Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?)

Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry.

• Social V's Sexy: why holding court makes you look “unavailable,” the “talk block,” and how intent signals attraction better than endless banter.
• 6 Social Archetypes that Miss the Moment: the MC, the Talker, the Broad Flirt, the RBF, the “One More Drink,” and the Ghost
• Poll Results: 47% chat and forget to switch to play; 47% sometimes drift that way
• From Flirt to Close: specific lines that move things forward (“Are you free later?” vs. “Wanna go now?”)
• Listener Q: Tiffany’s husband holds court; Cate’s tactics to isolate, redirect, and actually get to a playroom
• Animal Fact Interlude: UV-glowing platypuses and cube-pooping wombats (you’re welcome, Charlotte).

EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations.

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties

Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands.

We talk wins, fails, costs, dress codes, and why playrooms (or the lack of them) can make or break your night. Cate also shares a real-life health check-in on managing recurring UTIs in the lifestyle and the impact on travel, play, and partnership.

• Cap d’Agde, Round Two: language barriers, daytime soloing while your partner works, poolside flirtation, and making the most of peak-season crowds

• Babylone Pool Party: why it still tops our list for “sex-charged pool vibes” (and how to navigate it as a couple)

• Foam Party at Le Glamour Beach: shoulder-to-shoulder mayhem, VIP bed sticker shock, and strategies when you can’t secure a cabana

• Flamigo Events (Belgium): great DJs, pricey drinks, token systems, and why “sexy party” ≠ “swingers party” if there’s nowhere to play

• SDC World Party (Netherlands): last-minute municipal restrictions, and how to salvage a night out

• Costs & Value: what we actually spent vs. what we got (tickets, hotels, water, and those sneaky cup fees)

• Safety & Autonomy: why Cate feels safer at lifestyle events than at normal clubs — and how to set boundaries when attending with friends or a single guy

• Travel Planning for Lifestyle Events: don’t over-commit for unproven parties, read past reviews, and always have a Plan B (after-parties, club backups, pre-arranged connections)

• Verify the format (swingers club vs. sexy dance party) before you book suites and tailor outfits.

• Have a backup plan: pre-message on dating sites, line up an after-party, or keep a reputable club in your pocket

• Mind the logistics: token drink systems, locker processes, heat/AC, and dress-down rules can heavily affect your night.

• Health in the lifestyle: proactive UTI management, pacing your play, and honest partner communication.

• Trip length matters: 4 days vs. 6 days at Cap d’Agde — what actually feels good for different personalities.

EP207 – How Not to Get Laid at Lifestyle Events (aka: are you “social swinging” your way out of play?).

• Libertine Events – U.S. & EU Takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale and France in 2026)

• Patreon – BTS photos, outfits & bonus audio

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• Join SDC the worlds largest Lifestyle Swingers Dating Site

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP205 – Sexual Health Awareness Month: STI Testing for Swingers with STD Hero (and why “safer sex” beats “safe sex”)

Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts—and two experts.

Today we’re joined by Alan Brock, founder of STD Hero, and Dr. William Budd, CEO of Alliant Lab Consulting, to talk real-world STI testing for swingers, myths that need to die (no, you can’t blame a truck-stop toilet seat), incubation windows, oral vs. penetrative risk, site-specific swabs, and why regular screening plus straight-up conversations make play hotter and safer.

