In this episode of The Stepmom Unfiltered Podcast, Adrienne and Amelia reflect on their decades of experience as stepmoms and discuss what they would do differently if given the chance. They dive into the nuances of stepparenting, the challenges of balancing roles, and the lessons learned from their past mistakes. From setting boundaries to understanding the differences between parenting and stepparenting, they share insights and advice for navigating the world of blended families. Tune in to hear about the importance of building strong foundations, recognizing the impact of personal history on present relationships, and the critical role of communication and boundaries.

HIGHLIGHTS:

• Understanding the Stepmom Role: The importance of recognizing stepparenting as a distinct role, with its own challenges and nuances.

• Boundaries and Balance: How setting boundaries sooner could have made a difference in managing relationships and ensuring personal well-being.

• Reflecting on Past Experiences: Personal stories and insights into the mistakes made and lessons learned in the early days of being a stepmom and the importance of seeking help and advice early on.

• Personal Growth and Self-awareness: The realization of how personal history and past experiences can impact current relationships and parenting styles. Emphasizing the journey of self-awareness and growth in becoming a better stepmom and partner.

RESOURCES & LINKS:

Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom

Website: theartofblendedchaos.com

YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered

FOLLOW:

The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos

Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach

Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach

This week we dive into the complex and often emotional process of blending physical spaces in a stepfamily. Hosts Amelia and Adrienne share their personal experiences, from moving into a home with a history to creating new memories and making a space feel truly yours. Listen in as they discuss the unexpected challenges, emotional hurdles, and practical solutions for making a blended family home a place of comfort and belonging.

HIGHLIGHTS:

• Personal Experiences: Amelia shares her journey of moving into a home her husband bought with his ex-wife and the unexpected emotional challenges that arose.

• Emotional Hurdles: The struggle of dealing with the physical reminders of a partner's past and how it can impact a stepmom’s sense of belonging.

• Practical Solutions: The importance of creating new memories, making changes to the home, and the significance of communication in navigating these challenges.

• Building Together: The benefits of working together to make a house feel like a home, including purchasing new items and making joint decisions.

• Grace and Understanding: Encouragement to give yourself grace during this process and the reminder that it’s okay to feel uncomfortable and take time to adjust.

RESOURCES & LINKS:

Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom

Blog: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/livinginhisexwifeshouse

https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/livinginhisexwifeshouse

Website: theartofblendedchaos.com

YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered

FOLLOW:

The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos

Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach

Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach

Hosts Amelia and Adrienne talk about what they feel have been some of the hardest parts of being a stepmom. They share their personal experiences, from dealing with different parenting styles in blended families to managing relationships with stepchildren. The conversation highlights the importance of ego, acceptance, and understanding in navigating the complexities of stepparenting. This candid discussion aims to provide stepmoms with insights, support, and the realization that they are not alone in their journey.

HIGHLIGHTS:

• Hardest Part of Being a Stepmom:

• • Amelia discusses the challenge of not having control over how children are parented in different homes.

  • Emphasis on accepting different parenting styles and trusting that other parents love the kids equally.

  • Adrienne talks about the role of ego and the importance of recognizing that different ways of parenting are not necessarily wrong, but different.

• Ongoing Journey and Self-Reflection:

• • The hosts highlight the continuous nature of stepparenting, emphasizing that there's no final destination.

• Easiest Part of Blended Families:

• • Both hosts reflect on the surprisingly smooth blending of their families.

RESOURCES & LINKS:

Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom

Website: theartofblendedchaos.com

YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered

FOLLOW:

The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos

Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach

Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach