In this episode, Sarah and Jenna explore the concept of compersion, or "sympathetic joy," in relationships. They discuss its origins, definitions, and how it contrasts with jealousy.

Highlights:

• Origins of Compersion: Coined by the Kerista community in the 1990s, related to the Buddhist concept of muditā.
• Definition: Joy felt when seeing a partner happy in another relationship.
• Dimensions: Includes emotional joy, supportive attitudes, and positive experiences.
• Factors Influencing Compersion: Individual commitment to nonmonogamy, relational security, and supportive community.
• Compersion vs. Jealousy: They can coexist; open communication in nonmonogamous relationships fosters healthier discussions about jealousy.
• Healthy Approach: Mutual respect, open communication, and validation of all emotions.

Resources Mentioned: "What is Compersion?" by Marie Thouin, www.whatiscompersion.com

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Welcome back to the Orgasmic Terrorist Podcast! In this first episode of Season 4, Sarah and Jenna are thrilled to catch up with you and share all the exciting developments that have been happening behind the scenes. Here’s what you can expect in this episode:

• Catch-Up Time: Sarah and Jenna fill you in on what they’ve been up to during the break and the new directions they’re exploring with the Orgasmic Terrorist Podcast.
• Exciting Changes: Discover the new and exciting changes we’ve made, including the launch of our brand-new store on our website, packed with exclusive OT merchandise.
• Patreon Giveaway: Join our Patreon community and be one of the first 10 patrons to receive an exclusive OT Giveaway Butt Plug. Don’t miss out on this special offer!
• Season 4 Sneak Peek: Get a glimpse of the exciting topics and interviews we have planned for this season. From deep dives into new subjects to engaging conversations with fascinating guests, Season 4 promises to be our best yet.

Tune in to hear all the updates and join us for another season of exploration, learning, and fun. Visit our website to check out the new store and become a part of our Patreon community today!

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Get ready for an electrifying Season 4 of the Orgasmic Terrorist Podcast! We're kicking things off with an exclusive OT Butt Plug Giveaway (created by Glow Fuck Yourself) – an offer too tempting to pass up. The first 10 patrons to sign up at Patreon.com/orgasmicterrorist will receive a special OT Butt Plug. It's our way of saying thank you and adding an extra spark of excitement as you tune in. Sign up before March 31, 2024. Visit Patreon.com/orgasmicterrorist.

Season 4 promises to be sensational with an array of engaging new interviews that delve deeper into the themes of sexual exploration and empowerment. Whether you're a long-time listener or new to the podcast, these conversations are sure to enlighten, entertain, and inspire.

And that's not all – we're thrilled to unveil our shiny new website, complete with a merchandise store packed with OT goodies. From apparel to accessories, the OT Store is your go-to spot for merchandise that celebrates our journey of sexual authenticity and exploration. Visit www.orgasmicterrorist.com today!

So, plug in, explore our new site, and gear up for an unforgettable season with Orgasmic Terrorist. Remember, it's not just a podcast; it's a movement. Join us, and let's make Season 4 the best one yet!

As we draw the curtain on an incredible Season 3, Jenna and Sarah are dedicating this final episode to you, our valued listeners. It's all about your curiosities, reflections, and thoughts:

• Answering Your Questions: We’ve compiled your most intriguing and thought-provoking questions from this season, and we’re ready to dive into each one. Expect honest answers, shared experiences, and our personal take on your BDSM queries.
• Merchandise Reveal: Big news for Terrorist fans! We're excited to announce that we will soon be launching our own line of merchandise. Keep your eyes peeled for exclusive designs that resonate with our journey of sexual exploration and acceptance.
• Gratitude and Farewell (For Now): As we bid farewell to Season 3, we express our heartfelt thanks for your engagement and support. Your curiosity and participation have been the backbone of this season's success.

Join us for this intimate and engaging finale, where we celebrate the community, we’ve built together and the conversations that have brought us closer.

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Join us in this unique episode where we explore the influence of BDSM on pop culture. We've compiled an extensive list of movies, TV shows, books, apps, and podcasts that delve into the world of BDSM. Whether you're new to this or a seasoned explorer, there's something here for everyone. Let’s get started!

Movies:

• "Secretary" (2002) - Available on Freevee (Prime) and Tubi
• "The Duke of Burgundy" (2014) - Watch on AMC+
• "The Story of O" (1975) - Streaming on Pluto TV
• "Belle de Jour" (1967) - Find it on Max
• "365 Days" Trilogy - Streaming on Netflix

TV Series:

• "Bonding" (2021) - Netflix
• "Submission" (2016) - Currently unavailable
• "Sex/Life" (2021) - Netflix
• "Red Shoe Diaries" (1992) - Tubi
• "Masters of Sex" (2013) - Prime (Showtime)
• "Sex Bytes" - HBO

Books:

• "Story of O" by Pauline Réage
• "The Marketplace" by Laura Antoniou
• "The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy" by Anne Rice (as A.N. Roquelaure)
• "Exit to Eden" by Anne Rice

Apps:

