Can a relationship survive without 100% trust? And once a mistake has been made, is it sensible to adopt the mantra, “once bitten twice shy”, or should we forgive “seventy times seven” as told by Jesus? This week Khafi and Theo share personal stories of things they have struggled with and the place of forgiveness within relationships.

With input from Claire Musters and Steve Musters

They say that ‘love is blind’, but what if your partner doesn’t resemble the person that you first met - The weight has piled on, the wig keeps slipping and the legs are hairy! How much should appearance play a role within our relationships and is there a fine line between attraction and lust?? Khafi and Theo remove the mask as they discuss their ‘ideal’ spouse…But has that ideal matched up to who they have married?!

Should you hold hands with your boyfriend or girlfriend, or is that a slippery slope to physical temptation? How much of your marriage should you share with your friends? And can speaking about your future plans lead to ill intent from others? Khafi and Theo break down the boundaries to discuss how to maintain peace in all relationships.

With input from Fiona Banes from Time for Marriage

God said to Adam and Eve, “Be fruitful and multiply”, but what does that mean for married couples in 2021? Should couples wait until ‘their house’ is in order, or should they throw out the contraception and trust in God’s providence? But what if the trust is there but the babies aren’t coming?? Khafi and Theo discuss the ins and outs of conceiving and whether children are the ultimate gift.

Is it possible to be in a loving relationship and not know the ins and outs of your partner’s bank account? “The love of money is the root of all evil”, so is it surprising that finances are one of the top reasons for relationship breakdown? Khafi and Theo share the pin to their thoughts, but do all transactions lie on the man’s plate or is it time for the provider to start wearing the skirt?

To have and to hold…and buy gifts, and affirm, and spend time, and to help round the home! Apparently, love can be shown in 5 different ways, but what if your partner sees your loving gifts as a waste of money? Theo and Khafi explore the importance of showing love and even conclude what they think God’s love language is!

As we mark the first anniversary of George Floyd’s killing, in a year when the world has woken up to racism, Theo and Khafi discuss what Black Love means. The media have often tried to present a stereotype that Black fathers are absent and Black mothers are troubled, but can true, monogamous, fulfilling and prospering Black Love really exist?