• Maiden Myth #14: You should cover your gray hair. (Part 2)
    Mar 29 2023

    THIS IS OUR SEASON FINALE EPISODE! Wow. Thank you so much to all the listeners and supporters of The Maiden Myth Podcast! We will be back. Please follow our socials to remain updated on the launch of Season 2 and to share in this community of women.

    For episode 14, my stylist - Shetorra Nichols, joins us in the discussion of gray hair and how it is just a piece of the aging process that many of us are beginning to accept (03:10). Sophia asks, "What is wrong with being old?" (04:45) and if there's possibly a dark side to the adage "Black don't crack" (18:45).

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    Creator, Writer, and Host: Sophia Stephens

    Co-Host: Jennifer Edison

    Guests: Shetorra Nichols

    Producer: Philosophia Productions

    PA: Imani Luluknu

    Sound Engineer: Miguel Castellanos

    Special Thanks to Selena Moshell

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    45 mins
  • Maiden Myth #13: You should cover your gray hair.
    Mar 22 2023

    Hair. So much of our identity lives in it. Our hair shapes the way we see ourselves and affects the way society sees us - whether we like it or not. In the first half of this episode (03:05), we speak to two women - one who has fully embraced her gray hair and another who is slowly but surely learning to accept her new friends. In the second half (20:30), we focus on how we can learn to embrace the changes of life that - as long as we are breathing - will inevitably come.


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    Creator, Writer, and Host: Sophia Stephens

    Guests: Lashawnda Becoats (IG @runtowardyourlife) and Shetorra Nichols

    Producer: Philosophia Productions

    Managing Producer: Life Creative Group

    Sound Engineer: Sonca Nguyen

    Sound Design: Johnie Steele

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    41 mins
  • Maiden Myth #12: LAT life w/ Erynn D. - You're too independent for marriage. (Part 2)
    Mar 15 2023

    In this episode, we welcome my dear friend,  Erynn to The Maiden Myth podcast to talk about her LAT (living apart together) life journey.   She shares what she enjoyed about the LAT life (19:30) and a few things she didn't (24:15). Sophia and Jennifer discuss if they could be in a LAT marriage (36:10).

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    Creator, Writer, and Host: Sophia Stephens

    Co-Host: Jennifer Edison

    Guests: Erynn Hendrickson

    Producer: Philosophia Productions

    PA: Imani Luluknu

    Sound Engineer: Miguel Castellanos

    Special Thanks to Selena Moshell

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    43 mins
  • Maiden Myth #11: You're too independent for marriage.
    Mar 8 2023

    Have you ever been accused of being too independent for marriage? Besides wondering how people expect a single woman to behave and live her life, I’ve often wondered, "When did independence become a bad thing and what makes an independent woman unfit for marriage? In this episode we are examining the lives of 2 women, (02:57) Sana Akhand and (20:09) Mrs. Vivian Cook, both happily married and more independent than any married women I know. They are a part of a growing demographic of LAT couples - couples that “live apart together”.


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    Creator, Writer, and Host: Sophia Stephens

    Guests: Sana Akhand  (sanaakhand.com) and Mrs. Vivian Cook

    Producer: Philosophia Productions

    Managing Producer: Life Creative Group

    Sound Engineer: Sonca Nguyen

    Sound Design: Johnie Steele

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    41 mins
  • Maiden Myth #10: Without children, you won't have a legacy.
    Mar 1 2023

    A woman’s purpose is often tied to her womb. It can be a struggle for women without children to feel as if their lives matter or even have purpose if they don’t have children. In this episode, joined with Dr. Kelly Thomas (00:45), we get real and share joys of being child-free (10:25), regrets of being child-free (14:45), and redefine the meaning of legacy as child-free women (20:05). We also explore the pros and cons of being an older mom.

    A special treat - Our guest is also the creator of the musical game, Lyrikel Genius. (https://lyrikelgenius.com) We close out the episode with a few rounds of this game. (35:30) Um... please forgive my competitive nature. 😜


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    Creator, Writer, and Host: Sophia Stephens

    Co-Host: Jennifer Edison

    Guests: Dr. Kelly Thomas 

    Producer: Philosophia Productions

    PA: Imani Luluknu

    Sound Engineer: Miguel Castellanos

    Special Thanks to Selena Moshell

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    43 mins
  • Maiden Myth #9: You'll never experience motherhood.
    Feb 22 2023

    Cryos, the world’s largest sperm and egg bank reported more than half of their customers are single mothers by choice, SMC’s. Although single mothers still carry a stigma in society, this hasn’t deterred some women from pursuing motherhood in this radical way. In this episode we hear the stories of two women - Hera (3:02) and Aisha (17:21) - who happily chose the SMC life.


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    Creator, Writer, and Host: Sophia Stephens

    Guest: Hera M. (Host of Seeking Different podcast) and Aisha J. (Host of Start To Finish Motherhood with Aisha podcast) - Both former hosts of Mocha SMC podcast

    Producer: Philosophia Productions

    Managing Producer: Life Creative Group

    Sound Engineer: Sonca Nguyen

    Sound Design: Johnie Steele

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    42 mins
  • Maiden Myth #8: You can't romance yourself.
    Feb 15 2023

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    42 mins
  • Maiden Myth #7: Singles are missing out on intimacy.
    Feb 8 2023

    Do you feel like you are missing out on intimacy that you would normally receive in a romantic relationship? Have you been single for so long you feel it may be difficult or scary to practice vulnerability with a partner? In this episode, I am joined by a therapist and life coach to explore how you can strengthen your intimacy muscles - whether you are married or not.

    Abdi Zelaya starts us off by sharing the simple definition of "intimacy" and the many ways it can be explored (5:35). I ask if the length of a person's singleness affects their ability to be vulnerable (12:00).

    Ladies and gentlemen, Ashley Blanco (17:16). Ashley shares what she learned from Sobonfu Somé's, The Spirit of Intimacy (18:40) and how we block our experience of intimacy. I share a personal story of experiencing true intimacy with a friend (21:20) and then explore the concept of self-intimacy with Ashley (32:00).

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    Creator, Writer, and Host: Sophia Stephens

    Guests: Abdi Zelaya, MA, LPC and Ashley Blanco, Kid's Life Coach and Family Partner

    Producer: Philosophia Productions

    Managing Producer: Life Creative Group

    Sound Engineer: Sonca Nguyen

    Sound Design: Johnie Steele

    Special Thanks to Sarah Benibo, Ronald and Dorretta Stephens, Jenna Mountain, PhD (ABD), LPC, CST and Aspen Haus Associates

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    41 mins