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WARNING: This week's podcast contains discussions of violence and rape. These topics can be triggering for some listeners. Listen with tissues and caution.

Our discussion begins with at-home karaoke practice and a Tori Kelli concert and unfolds into an unforgettable night of encounters. A dramatic reunion and a humorous run-in with a familiar face from the past set the tone, but things took an emotional turn when we found a man grieving his recently deceased mother. Our instincts kicked in, leading to a deeply compassionate interaction that showcased the power of human connection. This experience made us reflect on the bystander effect and the importance of taking action to help others in need.

Bringing the night full circle, we ended with some light-hearted nightclub adventures. Dancing, surprising encounters with quirky characters, and even a chance run-in with a past fling added to the delight. We also touched on navigating self-doubt and celebrated personal victories, emphasizing the importance of being genuine and vulnerable. Join us for this roller-coaster of emotions, laughter, and reflections on empathy and human connection.

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Find out this week if Kaleb ever made his Dentist appointment and which celebrities Kyle ran into in Provincetown (spoiler alert! It was Tammy Brown and Billy Eichner).

Ever wondered why gay vacation spots like P-Town or Puerto Vallarta hold such a special allure? We get real about the affordability, the unique dynamics in personal and romantic relationships, and the emotional rollercoaster that sometimes comes with these trips. With candid discussions about visualizing friends naked (thanks to their TMI stories) and an unforgettable underwear party encounter, we delve into the beautiful yet complex world of gay vacation culture and relationships.

Next, Kyle gives Kaleb a Gay Hookup Culture Quiz. We dive into the concept of demisexuality and share some personal stories about transformative journeys from homophobia to acceptance. Plus, you'll hear about an unforgettable birthday hookup that involves champagne, oysters, and an Aston Martin dealership, wrapping up with a playful "Fuck, Marry, Murder" game with a twist that ties natural disasters to relationship quirks. Tune in for a mix of humor, insight, and heartfelt moments!

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This week, we're diving into the world of skincare, with Jamil as our honored guest and skincare guru. If you're like Kyle, and know next to nothing about skincare, then tune in for easy, affordable, and accessible tips and tricks to take care of your skin. In the episode, we reminisce on our acne struggles, share our current skincare routines (or lack thereof), and discuss our favorite products. We also dive into the pressure of looking young—especially in the LGBTQIA+ community.

The conversation swerves from hilarious skincare confessions to tangents about the side effects of Accutane that’ll have you cackling. Between genuine advice and laugh-out-loud moments, this episode is a fun mix of beauty, friendship, and relatable chaos.

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Have you ever sniffed out elk scat or found yourself illegally pocketing rocks from a national park? Join us as we recount our quirky and adventurous road trip to the Hoh National Rainforest, filled with memorable moments. From practicing baton routines to recounting the hilarity of "Big Mama's House," our mutual love for music serves as the soundtrack to our escapades. This episode is a heartfelt and humorous exploration of the songs that made us, reminding us of the joy in singing childhood tunes, no matter how off-key we might be.

Join us on our nostalgic journey as we relive the iconic moments from "Crossroads" and "Coyote Ugly" and the impact that Britney Spears had on us. We also celebrate the golden era of female country artists (and the US economy) like Faith Hill, Shania Twain, and The Chicks. Our musical journey wouldn't be complete without sharing the heartfelt stories that connected us to songs that give us all the feels. Don't miss the funniest Victory & Vice of the season, filled with Kyle's DIY mishaps and Kaleb's bathroom habits that will leave you laughing and nodding in agreement.

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Join us as we set up shop in our makeshift, beach studio in La Push, Washington, as embark on a whimsical journey through "Twilight" obsessions, the power of nature, and our dependence on technology.

Do you rememberthe days of dial-up internet and the thrill of early gaming consoles? We take you back to those simpler times by sharing our fond memories of childhood outdoor adventures and evolving technology. We reflect on how these experiences shaped us, even influencing our adult lives, from wine tasting notes to our appreciation for nature. We dive into the challenges and joys of integrating technology into our lives, reminiscing about pre-GPS navigation and the impact that social media has on mental health.

We get candid about our struggles with technology addiction, the constant dopamine hits from apps like Instagram, and the difficulties of maintaining balance. Hear our thoughts on the profound connection between empaths and bodies of water, and the soothing power of nature in an overly connected world. Whether recounting the excitement of video games or the tranquility of disconnecting through music, this episode offers a heartfelt exploration of our love-hate relationship with technology and the enduring joy of nature.

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Relive the joy of childhood sports, on this week’s episode, as we recount our vastly different athletic upbringings. Picture one of us picking flowers on a soccer field while the other took on a demanding roster of sports from baseball to gymnastics.
Our tales of family influence, competitive spirits, and the occasional misadventure—like a dramatic fall from a 40-foot rope—offer a humorous and heartfelt look at how sports shaped our lives. You'll hear about the sheer thrill and occasional comedic moments that formed the bedrock of our childhood experiences.

Explore the empowering world of gay sports leagues and the transformative nature of sports within the gay community. From overcoming homophobia on and off the field to winning respect and allies in unexpected places, our stories highlight the resilience and joy found in inclusive athletic environments. Celebrate the unity in diversity, the friendships forged, and the personal victories achieved. Plus, get a peek into our shared admiration for Olympians like Adam Rippon and Tom Daley, and the profound connections that spark creativity and personal growth in our everyday lives. Join us for an episode filled with laughter, nostalgia, and the celebration of community through sports.

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Ever wondered how a wild photo shoot in Mexico could lead to a profound conversation on financial wellness? You'll hear hilarious anecdotes about Kyle's sister's spontaneous spending habits and her love for girl math, while we balance the importance of saving for the future with living in the moment. From 401k rollovers to retirement accounts, this episode offers a blend of humor and practical advice.

Growing up with varying financial resources shaped our views on money and work, and we share heartfelt stories about the strength drawn from community and family support. We delve into the emotional aspects of managing money within relationships, discussing the impact of financial education, or lack thereof, and how it shapes our relationship with money. We offer some practical budgeting tips like the 50/30/20 rule and strategies for building a rainy-day fund, with the understanding that everyone's financial needs are different and there's no one-size-fits-all answer.

Through sharing out own financial horror stories of job loss, moving, and breakups, we highlight the incredible value of finding a supportive community and proactive financial planning. Join us as we embrace authenticity and connection, proving that resilience and meaningful experiences triumph over monetary value.