It's been a while...

while I've been away I've upgraded, evolved, levelled up...

basically I've just been spending all my time healing, working through trauma, started to love myself, been learning accept my self completely.

It's been an intense journey, filled with pain, the love I've always dreamed of and shedding a life and a version of myself that had to go.

I cant wait to tell you everything, the chaos, the experiences, the wildness that these past few months have been.

I've missed this, I hope you've missed me..

we have so much to catch up on xx

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why have I always been so unsuccessful on my quest for love?

Recollecting myself after coming out a repeating scenario with my mum, I've been hit with finally acknowledging abandonment wounds and how those wounds have played a role in my behaviours when searching for a relationship and why I have so desperately wanted one.

Not going to lie this felt like I was going to therapy with myself as the therapist but when is it not?

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