Navigating the silent struggles and triumphs of fatherhood and husbandry can feel like an odyssey, yet these tales rarely take center stage. That changes today, as we pull back the curtain to honor the steadfast men in our lives. Jordan M. Montgomery's reflections on leadership costs set the stage for a candid conversation about the complexities these roles entail. From the tough calls that keep the family unit afloat to the inevitable misunderstandings that come with the territory, we're acknowledging the unspoken burdens shouldered by fathers and husbands everywhere.

Taken from @jordanmmontgomery's instagram reel about leadership:
"There are 3 costs to leading well"
1. You will have to make hard decisions that will negatively affect those you care about.
2. You will be disliked despite your best attempts to do the best for the most.
3. You will be misunderstood and you won't always have the opportunity to defend yourself.

In this episode, I bring to light how leadership roles in marriage tend to shift, little by little, once kids enter the picture. Most couples don't even realize it's happening until mom is burnt out and resentful and dad is feeling the pain of getting benched (sidelined).

This episode is a call to action for wives to acknowledge their husbands for the silent struggles they take on every day, to lead the family and for couples to recognize if they are in need of a shift back to the right order of relationship which bonded them so beautifully when they first met.

Let's pledge to recognize and bolster the leadership of husbands with daily gestures of gratitude, a practice that strengthens not just their resolve but the entire family dynamic. Gender roles and traditional dynamics may seem "old school", but the complementarity can't be contested when we glance back to our beginnings together.

Join us in this exploration of leadership, love, and the quiet heroes of the home, as we continue to engage with and empower every member of the family in our ongoing conversations.

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What used to be sliced oranges served to kids after a rigorous game has turned into a goody bag full of sugary snacks that kids are fighting over! There's a better alternative!

Our guest, Katie Kimball, brings her expertise to the table in our enlightening discussion on the current culture of sports snacks for kids. As a seasoned advocate for real food education through her KidsCookRealFood.com business, Katie unpacks the frustrations many parents share over the sugary treats dominating children's sports. We examine the myths surrounding young athletes' supposed need for these snacks and consider the broader implications for our kids' understanding of nutrition and health.

The snack situation in children's sports is more than just a debate over food choices—it's a reflection of what we value in youth activities. Through anecdotes like that of a nine-year-old more concerned about the goody bag than the game, we uncover the misplaced priorities that treats can bring to team sports. Our conversation ventures into the potential advantages of ditching the standard snack roster altogether, from simplifying life for parents to instilling a sense of sportsmanship and specialness to celebrations in young players. Katie and I share insights on how presenting healthier options not only enhances athletic performance but also fosters an all-inclusive environment for kids with varying dietary needs.

Wrapping up our chat, we shift gears to the empowering steps families can take to promote a balanced relationship with food. From leveraging screen time for educational cooking lessons to setting family food rules, we provide practical tips for parents to navigate the snack-laden landscapes of sports and everyday life. Our dialogue extends an invitation to families to join a community that values wholesome nutrition, and we celebrate the positive changes that come with informed food choices. So tune in, get inspired, and let's score some real food wins for our kids together.

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I'll never forget celebrating Easter and glancing around a room full of my favorite people and realizing none of us were connecting. Every one of us had our face in our phone! It was a real wake-up call, and it's what propelled me to chat with Joey Odom from Aro about how we can reclaim our family time from the clutches of digital devices. Together, we peel back the layers of our screen-addicted society, sharing personal stories, and discussing the psychological impact that our phone fixation has on our relationships—especially with our spouse and kids.

Have you ever found yourself checking your phone for no reason, even when you know there are no new notifications? That's the kind of false dependence and habitual behavior we unpack in this episode. We highlight the surprising ways our devices have become intertwined with our daily routines and explore the concept of Aro—a lifestyle focused on awareness and presence. Joey and I delve into how Aro's platform, including a physical home decor piece for charging your devices paired with an app, is helping families to visually track and reward their off-screen time together, even gamifying the experience too.

Finally, we discuss how to foster deeper connections with our families and the powerful role parents play in setting the example for phone use. Joey reminds us the phone isn't the issue. The real issue is an intimacy crisis - all of us are craving connection and intimacy! In order to change the core relationship you have with your phone, he offers 4 practical tips.
1. Start with "I" - before asking your spouse and kids to get on board, work to change your own habits first.
2. Commit to a phone-free hour each day where you are out of proximity completely.
3. Designate sacred time and sacred space in your home where devices are not allowed.
4. Say these 6 important words before engaging with others "Let me put my phone down" and then follow through to eliminate competition for attention.

Check out the Aro community and join a generation of families who are prioritizing real life moments over screen time. Find them on Insta @goaronow

The Thriving Family Accelerator provides an easy, 3-step process to lower stress, parent as a united team, and enjoy a true friendship with your spouse & relationship with your kids. Sign up now for this live parent coaching with proven methods for positively engaging your family and redistributing the mental load.

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