So many women feel the pressure to “post the right way,” grow faster, or stay visible enough to please the algorithm and yet, that pressure is the very thing keeping them stuck in comparison, overthinking, or burnout.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to show up consistently and confidently without performing for numbers… and how to build an online rhythm that honors both your calling and your well-being. You’ll hear real stories, faith-centered encouragement, and five practical shifts you can apply immediately to create from clarity, not pressure.

In This Episode, We Cover:
• Why the pressure to “keep up” online feels so heavy — and what it’s actually rooted in
• How to use metrics in a healthy, grounded way that supports your mission instead of hijacking it
• Five mindset + strategy shifts to help you show up with peace, purpose, and confidence

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In today’s conversation, I’m joined by Dr. Shiloh Werkmeister — a psychotherapist, author, and speaker who blends the science of psychology with real-life strategies to help women protect their energy, set unapologetic boundaries, and live with unshakable confidence.

Together, we talk about what it really means to protect your peace while pursuing your purpose. From learning when to say “no” without guilt, to recognizing the early signs of burnout, to navigating feedback and expectations as a faith-centered leader, this episode will help you create space for what God’s truly called you to carry.

Dr. Shiloh also shares wisdom from her powerful book, The Unbothered Button, including what it means to “press” it in everyday life and how to emotionally regulate when boundaries get tested.

If you’ve been feeling stretched thin or spiritually drained, this conversation will remind you: boundaries don’t limit your calling, they protect it.

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Instagram: @dr_shiloh_speaks
Website: drshilohspeaks.com
Book: The Unbothered Button on Amazon

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Learn more about 1:1 coaching at www.destinypickens.com

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If you’ve ever felt called to share your story or message but struggle to put it into words, this episode is for you.

In Episode 3 of the Your Message Matters season, Destiny unpacks the heart of what it means to find clarity in your calling, moving from confusion and overthinking to confidence and focus in what God has assigned you to say.

You’ll discover how to quiet the noise of comparison, identify the unique message woven through your story, and take practical, faith-led steps toward communicating it with purpose. This episode will help you connect the dots between your story, passion, and people so you can speak with conviction and stop second-guessing your voice.

If you’re tired of feeling scattered or stuck trying to “figure it all out,” this conversation will remind you that clarity doesn’t come from perfection, it comes from presence and obedience.

Scripture References:

• Habakkuk 2:2
• Proverbs 16:3

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How Faith-Driven Women Can Overcome the Fear of Visibility

If you’ve ever felt that tug to speak, teach, or share your story but stopped short because you were afraid of being judged or misunderstood, this episode of The Uniquely You Podcast was made for you.

Host Destiny Pickens, Christian brand and communication coach, unpacks the mindset and spiritual battle of visibility that keeps so many purpose-driven women hiding their gifts. You’ll learn how to move past self-doubt, perfectionism, and the fear of judgment so you can show up boldly in the spaces God has called you to.

Resources & Next Steps

• Connect with Destiny on Instagram → @msdestinypickens
• Explore coaching and free resources at www.destinypickens.com

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In this kickoff episode of The Uniquely You Podcast season, Destiny shares a powerful truth for every faith-driven woman who feels called to more: your message has a mission.

If you’ve ever questioned whether your story really matters or felt unqualified to share it, this episode will remind you that God can use every part of your journey — even the messy middle — for impact.

You’ll learn how your story, passion, and purpose work together to reveal the message God has placed within you and how to begin walking it out with confidence and obedience.

This episode is for the woman who knows she’s called to speak, lead, or create but needs the courage to believe her story is enough, because it is.

🎧 Listen now to uncover how to:

• Identify the message God has placed within your story
• Step into your calling without waiting for “perfect”
• Share your story with clarity, courage, and purpose

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for coaching and resources
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A brand-new season of the Uniquely You podcast is coming your way.

📅 Launching Friday, October 10th
8 powerful episodes, dropping every Friday through November 28th

We’re going to dive into how to:
✔️ Get clear on your message
✔️ Overcome fear and doubt
✔️ Step into the influence you were created for

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Today’s episode is a little different, I’m pulling back the curtain on the exciting changes coming to The Uniquely You Podcast.

This has always been a space for faith, growth, and clarity, and that’s not changing. But we’re stepping into a new chapter with deeper conversations on how to use your voice, share your message, and lead with impact, whether you’re leading at work, building a brand, or stepping into a new season of influence.

I’ll share what’s ahead, who I feel called to serve, and how you can be part of this journey. If you’ve been with me for a while or you’re just tuning in, this is the perfect time to jump in and see what’s next.

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In the final episode of our Belonged All Along summer series, we’re ending with a name we all know—but a story we often rush past. Mary, the mother of Jesus, was young, overlooked, and living in an ordinary town. Yet through her surrender, history shifted.

This episode is a deep, reflective look at Mary’s journey—from angelic announcement to the foot of the cross—and how her life invites us to say yes to God even when it’s unclear, uncomfortable, or costly.

We’ll explore:

• Why God so often chooses the overlooked
• What obedience looks like when you don’t have the full picture
• How faith can carry both deep joy and deep sorrow

Scripture References:
📖 Luke 1:26–38
📖 Luke 2:1–7
📖 John 2:1–11
📖 John 19:25–27
📖 John 1:46

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