In this Inner Mentor episode, Paul explores a simple but uncomfortable truth: most of what we want in life sits on the other side of something we’re avoiding. Not because we lack opportunity, but because we lack the courage to face what feels difficult—whether that’s a conversation, a decision, or even an honest admission to ourselves.

Drawing on personal experience, Paul reflects on the moments that shaped his life—from a health scare at 40 to a powerful shift in perspective after stepping through fear—and how those turning points weren’t driven by strategy, but by courage. He also shares a recurring pattern he sees in high-performing entrepreneurs: outward success paired with inner misalignment, where people feel stuck in lives they’ve outgrown but don’t yet have the courage to change.

About the Host Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. 👉 https://pauljryan.net/

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In this episode, Paul sits down with Anne-Marie Zanzal for a deeply human conversation about what it really costs to tell the truth—especially when that truth arrives “later in life.” Anne-Marie shares her story of coming out at 52 after a 27-year marriage to a man, raising four children, and living what looked (from the outside) like the complete picture of success. What unfolds isn’t just a sexuality story—it’s a story of identity, conditioning, fear, and the moment a life stops fitting. From Catholic upbringing and internalized shame, to divinity school, hospice work, and the piercing question that finally cracked the door open—“What have you been waiting for your whole life?”—Anne-Marie brings listeners right into the emotional reality of change.

Anne-Marie Zanzal is a minister, coach, and the founder of Anne-Marie Zanzal Coaching, where she supports people—especially those coming out later in life—through the identity, fear, and transition work required to live fully and truthfully. Her work explores the psychological and cultural forces that keep people stuck, and gives clients a clear path through fear, learning, and growth.

https://annemariezanzal.com/

Paul Ryan is an eight-figure CEO and the host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast,

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Links to full episode: https://youtu.be/5n1ANvmTYPI?si=8qyMi-rQXqfeaLUB https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Yb2It1HrEjYfpwBFcCHx1?si=xmQlJpdwRRCrxvoFTagkLw In this bite size episode Paul chats with Jerry Colonna, who explores what it really means to live with uncertainty, emotion, and impermanence in a world that often feels chaotic. Rather than trying to eliminate discomfort or “fix” turbulence, Jerry invites us to see life as both beautiful and difficult at the same time — like waves and ocean, inseparable. The conversation moves into a deeply human space: learning to stay present with fear, sadness, and uncertainty, not by avoiding them, but by allowing them fully. In doing so, we don’t become overwhelmed — we become more connected, more grounded, and more alive. About the Guest Jerry Colonna is a renowned executive coach, former venture capitalist, and the founder of Reboot.io. He is widely known for his work with CEOs, founders, and leaders, helping them navigate the intersection of leadership, identity, and emotional well-being. Jerry is the author of Reboot and Reunion, where he explores radical self-inquiry, compassion, and the inner work required to lead and live with authenticity. About the Host Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. 👉 https://pauljryan.net/ Work With Paul You can book a discovery call with Paul here: 👉 https://calendly.com/inner-entrepreneur-podcast/discovery-call-with-paul-ryan

In this episode of the Inner Mentor Series, Paul chats about a moment that changed everything—a cold January morning when he believed he was having a heart attack. Sitting at his desk, overwhelmed, exhausted, and on the edge, he was forced to confront a hard truth: the business he had worked so hard to build was now running him. What started as ambition and success had quietly turned into pressure, stress, and a life completely out of alignment.

From that wake-up call came a shift—not just in how Paul ran his business, but in how he approached his life. In this episode, he shares the deeper lesson behind the experience and the seven steps that ultimately gave him his time, freedom, and clarity back. This is not about systems or quick fixes, but about taking ownership, building the right team, and designing a business—and a life—that actually works for you.

About the Host Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. 👉 https://pauljryan.net/

Work With Paul You can book a discovery call with Paul here: https://www.pauljryan.net/

In this episode, Paul sits down with Jonathan Cave, who, by 40, had reached the “holy grail” of big-law success: a partner track that was about to culminate in senior partnership. From the outside it looked like the dream—money, status, the house in the suburbs of Geneva, a young family. But inside, Jonathan was falling apart: chronic stress, recurring back pain, anxiety in the simplest moments, and a life that felt more like performance than presence. When the offer came, it forced two questions he couldn’t unhear: Do I want it?… and Would I actually be happy and fulfilled if I take it? Nine months later, the answer was clear—so he walked away from the firm and from the legal world entirely.

Jonathan Cave is the founder of My Philosophy, where he works with high achievers around the world to help them align their inner world with their outer life. He is also the author of The Tree and the Mountain: Dare to Become. Website: jonathancave.com

About the Host Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. 👉 https://pauljryan.net/

Work With Paul You can book a discovery call with Paul here: https://www.pauljryan.net/

Full episode: https://youtu.be/8CTNmzVX1FA?si=W-S4er06qq4JOweq

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In this bite size episode Paul chats with Karolina Rzadkowlska, alcohol-free coach and author.

Karolina challenges one of the most normalised habits in modern life — social drinking — by exposing the quiet tension many people feel but rarely question. She shares her own journey from a “healthy during the week, undo it at the weekend” lifestyle to discovering that alcohol wasn’t enhancing her life, but masking a deeper lack of fulfilment. What looked like balance was actually a cycle of progress and setback, and once she stepped away, she began to see alcohol not as a reward, but as a distraction from a life that wasn’t fully aligned.

The conversation goes deeper than just giving up alcohol. Karolina breaks down the beliefs many people hold — that alcohol relaxes you, boosts confidence, or makes socialising easier — and shows how these are often illusions rooted in biology and conditioning. For entrepreneurs especially, she reframes the question: not “Do I have a problem?” but “Is this still serving the person I’m becoming?” The real shift isn’t about restriction — it’s about awareness, identity, and building a life where you no longer need the escape.

In this episode of the Inner Mentor series, Paul challenges one of the most seductive ideas in entrepreneurship — the belief that you can build a business that runs itself. It’s the dream sold everywhere: step back, remove yourself from the day-to-day, and let systems do the work. But in reality, this belief leads more entrepreneurs into frustration, failure, and eventually being pulled back into the business they tried to escape.

Paul shares the truth from decades of experience: businesses don’t run themselves — people run them. Real freedom doesn’t come from systems, it comes from building the right team, setting the right standards, and leading with clarity. This episode breaks down the critical difference between delegation and abdication, and why the entrepreneurs who get this right don’t disappear from their business — they evolve their role within it.

About the Host Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. 👉 https://pauljryan.net/

Work With Paul You can book a discovery call with Paul here: https://www.pauljryan.net/

About the Host Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. 👉 https://pauljryan.net/

Work With Paul You can book a discovery call with Paul here: 👉 https://calendly.com/inner-entrepreneur-podcast/discovery-call-with-paul-ryan