• we have a holiday booked BUT i want to break up... + Christmas party horrors
    Dec 10 2025

    Merry Christmas Everyone!!!


    We are so excited to bring you our final ep of the year. We will go on our annual Christmas and New Year break however we will be back in your ears in the new year!! In the meantime you can find us still overly active on our other social channels (linked below)!!


    Have an amazing Christmas & New Year, we appreciate you sooo much!!!


    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    our Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@MesciaTwins


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    35 mins
  • how to love my own company *independence* + do i book that friend vacay thats still 2yrs away???
    Dec 3 2025

    This week, liv is coming out of being sick with the flu and at the same time we're preparing for lots of fun travel coming up!! Today we’re diving into two very real, very relatable dilemmas. A listener who’s struggle with being alone is starting to weigh on her relationship. Then we’ve got another listener wondering if it’s even worth locking in a friendship holiday that’s two years away when the friendship group is starting to drift. Tune in for the laughs, the real talk, and a little emotional unhinging along the way.


    Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!


    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    44 mins
  • how much should i trust outsiders opinions when dating??? 💌
    Nov 19 2025

    Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!


    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    41 mins
  • My bfs not prioritising our relationship... + my family is judging my love life!!!
    Nov 12 2025

    Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!


    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    42 mins
  • Do i wanna know about their past lovers?? + why does our relationship feel off lately...
    Nov 5 2025

    “Ignorance is bliss”… until it’s not. This week we're diving into that messy, all-too-relatable territory of wondering about your partner’s past. How much is too much to know, and why it sometimes stings even when it shouldn’t. Plus, one of our listeners has been feeling a shift in her relationship lately... not a fight, not a breakup, just… distance. We’re chatting about what that means, why it happens, and how to deal when love feels a little less effortless than it used to.


    Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!



    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    38 mins
  • Am i too picky when it comes to dating? + Work Xmas party anxiety!!!
    Oct 29 2025

    Did you know there is such thing as the worlds most dangerous cheese!!! Neither did we but thanks to our fun fact of the day, we dive into it 😅.

    It’s work Xmas party season and today the girls help navigate for a listener, the anxieties that brings when her partner’s track record at these events isn’t exactly reassuring 😭. Plus, the girls chat about the early stages of dating when a listener is unsure if: is she too picky when it comes to dating, or just self-aware and knows what she 'doesn't' want?


    Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!


    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    41 mins
  • how do i heal from a 'healthy' breakup? + how we all met our long lasting friendships??
    Oct 22 2025

    Firstly, we reminisce on how quickly this year has gone and how the next few weeks/months have some very exciting things to look forward to!! This week’s episode is all about those healthy breakups... the ones where there’s no drama, just heartbreak. We’re chatting about how to actually heal, what moving on looks like when it ended on good terms, and how to avoid falling back into that comfortability. We also share how we all met our long term friendships in our 20s.


    Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!


    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    30 mins
  • Friendship Breakups, different communication styles + am i too young to have found my forever??
    Oct 15 2025

    This week we’re getting real about growing pains... from friendship breakups to navigating totally different communication styles with your partner. And that big question everyone keeps asking: am I too young to have found my forever person?


    Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!


    In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between!


    As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!


    If you’d like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below:


    Instagram: @thegroupchat

    Tik Tok: @the.groupchatpod

    Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com


    follow Liv on socials:

    Instagram: @oliviamescia

    Tiktok: @oliviamescia


    follow Ash on socials:

    Instagram: @ashleymescia

    Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


    See you next Thursday xx


    *We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    41 mins