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• Myth Busting 101 – Toilet seats, “clinic tests are the only real tests,” and the HSV antibody red-X problem

• Incubation Windows – Why most results are meaningful at ~2 weeks, and Mgen needs ~3–4

• Oral vs Penetrative Risk – Where gonorrhea shows up most, when dental dams matter, and “safer” vs “safe”

• HPV Deep Dive – Vaccines, oral HPV, head & neck cancer screening, and when to add annual checks

• Lifestyle Scenarios – Two couples, two play patterns: what to test, and how often

• Hot Seat – Why STD Hero includes site-specific swabs and keeps prices lower (hint: they’re the lab)

• Fact or Fiction Lightning Round – Condoms, syphilis from oral, monthly testing, and cruise-week “clearance” fantasies

• Why quarterly testing works for low-frequency, barrier-using couples—and why monthly makes sense for frequent players

• The 2-week rule (and 3–4 weeks for Mycoplasma genitalium) after events before you rely on a negative

• Why site-specific swabs (throat/anal) catch infections urine-only panels miss

• HSV & HPV realities: antibodies ≠ contagious today; why HPV screening still matters even if vaccinated

• How to talk about risk appetite and recent play with new partners without killing the vibe

• The truth about at-home vs clinic testing (licensed lab methods are the same; cheaters can cheat anywhere)

• Practical cue: if an oral sore sticks around beyond a few days, get it checked

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• Language matters: say safer sex, not safe sex—there’s always some risk.

• After big events: wait ~2 weeks (Mgen: 3–4 weeks) for the most reliable results; test sooner only if you’ll retest.

• Oral counts: expect more oral gonorrhea than other oral STIs; don’t skip throat swabs.

• HPV plan: screen annually; if positive, recheck in 6 months + ask your dentist about fluorescent oral screenings.

• Don’t alternate testing between partners to “save money”—immune responses vary by person.

• Transparency turns people on: share dates of last test, where you played, and what you’re comfortable with now.

This episode shares expert perspectives and practical lifestyle strategies. For personal healthcare decisions, consult your clinician.

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EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies

Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros?

We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this trip had it all.

Stick around for the segments:

Paris Stopover Shenanigans – Les Chandelles on a Sunday, Darrell’s multi-orgasmic play, and why our group rocked the dress code fit Babylone Nights – The champagne pussy, Cate’s open-crotch challenge, and poolside daisy chains Pool Parties & Orgies – Floating blowjobs, public anal, and our DIY beachside orgy Foam Party Madness – cancelled, then back on, then VIP bed debauchery with a Canadian twist Finale Night – cheese, wine, pop rocks, and bouncy ball dick riding

• Why Cap isn’t luxury… but it is unforgettable

• Public sex etiquette at pool parties

• The difference between French and Canadian play styles

• Cate’s inevitable UTI (yes, again)

• Tips for booking VIP beds, blending in, and keeping the vibe fun

• Success tips for those thinking of going to Cap D'Agde as a Swinger

Cap d’Agde: The Ultimate Swingers Guide Le Glamour Swingers Club Cap d’Agde Review Patreon – Behind the Scenes Costumes & Photos Join Us at Cap d’Agde 2026 – Libertine Events Newsletter

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP203 – Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience

Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?

We’re diving into France’s infamous "Naked City" with first-timers Ben & Kate from the UK—sharing what it’s really like to strip down, party hard, and play freely in one of the world’s most iconic non-monogamous travel destinations.

From body confidence wobbles to naked grocery runs, group foam party flings, and boundary-testing solo play, this episode is equal parts hilarious, sexy, and honest AF.

Stick around for the segments:

Hot Seat Quickies – foam or finesse? Nudity or nightlife? Sexy surprises and flirty regrets.

Guess Who: Cap d’Agde Edition – is that a mesh thong and too much cologne, or are we imagining things?

Prison Wallets & Pool Parties – yes, that’s a thing. Yes, we explain it. No, you won’t forget it.

The Moose Party & Babylon Vibes – what to expect, what to pack, and why you might never want to leave.

Tips for Cap First-Timers – boundaries, blunders, solo moments, sneaky threesomes, and finding your tribe (while naked).

