In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, co-hosts Brian Mavis and Courtney Williams engage with Paula Yost, an attorney and licensed clinical medical health clinician, who shares her journey of advocacy for children in foster care and those with special needs. The conversation explores the impact of personal experiences, such as preeclampsia, on advocacy work, the complexities of navigating the foster care system, and the importance of education and support for both children and their advocates.

Paula emphasizes the need for unconditional love and the power of hope in transforming the lives of kids in foster care, while also addressing the hidden traumas they face and the systemic failures that often hinder their progress. The episode concludes with a call to action for foster parents to see themselves as advocates and to provide the love and support that these children desperately need.

Pickup a copy of her book: "Tumbleweeds: How to Be an Advocate for Your Children and Yourself in a Failing System"
https://a.co/d/07naKZEL

Takeaways

• Paula Yost blends legal advocacy with therapeutic support.
• Preeclampsia changed Paula's perspective on health and advocacy.
• Foster parents need to be informed about children's backgrounds.
• The foster care system often fails to support children's needs.
• Advocacy is essential for navigating educational systems.
• Unconditional love is crucial for foster children.
• Trauma impacts foster children's development and relationships.
• Education and support can change the trajectory of foster kids' lives.
• Building trust with foster children is vital for their healing.
• Hope is a powerful tool in advocating for foster children.

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In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, host Brian Mavis speaks with Dr. John DiGarmo and Jen Lilley about their experiences in foster care and advocacy. They discuss their personal journeys, the challenges faced in the foster care system, and the importance of community support. The conversation also highlights their upcoming book, 'Called to Foster,' which aims to provide an honest guide for those considering fostering.

The episode emphasizes the need for awareness and advocacy in the foster care system, as well as the emotional and practical realities of fostering children in crisis. The discussion also touches on the fears potential foster parents may have, the significance of community, and the transformative experiences that come from loving and caring for children in need.

Pickup a copy of their book "Called to Foster?: An Honest Guide to Getting Started"

https://a.co/d/0e6BFfwp

Dr. John DeGarmo's website: Foster Care Institute
https://www.drjohndegarmofostercare.com/

Jen Lilley's website:
https://www.jenlilley.com/

Takeaways

• Foster care is a unique lifestyle full of sacrifices.
• Advocacy for foster children is crucial, especially during crises.
• Personal experiences shape the understanding of foster care.
• Community support is essential for foster parents.
• Awareness can lead to increased involvement in foster care.
• Not everyone is called to foster, but everyone can help.
• Fostering requires a different parenting approach due to trauma.
• The book 'Called to Foster' offers insights and guidance.
• Foster care can be more challenging than anticipated.
• Humor can be found in the toughest fostering moments. Fostering is both challenging and rewarding.
• Family support is crucial in the foster care journey.
• Taking an orientation class can provide valuable information.
• Foster parents need to love children unconditionally.
• Children in foster care need stability and structure.
• Foster care can lead to personal growth and empathy.
• Respite homes are essential for supporting foster families.
• Fostering can positively impact biological children.
• Every child deserves love and attention.
• Foster care can strengthen one's faith and sense of purpose.

Thank you for listening to this episode of The Foster Friendly Podcast.

Learn more about being a foster or adoptive parent or supporting those who are in your community.

Meet kids awaiting adoption.

Join us in helping kids in foster care by donating $18 a month and change the lives of foster kids before they age out.

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In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, hosts Courtney Williams and Travis Vangsnes welcome back Laura, the Foster Parent Partner, a well-known figure in the foster care community, to discuss her new book, 'First Time Fostering.' The conversation explores the complexities of foster care, the importance of realistic expectations for prospective foster parents, and the balance between honesty and recruitment. Laura shares insights on preparing for new placements, the unique challenges faced by single foster parents, and essential items that can aid in fostering.

The episode concludes with a discussion on learning from mistakes in foster care, emphasizing the importance of adapting to the needs of children in care. The three also discuss the complexities of foster care, focusing on how to communicate with children about their circumstances, the impact of trauma on behavior, and the importance of resources and training for foster parents. They emphasize the need for empathy and understanding in dealing with children who have experienced trauma, and provide practical advice for those considering becoming foster parents.

Pickup a copy of Laura's new book "First Time Fostering: A Practical Guide for Supporting Kids in Foster Care"

https://a.co/d/0hKa3tjW

Takeaways

• Foster Care Awareness Month is a time to highlight the need for families.
• Laura's book provides practical advice for new foster parents.
• It's important to balance honesty with the need to recruit foster families.
• Single foster parents play a crucial role in the foster care system.
• Preparation for foster children includes both physical and emotional readiness.
• Therapeutic toys can help children communicate and process their experiences.
• Documentation and organization are key for single foster parents.
• Convertible furniture can save money and space for foster families.
• Sensory items are essential for helping children regulate their emotions.
• Learning from past mistakes is vital for growth in foster care. Parents should answer children's questions about foster care age-appropriately.
• Children may come into foster care with fears and misconceptions.
• Books about foster care should be chosen carefully to avoid misleading outcomes.
• Foster care is about stepping in to help families in need.
• Conversations about foster care should evolve as situations change.
• Trauma can manifest in various behaviors in children.
• Empathy and compassion are crucial in supporting children in care.
• Training and resources are essential for effective foster parenting.
• There will always be an element of uncertainty in foster care.
• Being open to learning and adapting is key to successful foster parenting.

Thank you for listening to this episode of The Foster Friendly Podcast.

Learn more about being a foster or adoptive parent or supporting those who are in your community.

Meet kids awaiting adoption.

Join us in helping kids in foster care by donating $18 a month and change the lives of foster kids before they age out.

Visit AmericasKidsBelong.org and click the donate button to help us change the outcomes of kids in foster care.