• Robin Hanson, Professor & Author of "The Elephant In The Brain: Hidden Motives In Everyday Life"
    Jul 30 2024
    Why are we all such liars ,and what does it say about us as a species that we are able to lie to ourselves so well? Robin Hanson is an associate professor of economics at George Mason University and the coauthor along with Kevin Simler of THE ELEPHANT IN THE BRAIN: HIDDEN MOTIVES IN EVERYDAY LIFE. He’s a former research associate at the Future of Humanity Institute of Oxford University, and is known for his work on idea futures and markets, and was involved in the creation of DARPA's FutureMAP project. Among other accolades, he has conducted extensive research on signaling, and proposed the Great Filter Hypothesis regarding extraterrestrial life. His book, THE ELEPHANT IN THE BRAIN, explores the mental blind spots of society and of individuals, with a focus on the ways that we are all unaware of our own motives, thanks to how our brains evolved to trick us. On today’s podcast, we talk about how he applies the lessons of hidden motives to his own social awkwardness, and how we can all become more aware of our own blind spots. We look at evolutionary psychology and discuss the so-called split-brain experiments for context before digging in to our baser motives for self-deception in politics and religion. Hanson explains the role of the press secretary in the white house…as well as the one in the human brain. Turns out we are a lot more political in our everyday lives than we’d care to admit. The questions are How can we stay aware of our own Hidden Motives, and does it serve us to spend any energy doing that? How can we hold people accountable for their actions if even they aren’t wholly aware of their own motives? And what would the world look like if everyone’s motives were laid bare…perhaps for example through cutting edge AI technology. Hanson also happens to be a futurist, so he has cause for his predictions. And you won’t want to miss them, regardless of the motives you tell yourself are driving you to tune in. ---------- Join the mailing list: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/QfcGHMm/thereleasepodcast ---------- Learn more: www.TheReleasePodcast.com
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    45 mins
  • Craig Hatkoff, Real Estate Pioneer, Innovation Expert & CoFounder Of The Tribeca Film Festival
    Jul 23 2024
    Craig Hatkoff is a real estate investor who pioneered the concept of asset securitization back in the 1990s at Chemical Bank, and then became Vice Chairman of Capital Trust which he cofounded alongside the legendary billionaire Sam Zell. He is also a board member for more than 15 private and public companies as varied as Colony Capital, SL Green, the Desmond Tutu Peace Foundation and even the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. A some time Columbia professor on the topic of Disruptive Innovation, he worked closely with the famed late HBS luminary Clayton Christensen and eventually also cofounded the Disruptor Awards. Along the way he found some time to launch a media company and become a bestselling author of children’s books, alongside his two daughters. But what Craig is most popularly known for is his role as a cofounder, alongside Robert DeNiro and Jane Rosenthal, of the Tribeca Film Festival. And it wasn’t started for the reasons you think. Versatile doesn’t begin to describe Craig. There are so many adjectives.On today’s podcast, we start off with the lightbulb moment of his youth, when he was almost but not quite fired from a finance job out of business school…and whether it was cluelessness or arrogance that got him there. We talk about the time when has was one of Donald Trump’s bankers, the guitar collection that reminds him of the path not taken, and the way he thinks today, about religion. Turns out that’s ripe for disruption, too. Listen to the end for the lightning round, where Craig reveals what he would be doing, had he not stumbled onto business school somehow, all those decades ago. It’s not what you’d think, and on some level, aren’t we all still who we were back in the seventh grade? #tribecafilmfestival #claytonchristensen #disruptiveinnovation #slgreen #disney #shareholder #boardmember #innovation #religion #robertdeniro #podcast #banking #realestate #securitiesandexchangecommission
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    47 mins
  • Julie Menanno, Renowned Marriage Therapist and Bestselling Author of SECURE LOVE (Part 2)
    Jul 16 2024
    Julie Menanno is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a leading voice on attachment styles with over 1.2 million instagram followers and the bestselling author of "SECURE LOVE: Create a relationship that lasts a lifetime." She earned her Master’s degree in Psychology from Phillips Graduate Institute in LA, and has a clinical therapy practice in Bozeman, Montana, using Emotionally Focused Therapy known as EFT, for couples working on attachment issues within relationships. Julie is also a wife of 24 years and a mom to six kids and one dog. On episode two of this two-part podcast, we get to know Julie a lot better, partly with the help of her husband, who joins as a surprise call-in guest! We talk through how her evangelical childhood impacted her career choice, what being a boy-mom can teach us about romantic relationships, and why a midlife romantic post-mortem is so very important. My grand conclusion is that she was in fact born to do this work, and destined to outline in her unique way what it takes to create SECURE LOVE. By the end of our talk, I’m pretty sure I officially won at podcasting, because according to Julie, who is renowned by millions of followers for her own insights on love…I made HER feel seen. Mailing list: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/QfcGHMm/thereleasepodcast Learn more: www.TheReleasePodcast.com #podcast #newpodcast @juliemenanno #loveandrelationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #couplescounseling #love #nervoussystemregulation #coregulation #christianevangelist
