The Phulkaari

By: Sikh Women's Aid
  • Summary

  • Sikh Women’s Aid has noticed the need for women-led discussion spaces that tackle the root causes of all toxic behaviour that exists in our community and wider society. So this podcast is a place for honest, frank no-nonsense discussion around the root causes of abuse and violence that swathes of Sikh Panjabi women and children are subjected to, this includes some men too.

    We wish to recreate the environment of honest discourse and collective healing amongst Sikh Panjabi women and children. We named our podcast after reading about the cultural heritage of the Phulkaari and its role in the celebration of girls.

    The name Phulkaari is a silent tribute to our beautiful mothers and their traditions to place honour and value on their daughters. It is time for Sikh Panjabi women and girls to take back control of discussions and strategies that impact our lives and lived experiences.

    Join us every second Wednesday at 7 pm, no topic of discussion is off the table. 💜🙏🏽

    © 2024 Sikh Women's Aid - The Phulkaari
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Episodes
  • E8: Unraveling the Narrative of Female Perpetrators and Enmeshment in Domestic Abuse
    Jul 31 2024

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    In this thought-provoking episode, we embark on a deep dive into the often overlooked dynamics of female perpetrators and enmeshment, particularly focusing on the complex relationships between mothers and their sons and the impact on patterns of domestic abuse.

    Our 2022 surveyed over 800 Sikh Panjabi women and girls living in the UK where 1/3 of women who had experienced domestic abuse identified their mothers-in-law as the principal perpetrator.

    With a compassionate and critical lens, we confront the societal myths and misconceptions surrounding female perpetrators of abuse and the intricate web of enmeshment that can perpetuate generational cycles of violence within families. Through candid conversations and nuanced analysis, we seek to broaden the discourse on domestic abuse to encompass the diversity of experiences and narratives that shape these often taboo relationships.

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    29 mins
  • E7: Unveiling Spiritual Abuse and Faith-Based Exploitation
    Jul 11 2024

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    In this compelling episode, we embark on a profound exploration of the intricate nuances surrounding spiritual abuse and faith-based exploitation, confronting the unspoken challenges faced by individuals within religious communities. Our perspective are focusing on the Sikh community and Sikh faith institutions and the break down of Sikh preaching in its honest form and what that has been replaced with and the harm caused to vulnerable congregation members

    Drawing from real-life experiences and expert insights, we navigate the delicate yet imperative discourse of spiritual abuse, shedding light on the manipulative tactics employed to exert control and inflict harm in the name of faith. Through introspective discussions, we aim to dismantle the barriers of silence and stigma, fostering a space for validation and healing for those affected by such insidious dynamics.

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    30 mins
  • E6: Domestic Homicides 2 - UK Born Sikh Panjabi Women
    Jun 26 2024

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    At the time of recording this episode. Four women of Sikh Panjabi Heritage who were born and living in the UK were killed by a man of Sikh Panjabi Heritage. In this insightful episode, we delve into the grim reality of domestic homicides affecting Sikh Panjabi women born in the UK, shedding light on a sensitive yet crucial issue within the community.

    We honour the resilience and memory of Sikh Panjabi women who have faced unimaginable challenges, and explore the transformative work of Sikh Women’s Aid in fostering healing, empowerment, and justice in the face of domestic homicides.

    Please tune in to our podcast episode as we navigate the complexities of domestic homicides among Sikh Panjabi women born in the UK, weaving together stories of survival, solidarity, and hope in the pursuit of a safer and more equitable tomorrow.

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    29 mins

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