Ready to go deeper? Join Mike and Courtney on June 8th for a 90-minute live deep dive on the To Be Seen and Heard Framework.👉Sign up for Seen & Heard a Sacred We deep dive: https://www.thesacredwe.com/Heard&SeenIf you clicked this, some part of you doesn't feel seen. This episode starts by honouring that ache — and then it gives you a map.In this raw and deeply personal solo episode, Mike Elliott traces the arc of his own unseenness from childhood to adulthood — and distils everything he's learned into three grounded, practical points.It starts with a rupture. Mike had a best friend from the age of 5 to 12. A fight, a shame spiral, and no one to guide him through the repair. His parents didn't notice. No one attuned. So he disappeared — three years of isolation, a skateboarding obsession, and the quiet belief that something was fundamentally wrong with him.Then, at 16, he became a lifeguard. People saw him. Women wanted to date him. His whole reality cracked open. Not because he'd changed — but because he'd finally found a mirror. And what that mirror showed him is one of the most powerful illustrations of what feeling seen actually does to a human being.This episode covers:The two root causes of not feeling seen — and why one of them has nothing to do with your partnerWhy our culture has trained us to immediately reciprocate compliments rather than actually receive themThe sabotage cycle: attracting love, then pushing it away — and what's underneath itWhat's actually needed: teaching someone how to see you vs. waiting for them to figure it outThe bedroom moment — Mike asks Courtney to see him as a father, slows down to let it land, and watches something unexpected happen from the overflowThe 30-second practice that starts rewiring your capacity to receive"Every single human being needs to feel seen, heard, and understood to integrate their lived experience and truly belong."If you want to go deeper, Mike and Courtney are hosting a 90-minute live deep dive on June 8th — going two inches wide and two miles deep on the To Be Seen and Heard framework. Details in the show notes.And if this episode is calling you toward the relational work itself — Courtney's Mapping Your Imprints Masterclass, her 1:1 private container, and Mike and Courtney's 2:2 couples work are all available. Links below.We love you. Let yourself be seen.Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call →Tune-in Call with Courtney👉Sign up for our couples list HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 → https://www.thesacredwe.com/sacred-relating-couplesWork with Mike → https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coachingWork with Courtney → https://www.courtneywren.com/rebirth📺Subscribe to our YouTube Channel → https://www.youtube.com/@thetogetherpodcast🏹Join the Initiated Man →https://www.skool.com/theinitiatedman💎 Join the Waitlist for The Holy Mama Membership →https://www.courtneywren.com/holymamawaitlistFollow: @sacredrelating | @MikeElliott.Relating | @courtneywren.relatingWebsite: www.itsmikeelliott.comhttps://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwewww.courtneywren.comEmail:transform@itsmikeelliott.comrelating@courtneywren.com
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