual Submissive in a BDSM Dynamic: My Story
    Jun 3 2024

    #034: How do you balance being bi and submissive? In this episode, we're getting real about the ups and downs of being a bisexual sub while having a Dominant, male partner. We're tackling labels, biphobia, and how the BDSM and LGBTQ+ communities intersect. Plus, find out how a bi sub navigates her non-binary attractions and battles stereotypes. Don't miss out on this important conversation!

    – Free 'How to Be a Good Sub' cheatsheet: https://domsubliving.com/sub

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/034

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    31 mins
  • SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which Safety Protocol Fits You?
    May 27 2024

    #033: Is 'Safe, Sane, Consensual' still the gold standard in BDSM, or is it time for a change? We're diving into the ins and outs of communication in BDSM, the buzz around acronyms like RACK, PRICK, and CCCC, and why consent is non-negotiable. We're sharing our thoughts on using "ethical" and the importance of being informed about BDSM practices. Plus, we're spilling the details on what we personally use, and offering a free kink dictionary to help you out. Tune in and tell us—what's your go-to framework for BDSM?

    – Free Kink Dictionary: https://domsubliving.com/dictionary

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/033

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    25 mins
  • BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond!
    May 20 2024

    #032: Here's why it's never too late to jumpstart your sex life and master the BDSM lifestyle. Too many older kinksters worry that they're too late to the game, are discouraged by their age, or think they're too far behind to ever catch up. The truth is age is just a number, and you're never too old to be your best Dom or sub self! Listen in and get ready to keep learning new things and experiencing new adventures, no matter how old you are!

    – Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/032

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    18 mins
  • Age Gaps in BDSM Relationships
    May 13 2024

    #031: Is age really just a number? Join host Alesandra as she delves into the complexities of age gap relationships within BDSM. This episode uncovers myths, explores challenges, and celebrates the unique benefits of significant age differences in Dom/sub relationships. Key topics include consent legality, power dynamics, and personal anecdotes from Alesandra's life. Tune in and shift your perspective on age gaps in BDSM!

    – Free BDSM contract: https://domsubliving.com/contract

    – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/031

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    34 mins