Whether you're Cap-curious, dreaming of your first naked beach walk, or just here for the stories of awkward sex club tunnels and golden body jewelry envy—this episode delivers everything you didn’t read on the Cap d’Agde travel forums.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• The surprising psychology of public nudity

• Body image vs. body liberation

• Sexy moments, awkward encounters, and one creepy Dutch guy

• Connection vs. compersion in foursomes and solo play

• Why Cap is not just for swingers—and who it’s definitely not for

• Top Cap tips: what to pack, what to book, and what to avoid

Useful Links from this Episode: Cap d’Agde The Ultimate Swingers Guide – https://wanderlustswingers.com/cap-dagde-the-ultimate-swingers-guide/ Libertine Events 2025 / 2026 Takeovers – https://libertineevents.com/ Join the Conversation on Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP202 – Solo Hotwife Play Date: From Lingerie Nerves to a CU-soaked Finish

Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward.

From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo hotel date with a single guy. Darrell weighs in with his thoughts on compersion, the thrill of being included before and after, and what it's like when your partner comes home smelling like someone else’s cologne.

Plus, a listener question dives into whether solo play still counts if it's only with people you've previously played with—and how to handle that tricky dynamic when it feels like freedom with limitations.

In This Episode:

🔹 The real logistics of setting up a hotwife solo date 🔹 How it feels to include your partner without them being there 🔹 Play anxiety, body compliments, and sensual 69s 🔹 The five-hour play session, the pounding, and the cum-soaked ending 🔹 Why this listener’s question about “controlled solo play” hits close to home 🔹 Red vs Black lingerie: how to ruin a sexy setup in two sentences 🔹 Reclaiming sex or just raw excitement?

Quick Links & Goodies:

• Get the behind-the-scenes pics + pre/post-play video on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder
• Join our upcoming Swingers Events Libertine Events https://libertineevents.com/
• Find out more about global events on our podcast website https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/

Coming Soon:

August 6th: Our Paris & Cap d’Agde travel episode, recorded just before our return to the naked city!

Whether you're hotwife curious, deep into the lifestyle, or just here for the chaos and chemistry—this episode is pure swinger gold.

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak

Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host.

We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties.

Stick around for the segments:

• Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event

• What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits?

• True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes

• If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are)

• Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it

• Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts

Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator).

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups

• Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway

• Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction?

• Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more)

• How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers

• Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans

Useful Links from this Episode: Casual Swinger Podcast – https://casualswinger.com/ Libertine Events Miami Swingers Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Libertine Events San Antonio Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/

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EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks

In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed.

We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club in Toronto — where a hotwife glory hole scene played out in real-time.

You’ll also hear about:

• What makes a club feel sexy (or not)

• Swingers vs. sex clubs: what’s the difference?

• Party diversity, drug culture at events, and the illusion of no-phone policies

• Cate’s secret hotwife escapade: from business-bitch lingerie to anonymous cock sucking

Plus, we tease what’s ahead for Cap d’Agde, share a major Libertine Events milestone, and celebrate hitting 200 episodes without a single piña colada spilled on the mic. Cheers, you filthy animals.

• Swingers Clubs Reviewed – CitySwingers (Copenhagen), Party Players (NL), and The X Club (Toronto)

• Dress Down Disasters – From mismatched underwear to sensory shutdowns

• Hotwife Glory Hole Fantasy – Cate and a stranger's cock, one hole, zero hesitation

• Diversity Wins – Why inclusive swinger parties feel better

• Behind the Curtain – Real talk on party rules, event polish, and the drug-vibe spectrum

Useful Links from this Episode:

• Support Us + Access Exclusive Content - https://patreon.com/swingingdownunder
• X Club Tour on YouTube - https://youtu.be/YFmlAlm42E0?si=-h1iBPwUTnIVoI63
• X Club Toronto Website - https://www.thexclub.net/
• Party Players Lelystad (Netherlands) - https://partyplayers.nl/
• CitySwingers Copenhagen (Denmark) - https://www.swingeren.dk/
• Libertine Events – Swingers Takeovers & Parties - https://libertineevents.com
• Contact Us - email@wanderlustswingers.com

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