• FetLife: Social networking for the BDSM community
• Whiplr: Dating for kinky and BDSM enthusiasts
• Kinkoo: For kink, fetish, and BDSM relationships
• iKamasutra: Offers ideas including BDSM elements
• Adult Friend Finder: Social networking with BDSM options
• Seeking: For SugarDaddy/Baby Girl/Boy relationships

Podcasts:

• "Kinkology": Exploring kink, BDSM, and fetish culture
• "Loving BDSM": A Dominant and submissive couple discusses BDSM relationships
• "Off the Cuffs": Covers a range of BDSM topics with interviews and stories
• "The Dildorks": Discusses sex, relationships, and kink, including BDSM
• "American Sex Podcast": Encyclopedic knowledge of BDSM, Kink, and fetishes
• "All That and Mo": Sex education and kink expert sharing stories
• "Watts Your Safeword": Discussing consent, community topics, and BDSM myths
• "Pink Kink": Experienced hosts cover a range of BDSM topics with humor
• "Mean Mommy Kink Podcast": Femme Tops discussing a wide range of topics
• "Bawdy Storytelling": The Original Sexy and Storytelling Podcast

Stand-up/Shows:

• "Paid or Pain? The BDSM Comedy Show" - In Massachusetts
• "Dominatrix for Dummies" by Eleanor O’Brien
• "Bondage" by Kat Davidson
• "Crowd Loves BDSM" by Rick Ratliff
• "The Fix" Episode 1 - Netflix

This episode is a celebration of how BDSM has influenced and been represented in various forms of media. Dive in, get inspired, and join the discussion about these picks on our social platforms!

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Join Sarah and Jenna for an enthralling episode where CuBBy, a passionate member of the submissive community in BDSM, shares his personal journey. Get ready to delve into:

• CuBBy's Path: Discover how CuBBy ventured into BDSM and what the role of a submissive truly signifies for him.
• Dispelling Myths: CuBBy addresses common misconceptions about submission, contrasting them with his real-life experiences.
• Exploring Power Dynamics: Gain insight into the intricate power dynamics of BDSM from the submissive’s viewpoint.
• Challenges and Joys: CuBBy discusses the challenges he faces in his role and the profound fulfillment it brings.
• Fetish Revelations: Dive into CuBBy's exploration of his fetish, uncovering what it entails and the personal satisfaction and growth he derives from it.

This episode is a deep dive into the nuanced and often misunderstood realm of submission, offering a unique perspective on BDSM relationships. --- Tune in for an eye-opening experience and join the conversation post-episode. We look forward to your thoughts and questions! Share your thoughts with us by emailing today to orgasmicterrorist@gmail.com

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In this eye-opening episode, Jenna and Sarah sit down with Madame PhoenixRose, a seasoned professional dominatrix. This episode offers a deep dive into:

• BDSM Explained: Unpacking the complexities and nuances of BDSM through the lens of a professional.
• Breaking Misconceptions: Addressing common myths and misunderstandings about the life and work of a dominatrix. (hint you will be surprised.)
• The Psychology Behind Domination: Delving into the mental and emotional aspects of domination and the critical role of consent. Exploring the empowerment derived from domination and the unique challenges faced in this profession.

Quote from Madame PhoenixRose:

"Welcome kinky friends! I am Madam PhoenixRose aka Madam Phoenix. No I am not located in Phoenix so don’t ask! I am a Domme with lots of services to offer. I am one that enjoys and requires to be treated like a queen. I have a wide variety of things I enjoy but the thing I enjoy the most is getting you out of your head. I enjoy mind torture and even consider myself a mental sadist. I also enjoy impact play and am a sadist that way as well. JOI’s and orgasm control is a fun torture to me. I have been in the lifestyle for 13yrs and even started as a sub so I understand the headspace very well and the ability to breathe it gives you. I do not do sexual acts. I have my own personal sub and not looking for anymore. All my clients must go through a screening process and give tribute first as I do not deal with time wasters either."

Fetlife: MadamePhoenixRose

Join us as Madame PhoenixRose sheds light on an often-misunderstood facet of human sexuality, offering a fresh and enlightening perspective.

Be part of the conversation and share your thoughts on this topic with us on our social channels. Let’s broaden our understanding together. Share your thoughts with us by emailing today to orgasmicterrorist@gmail.com

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Join Jenna and Sarah in an insightful discussion on the intricacies of Sub Drop, Dom Drop, and the crucial role of aftercare in BDSM experiences. Delving into the emotional roller coaster that follows intense scenes, the hosts explore the definition, causes, and duration of Sub Drop – a common phenomenon after BDSM sessions.

In addition, discover the counterpart to Sub Drop – Dom Drop – as Jenna and Sarah shed light on the emotional shifts experienced by Dominants post-BDSM activities. The hosts emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing both Sub Drop and Dom Drop within BDSM relationships.

The episode delves into effective aftercare strategies, exploring physical and emotional support techniques to mitigate the potential negative effects of these emotional drops. Listeners are encouraged to consider the significance of self-awareness, open communication, and the validation of emotional responses in creating a supportive and fulfilling BDSM experience.

Please note: This episode contains explicit content intended for an adult audience, discussing mature themes related to sexuality and BDSM practices. Listener discretion is advised.

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