I try so hard. I sweat. I have tremendous will power. I swing the axe over and over again at my objectives--what's the problem, could it be my sequence?

The best tennis players in the world are really good at getting ready. So much so they suffer game violations and penalties because it's so important to be ready. Do you spend more time getting ready? Or aiming? Or firing?

Change your perspective >> and your change your life. Join us!

Good stuff from the episode:

1. Novak and Rafa: Getting Ready...ready...ready serve clock violations and serve clock violations. Tennis - Length of Aussie Open final didn't add up - ESPN
2. “All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost.” Tolkien
3. Stoicism: Epictetus: Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.
4. My therapy stump: why is it better to use an axe instead of a chainsaw? Are your tools sharp? Do you spend time sharpening them?
5. Remember what you want is in the bag. It's in the bag.

Topics we cover: Success, desire, achievement, forgiveness, hope, faith, motivation, losing weight, self-help, strategies for winning, inspiring others, being friends with anxiety and depression, strategies for success, overcoming fear, superpowers, trust your gut, losing a loved one, death, real estate, health, investing, stocks, growing a business, happiness, entrepreneurs, your practices make permanent sequence, what is perfection, self-improvement, spirituality, self-development, not giving up, mindfulness, meditation, Jesus, Buddha, stoic, stoicism, history, Buddhism, yoga, meditation, trusting yourself, freedom, limitless, living free, love, money, fitness and world class health

What's the best way you've found to hit your objectives? Is it:

Ready, Aim, Fire

or

Fire, Aim, Ready???

We kick off a new miniseries in this episode about how the right sequence makes all the difference. And how getting caught up in hacks and undisciplined desire results in desperation, usually it sounds like: Oh no!

What's the right sequence for love, for money? And of course I share an epic mistake on how I lost thousands of dollars when I started with--Fire!

Change your perspective >> and your change your life. Join us!

Good stuff from the episode:

1. Golden Ticket: Ive Got A Golden Ticket - YouTube
2. “All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost.” Tolkien
3. Stoicism: Epictetus: Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.
4. Matthew Chapter 6: Build up not for yourselves mansions on Earth >> but in your invisible world
5. Buddha: One moment can change a day, one day can change a life, and one life can change the world

Topics we cover: Success, desire, achievement, forgiveness, hope, faith, motivation, losing weight, self-help, strategies for winning, inspiring others, being friends with anxiety and depression, strategies for success, overcoming fear, super powers, trust your gut, losing a loved one, death, real estate, health, investing, stocks, grow my business, happiness, entrepreneurs, growing business, family, practices makes permanent, perfection, self-improvement, business, entrepreneurs, starting business, parenting, uplifting, spiritual, self-development, not giving up, mindfulness, meditation, Jesus, Buddha, stoic, stoicism, history, Buddhism, yoga, meditation, trusting yourself, freedom, no limits, living free, love, money, living free, trusting your gut, building business, health

If 'what you seek is seeking you'--then the most important question becomes, what do you seek?

When you flick on the light in the bathroom mirror, what's your first glance, something positive about your body or something negative?

"Where attention goes energy flows" (Tony Robbins)

Is your attention where you want it?

I'm going bald. Let's start there.

Research links:

1. Golden Ticket: Ive Got A Golden Ticket - YouTube
2. Deepak Chopra: Things happen in their season, intend and then detach: How To Master The 7 Spiritual Laws Of Success (chopra.com)
3. Tony Robbins: "Where attention goes energy flows"
4. Luke 17:21 The Kingdom of God is inside YOU
5. Buddha: One moment can change a day, one day can change a life, and one life can change the world

Topics we cover: Success, desire, achievement, forgiveness, hope, faith, motivation, losing weight, self-help, strategies for winning, inspiring others, being friends with anxiety and depression, strategies for success, overcoming fear, super powers, trust your gut, losing a loved one, death, real estate, health, investing, stocks, grow my business, happiness, entrepreneurs, growing business, family, practices makes permanent, perfection, self-improvement, business, entrepreneurs, starting business, parenting, uplifting, spiritual, self-development, not giving up, mindfulness, meditation, Jesus, Buddha, stoic, stoicism, history, Buddhism, yoga, meditation, trusting yourself, freedom, no limits, living free, love, money, living free, trusting your gut, building business, health