• Divorce: Sarah's Story - 'Take a Break' | S4 | E8
    Oct 16 2024

    Join Rachel, Lucy and Sarah for Episode 8 of The Skies We’re Under.

    This episode we are talking all about divorce. Continuing our theme of families, we have to cover things not working out the way we planned (as it so often does). The episode includes candid conversations about the complexities of family life, relationships, and how the challenges of parenting a disabled child can impact your relationship and perspective on life.

    Lucy and Rachel talk to Sarah about her divorce, reflecting on the impact of separation, the resilience of children, and the importance of support systems. The conversation highlights the emotional journey of navigating family dynamics, the balance between personal needs and responsibilities, and the unexpected perks that can come from separation.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

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    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

    We’re so happy that The Skies We’re Under is a free, independent podcast. Any sponsorship received is used to cover the costs of the production of episodes and compensate our valuable guests for their time. The hosts provide their time and efforts for free. They do, however, appreciate any offers of caffeination to keep them going – you can buy them a cuppa here…

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    41 mins
  • Marriage and Relationships - Remembering why you like each other | S4 | E7
    Oct 9 2024

    Joining Rachel on Episode 7 of The Skies We’re Under are two wonderful couples, from the Hull Parent Carer Forum exploring the relationship aspects of Families.

    Bren and Laura, Jenny and Karl reflect on how they met, how having disabled children has impacted their relationships, how they find time for each other, and what advice they would give to other couples facing the same challenges.

    It’s all about remembering what we love, who we are, and the connections we make.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using Speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

    We’re so happy that The Skies We’re Under is a free, independent podcast. Any sponsorship received is used to cover the costs of the production of episodes and compensate our valuable guests for their time. The hosts provide their time and efforts for free. They do, however, appreciate any offers of caffeination to keep them going – you can buy them a cuppa here…

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    39 mins
  • A Heart Full of Love - Grandparents | S4 | E6
    Oct 2 2024

    Join Rachel and Sarah for Season 4, Episode 6 of 'The Skies We’re Under' podcast.

    Today they are joined by two more wonderful ladies, who also happen to be their mums: Jan Hooks and Liz Goldsmith. They talk about how life turned upside down for them alongside their children.

    In this moving episode, Sarah and Rachel also discuss a summer which has seen both of them facing some significant changes to their households, especially Rachel. There is also a recurring theme of getting pets as a form of coping with life throwing sh*t at you.

    Thanks to the lovely folk at Medequip for sponsoring this week's episode. Medequip is the leading provider of community equipment services to local authorities and the NHS across the UK, delivering a wide range of equipment and support to people in their own homes, keeping people independent for longer. You can find more about them and their work here.

    If you'd be interested in sponsoring an episode of The Skies We're Under, please contact us at TSWUpodcast@gmail.com.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    53 mins
  • Foster Carers - Sharing Lives with Dave May | S4 | E5
    Sep 25 2024

    CONTENT WARNING - This episode contains discussions about Fostering; Children With Difficult Childhoods; Mental Health Issues and Life Limiting Conditions. If this will be difficult for you to listen to, please choose another episode.

    Rachel is joined by Lucy today, as they continue to explore families and the different forms that families take.

    In particular they focus on fostering, and how that can feel from both a fostered child’s perspective, and that of a foster carer. They are joined by Dave May, listener to the podcast, father to two daughters, very proud Grandad and a foster carer for two decades.

    Dave talks through the experience of both short term and long term placements, his family’s experience of fostering disabled children and moving from fostering to shared lives when children reach adulthood.

    Dave reflects on the additional complexity when fostering disabled children and the wealth of experience gained from fostering 27 children. He also shares his top ‘Sh*t Things Practitioners Say’ (We told you he was a fan of the podcast!)

    For more information on shared Lives, and Fostering, please follow the links below:

    Shared lives information

    Fostering network

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    39 mins
  • Those Dads Look Like Me | S4 | E4
    Sep 18 2024

    Join Rachel for Episode 4 of The Skies We’re Under podcast, this week we’ve swapped out two Mum’s in exchange for two Dads (Brendan Jones and Tim Wright) - to get a different perspective on life as a parent of a disabled child.

    Whilst they cover many well trodden paths: the pain that can come with comparison, rubbish message delivery and the clanger of ‘special children get special parents’ they illustrate a slightly different story.

    Brendan and Tim focus on the difficulties of adjusting the life you had imagined, to the life you have whilst dealing with the traditional roles that Fathers often (but not always) fulfil. From focussing on practical support, to ‘making up’ on the weekends, they consider the ways that stereotypically male ways of coping, can both help, and hinder.

    There is plenty of reflection on finding the right communities of support around us, including the fantastic charity 'Unique', to how to talk to those who ‘get it’ and those who don’t, and just how sometimes you need to just get away from it all.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    52 mins
  • Sibling Stories (Part 2) Always Watching the Phone | S4 | E3
    Sep 13 2024

    Join Rachel, Sarah and Lucy for 'Part Two' of our episode on siblings. They reflect on the discussions with their children, and the unique insight that siblings of disabled children have, that are so rarely heard.

    They discuss the heartbreak, the admiration for how bloody lovely they are, and their honesty (some stories they heard were new to them).

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    22 mins
  • Sibling Stories (Part 1) It's all Theme Park Passes and Preferential Parking | S4 | E2
    Sep 11 2024

    Join Rachel, Sarah and Lucy for Part One of our conversation with the absolutely amazing Daisy, Ocean and Tom, the super siblings who ‘belong to’ Sarah and Lucy.

    In addition to reflecting on how blooming awesome their kids are, (because they really are) the team also share more about the usual drama free lives they lead. From visits to documentary-meriting Accident and Emergency departments to dashes across Europe to breaking your foot when you are dancing in your bedroom.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    47 mins
  • Unprofessional Shenanigans | S4 | E1
    Sep 4 2024

    Welcome Back - Season 4 Baby!

    Episode 1 the terrific trio reflect on how the holidays have been, the emergence of the new school year, and also introduce the themes we’ll be reflecting on in this coming Season of The Skies We’re Under.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    27 mins