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    52 mins
  • Julie Menanno, Renowned Marriage Therapist and Bestselling Author of SECURE LOVE (Part 1)
    Jul 9 2024
    Julie Menanno is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a leading voice on attachment styles with over 1.2 million instagram followers and the bestselling author of "SECURE LOVE: Create a relationship that lasts a lifetime." She earned her Master’s degree in Psychology from Phillips Graduate Institute in LA, and has a clinical therapy practice in Bozeman, Montana, using Emotionally Focused Therapy known as EFT, for couples working on attachment issues within relationships. Julie is also a wife of 24 years and a mom to six kids and one dog. On episode one of this two-part podcast, we define #attachmentstyles, examine how they can change depending on the #relationship, and dive in to why the #nervoussystem should be the first thing you worry about when trying to communicate with your partner. We look at why you have to stop trying to change your partner, and go deep on how #shame sabotages our chances at connecting. On episode two (subscribe today to get it first), we get to know Julie a lot better, partly with the help of her husband, who joins as a surprise call-in guest! We talk through how her evangelical childhood impacted her career choice, what being a boy-mom can teach us about romantic relationships, and why a midlife romantic post-mortem is so very important. My grand conclusion is that she was in fact born to do this work, and destined to outline in her unique way what it takes to create SECURE LOVE. By the end of our talk, I’m pretty sure I officially won at podcasting, because according to Julie, who is renowned by millions of followers for her own insights on love…I made HER feel seen. Mailing list: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/QfcGHMm/thereleasepodcast Learn more: www.TheReleasePodcast.com #podcast #newpodcast @juliemenanno #loveandrelationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #couplescounseling #love #nervoussystemregulation #coregulation #christianevangelist
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    40 mins
  • Mike Amoia, Entrepreneur, Angel Investor & The World's Most Insect-Tattooed Man
    Jul 2 2024
    There’s more to Mike Amoia than the insect tattoos covering most of his body, or the scorpion tattoos covering most of his neck and the back of his skull before stretching out over his right eye socket. Mike is an entrepreneur, angel investor, Emmy award-winning producer, and he also holds the Guinness Book World Record for the most insect tattoos on a human body: 864 at the time of the award, and counting. After being misdiagnosed with leukemia as a child and forced to endure painful treatments, he learned the truth, ran away from home, struggled to survive, dropped a bad tab of acid…and started his second life. Discovering that not only did he have a knack for freelance assistant editing with companies like Sony and VH1, but that he had no problem outworking the competition, he quickly rose through an editing job and then cofounded a production and postproduction company of his own, called Vidiots. Over the years, Vidiots grew to include a 20,000 square foot facility in New York’s West Village housing an agency representing editors and directors. Since then he’s dabbled in angel investing for companies including Rumble boxing, Rhone Clothing and Van Leuwen vegan ice cream. He cofounded MIBE music, a publishing company with over 100,000 music cues and songwriters worldwide. Their credits include Beyoncé Pepsi commercial, CBS sports, Bravo's Million Dollar Listing, History Channel's Counting Cars, and the NBA Finals opener for ESPN. He also launched Switchblade Entertainment, a worldwide production company signed with Creative Artists Agency, specializing in original, mostly unscripted content. 
 And he was featured by FORBES for the launch of Indelible, an NFT company bridging the gap between tattoo culture and Web3, while raising money for worthy causes. While the deals keep coming, Mike’s starting to get philosophical at age 50. He’s not showing all his cards, but on today’s podcast, we discuss why he sees other people’s misperceptions of him as his superpower. We look at those childhood leukemia treatments, consider how the experience molded his self-perception…and go back to the day when he realized that something wasn’t right. Mike explains the acid trip when he visualized insects crawling all over his body, and how that was a turning point that set the tone for the rest of his life. The insects on his body, hands, and face are more than just art, he says. They’re armor. Mike is, at heart, still just an introverted kid from Queens New York who is always learning, always looking for the angle, always sizing people up, and trying to figure out his place in it all. But now he’s got a seat at the big table, and he’s making the most of it…while still trying to figure out how to make his peace, really, with it all.
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    49 mins
  • Bret Lockett, NFL Player Turned Love Coach
    Jun 25 2024
    Bret Lockett is an ex-NFL player who found his second calling as a transformational love coach and he's on a mission. A spiritual guide and an alchemist, he's now an internationally recognized speaker and relationship expert focused on balancing the yin and yang energies in romantic relationships. He grew up in California, went to UCLA and then played for the Cleveland Browns, New England Patriots and New York Jets before retiring in 2013. His career was marked by injuries, setbacks, and like many professional athletes, a refusal to give up. But unlike many others, after his career ended, Bret started searching for a new way to channel his energy and eventually shifted his external search for meaning inward. Nowadays, aside from speaking, coaching, and running an aviation company, Bret is using all of the lessons he has learned about ego, masculinity, and how we can help each other with the traumas we all carry, to inform his work with women seeking to transform and receive love. But as he explains on today's podcast, while he works mainly with women, he thinks the root of the problem in modern relationships lies in men. From the deepest caves to the chilliest cold plunges, Bret has done the work most men simply can't or won't do. He's become an expert in gene keys and a seeker of deeper truths about the nature of human consciousness. Now lest you think he's Superman, rest assured that he still can't get his siblings on board. But he won't give up on that either, and my money's on him. Today we talk about ego, what it is, how the NFL or any really early success can cause it to metastasize, and what it takes to really reinvent yourself. We explore how he got into breath work and the role that fear has played in his life. The growing imbalance in relationships isn't all cause for alarm, according to Bret. He describes a powerful experience of awakening to how much pain so many women carry, how much fear men hold in silence, and how he wishes he could teach them to simply hold space for each other. My vote is for him to lead a breathwork, self -love, and vulnerability course as a prerequisite for young men joining the NFL. In case this podcast reaches the folks who can make that happen, on behalf of all women on the planet, as well as all the little boys idolizing these athletes: Thank you in advance. JOIN THE PODCAST MAILING LIST: 
www.TheReleasePodcast.com LEARN ABOUT BRET: www.bretlockett.com 
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    58 mins
  • Anna Morgenstern, NYC Matchmaker & Dating Coach
    Jun 18 2024
    Matchmaking is an industry worth an estimated $1.2 to $1.5 billion globally, with nearly 40% of that market located in the United States. And it’s growing, while reaching a wider audience, both in age and price range. Anna Morgenstern is a high-end matchmaker and dating coach based in New York City. She happened on this career almost by accident, while working in advertising, when she set up not one, or two, but three of her own friends with the people they would eventually marry. She made the jump to matchmaking and eventually launched her own business, gaining a following and clientele nationwide. Nowadays, she’s teaching others how to go into the matchmaking world as well. On today’s podcast, we talk about matchmaking misconceptions, the roadblocks people create for themselves, and whether one must be healed, to find love. America is sick of swiping, according to surveys, but it might also be allergic to realistic expectations. Anna talks about the toughest clients she has had, the problem with direct feedback, and the main element she feels is missing in modern dating. She was single herself when she became a matchmaker, but she has learned a lot along the way. And she’s sharing it today, along with her advice on the one core trait she would control for, above all else, when trying to help people find their true partner. If it were only that simple…well then she and all the other matchmakers would be out of a job. And we don’t think that’s happening any time soon.
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    59 mins
  • Pamela Prickett, Author of "The Unclaimed: Abandonment And Hope In The City Of Angels"
    Jun 11 2024
    What do we owe one another (as family or as a society)...in death? Pamela Prickett is the coauthor (along with Stefan Timmermans) of the book The Unclaimed; Abandonment and Hope in the City of Angels. An associate professor of sociology at the University of Amsterdam, Pamela has studied journalism and media at Boston University and at the London School of Economics, and earned her PhD from UCLA. Her research into urban inequality, community-building, death/dying & religion led the Houston native to a mosque in Los Angeles where she witnessed a community of non-blood related people fight for the right to bury a member who died with nobody to legally claim her. The experience led Pamela to unearth the growing phenomenon of Americans, up to 150,000 of whom are going unclaimed after their deaths each year. She and her coauthor dug in to the processes, the people, the policies and the social structures that are responsible, and today we’re talking about what she learned. We examine how different cities and countries handle their unclaimed dead, why those left behind often have a lot to say, and why complete strangers are now routinely showing up to mass burial ceremonies nationwide to mourn many of the unclaimed who they never knew. We look at which portion of the population has the highest risk of going unclaimed, and why the stories of the four people she presents in the book hit so close to home. The Unclaimed can inspire readers to elevate our real personal connections to the top of our priorities, where they deserve to be. Our cult of independence is killing us, perhaps more slowly than we even realize. How does it matter if we go unclaimed? Is it about religion? Obligation? The fabric of a functioning society? What do we owe each other? Pamela opens up about her own estrangement from her father, and how she has determined, no matter what…that if called upon one day, no matter how much time may have passed…she says she will, claim him. JOIN THE MAILING LIST: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/QfcGHMm/thereleasepodcast About Pamela: https://www.pamelaprickett.com/ About The Release Podcast: https://thereleasepodcast.com/ #unclaimed #unclaimedbodies #pamelaprickett #familytrauma #familyrelationships #familybonds #book #author
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    1 hr and 2 mins